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Delanie Fischer is joined by New York Times bestselling author and wellness leader, Kris Carr, to discuss her experience thriving with stage IV cancer for over 20 years. Kris shares about the moment she received her diagnosis, how long she was given to live, and how it changed the course of her life — including her health, relationships, and career. Whether you've received a diagnosis, struggle with perfectionism around wellness, have a hard time prioritizing what matters most to you, or need a boost of courage to start something new, this episode is packed with insights.Plus:+ 2 Questions That Will Change Your Life+ A Mindset Hack To Reduce Rumination+ Kris Carr's 5 Pillars of WellnessMore episodes related to this topic:Gratitude, Presence, And Surviving Cancer (Twice) with Janet Knode: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/340285b3/gratitude-presence-and-surviving-cancer-twice-with-janet-knodeReceiving A Cancer Diagnosis with Sofiya Alexandra: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/6f93a8cd/surviving-cancer-with-sofiya-alexandraRumination: How To Break A Negative Thought Loop: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1a24bc64/rumination-how-to-break-a-negative-thought-loopDebunking Nutrition Myths with Registered Dietician, Dr. Pamela Fergusson: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2af06551/debunking-nutrition-myths-with-registered-dietician-dr-pamela-fergusson50 Simple And Delicious Vegan Swaps: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1f47872a/50-simple-and-delicious-vegan-swapsExploring Perfectionism with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/d69d8eee/exploring-perfectionism-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischerYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Former Deputy Sheriff, Joy Farrow, and Technologist and Domestic Violence Survivor, Laura Frombach, share how to protect yourself, and others, in everyday situations that result in high levels of crime, and which 3 simple tools you can carry to stay safe. Full episode with Joy and Laura: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/218dac18/10-simple-safety-tips-you-need-to-know-with-joy-farrow-and-laura-frombachYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Delanie Fischer is joined by best-selling author, counselor, and Attachment Theory expert, Thais Gibson. Thais breaks down the 4 different attachment styles (with some seriously juicy examples for each), and shares how fixed or flexible your attachment style is throughout your life, what differentiates an attachment style from a disorder, debunks common attachment theory misconceptions, and even gives Delanie a diagnostic of her own attachment style.Plus:+ 3 Things That Will Save Your Relationship+ Is it an Attachment Style or a Personality Disorder?+ The 4 Attachment Styles vs. The 5 Love LanguagesMore episodes related to this topic:7 Shocking Truths About Codependency And Addiction with Heidi Rain: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24c74079/7-shocking-truths-about-codependency-and-addiction-with-heidi-rain6 Steps To Break A Toxic Relationship Pattern with Justine Carino: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1a75687c/6-steps-to-break-a-toxic-relationship-pattern-with-justine-carinoThe 4 Intimacy Styles with Dr. Viviana Coles: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2f3f2d2c/the-4-intimacy-styles-with-dr-viviana-colesHow Being Children of Divorce Has Influenced Our Relationships: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c146b94/how-being-children-of-divorce-has-influenced-our-relationshipsAttachment Styles with Jessica Michelle Singleton: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c815b8a/attachment-styles-with-jessica-michelle-singletonThe 4 Attachment Styles (And Our Quiz Results): https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2283b7fd/the-4-attachment-styles-and-our-quiz-resultsYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Creator of Zen Habits, Leo Babauta, shares how he finally quit smoking 20 years ago after 7 unsuccessful attempts, and the 5 practical things he did differently to make it stick for good.Full episode with Leo: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/39ed9a59/1-new-habit-can-change-your-entire-life-with-leo-babautaYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Delanie Fischer is joined by Bonnie Wan, author of The Life Brief: A Playbook For No-Regrets Living. They discuss Bonnie's 3-part Life Brief process (inspired by the professional concept of a creative brief) for gaining clarity and implementing small, but mighty, action during times of transition. Whether you're on the brink of burnout, stuck in indecision, or feel ready for a pivot, this episode will inspire you to start your own Life Brief and generate creative solutions that make the biggest impact. Plus:+ The 3 Phases of The Life Brief Process+ How To Get "Fuzzy Clear" When You Feel Stuck+ 1 Simple Exercise That Uncovers Your Biggest ValuesMore episodes related to this topic:Let's Define What Enough Means To YOU: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/20310cb2/lets-define-what-enough-means-to-youMini Habits by Stephen Guise: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/21d7febe/mini-habits-by-stephen-guiseSelf-Helpless Snack: How To Let Your Ideal Lifestyle Inspire Your Next Step with Olivia Mulford: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24291d42/self-helpless-snack-how-to-let-your-ideal-lifestyle-inspire-your-next-step-with-olivia-mulfordAtomic Habits by James Clear: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24bc636e/atomic-habits-by-james-clear10 Tips For Applying Minimalism To Your Space And Schedule: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/256a652b/10-tips-for-applying-minimalism-to-your-space-and-scheduleThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/33b48b31/the-7-habits-of-highly-effective-people-by-stephen-r-coveyYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Personal finance expert and self-made millionaire, Delyanne, simplifies the stock market, investing, debt, and building wealth — in under 5 minutes.Full episode with Delyanne: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1f2d8edd/how-to-build-wealth-with-delyanne-the-money-coachYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Delanie Fischer is joined by Olly Dove, who shares about a series of traumatic experiences — including waking up in the hospital with amnesia due to a mysterious seizure. She describes how these experiences impacted her OCD, relationships, and outlook on life. Plus, what's kept her grounded through fear and uncertainty, and how she's been able to accomplish big academic and athletic goals along the way. This episode is part of our summer series, "Subscriber Stories."Plus:+ 1 Story Olly Tells Herself To Reduce Anxiety+ Olly's Favorite Quote For Tough Days+ 3 Things That Are Helping Her HealMore episodes related to this topic:Living With Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) with Cy Amundson: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/219d26ec/living-with-obsessive-compulsive-disorder-ocd-with-cy-amundsonOCD and Overcoming Fear with Brian Regan: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/d79d56c0/ocd-and-overcoming-fear-with-brian-reganPost-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) with Licensed Therapist, Nadirah Habeebullah: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/327baacc/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd-with-licensed-therapist-nadirah-habeebullah15 Tips For Managing Stage Fright In Work And Life with Em Schulz and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/21e3bc9e/15-tips-for-managing-stage-fright-in-work-and-life-with-em-schulz-and-delanie-fischerYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Integrative Mental Health Specialist and Dreamworker, Claudia Barfoot, shares why we dream, what they're trying to tell us, how to remember and leverage your dreams to benefit your waking state, and the shocking link between dreaming and depression. Full episode with Claudia: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2078ac9f/the-importance-of-your-dreams-literally-with-claudia-barfootYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Delanie Fischer is joined by Renee Ash, TV personality from Peacock's Love Undercover, to discuss her experience as a cast member, and all that comes with it -- including visibility, online criticism, public heartbreak, personal growth, and more. Plus, the inside scoop on how a production like this operates! Whether you're a fan of reality shows, you're going through a break-up, or you're navigating some criticism, this episode has helpful tips, insights, and fun takeaways. Plus:+ 2 Ways To Filter Online Criticism To Help You Process+ Renee's Favorite (And Least Favorite) Quotes+ What Public Heartbreak Has Taught Her MostMore Self-Helpless episodes related to this topic:Self Expression with Queer Eye's Tan France: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2263ab7f/self-expression-with-tan-franceThe 4 Intimacy Styles with Dr. Viviana Coles of Married At First Sight: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2f3f2d2c/the-4-intimacy-styles-with-dr-viviana-colesYour Burning Relationship Questions Answered with Rachel DeAlto of MAFS: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/3f1ddb9c/your-burning-relationship-questions-answered-with-rachel-dealtoYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ex porn star, Jessie Rogers, shares what she wishes she knew before she got into the adult entertainment industry, misconceptions people have about adult film actors, and what new entertainers should consider before getting involved.Full episode with Jessie: https://podcasts.apple.com/il/podcast/ex-porn-star-jessie-rogers/id1251196416?i=1000513934034You can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices