The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

In this episode Nick and Amy talk about an article written by Cindy Scharkey titled "Understanding your desire style for better sex.” One of the most common arguments in marriage is over how often a couple is having sex. It comes down to one spouse wanting it more than the other which can lead to trouble in the bedroom... and overall relationship issues.  It is so important to understand each others "desire styles" and just because couples have mis-matched desire styles doesn't mean something is wrong with you or your spouse, it just means you have a different. When you better understand each other’s differences and discuss openly, things can change in a very positive way. Most men have a spontaneous desire, women are more responsive, and then there is combination desire. In this episode, you will learn about the different desire styles, and how to find balance and Ultimate Intimacy together.Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

"In marriage, sex is like food. It is a basic need vital for survival and it should be healthy, enjoyable and frequent. If it's not enjoyable it will feel like a chore, if it's not frequent you will feel starved, and if it's not healthy it can cause harm.” - Oliver and Denise Marcelle.That is a pretty bold statement, but very true. Just as our bodies need food to survive, so is sex in marriage. It is vital to surviving and having a happy and healthy marriage.  In this episode, Amy and Nick have the pleasure of talking with Oliver and Denise Marcelle - Authors, speakers, marriage coaches and podcasters, about why sex is vital for survival in marriage, why is it important for sex to be enjoyable, and  why frequency is so important. Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We often don't consider how what we say to our spouse can impact our emotional and physical intimacy as a couple, but what we say, and how we say it can have lasting effects for the positive or the negative. Are we expressing gratitude for the things our spouses do and the what we have, or are we looking at the negative things and allowing those to bring us down? Do we look at the glass as "half full" or "half empty" and how are we looking at our relationship with our spouse? Do we show respect by what we say to our spouse, or how we are communicating? Nick and Amy share some experiences and their thoughts on how our words can impact our intimacy.Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, Amy and Nick have the privilege of having Monica Tanner on, who is the host of the "On The Brighter Side of Marriage" Podcast to discuss how to take your relationship and sex from "Boring" to "Soaring!" Just as we do, Monica has a passion to help others thrive in their marriages and wants to help you do the same! If you feel like your marriage and sex life is boring, and want to take it to "soaring", then this episode is for you!Also, don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy discuss what loneliness in marriage is, and how to overcome it and bring back the intimacy. Loneliness can be caused from a spouse that works out of town, a new born child or kids taking priority, lack of communication, mental illness or many other reasons. In our online poll, 94% responded that they have felt loneliness in their marriage and shared the reasons why they got to that point, and how they resolved it in their own marriages. Also, don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy interview Andy Hill from the Marriage, Kids and Money Podcast and discuss how debt, financial issues, decisions and perception of money can impact your emotional and physical intimacy in your marriage. Even people that are very successful financially experience "financial issues" in their marriages. There are many things that could cause financial issues in a marriage. It could be debt, it could happen because one spouse is a spender and the other a saver,  or one spouse like to have things paid off and the other like to finance things, or maybe you have different short and long term financial goals as a couple. In our social media poll, 65% of couples that responded said that financial issues impact their intimacy as a couple. This is an episode you wont want to miss.Also, don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Do you ever feel like you and your spouse are just roommates living together? Are you wondering where the romance and excitement went like you had in the newlywed stage? How to do you get back the passion, romance and excitement in your marriage? In this episode Nick and Amy discuss these things and offer advice on how to re-connect and share the stats from our instagram poll.Also, don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Check out our amazing products such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy interview Cindy Scharkey with the "Permission For Pleasure" Podcast. Cindy is passionate about opening the doors for women to have conversations about expressing, experiencing and enjoying their sexuality. In this episode, they talk about how the clitoris is literally the "key" to unlocking female pleasure. For women who would like to find intimacy more enjoyable and better understand their bodies, and husbands who want to better understand where and how to please your wife, this episode is for you!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy have been receiving a bunch of questions from people on instragram and using the Ultimate Intimacy App. Nick and Amy answer many of the questions and also announce some exciting new things for the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand.Also, don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy interview Nate and Kaley Klemp,  the authors of the amazing new book "The 80/80 Marriage." The 80/80 Marriage is a book every couple needs to read as it discusses the flawed models and concepts of an 80/20 marriage, or a 50/50 marriage. With the new 80/80 model, couples can truly find an easier way to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriage. Learning how to balance roles in marriage as well as physical and sexual intimacy can be tricky, but with the 80/80 marriage mindset, you can find that your marriage becomes full of Ultimate Intimacy in all areas.  You can purchase The 80/80 Marriage Book HERE.Also, don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!