The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

In many of their previous podcasts, Nick and Amy have discussed things you can do in your marriage to create more emotional and physical intimacy, and also the things that can hurt intimacy in your marriage. Most of them are pretty common things that many couples deal with and recognize they impact their marriages...but there are also several hidden things that can "kill" the intimacy in your marriage and could be happening without you even knowing it. We took a poll and asked couples what kills intimacy in their marriages and very few people listed the things we have in this episode, so we know it can greatly help your marriage. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss the "hidden" intimacy killers in your marriage that you may not even be aware of, and how to fix them so you can find Ultimate Intimacy in your marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Many couple's don't discuss or feel the need to have boundaries in their marriage. They feel that boundaries take away freedom, or that they would only be needed due to a lack of trust in the relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth. Couple's that haven't discussed or agreed to certain boundaries in their marriage are much more likely to do something (even unintentionally) that could cause distrust or issues at some point in their marriage. Couples that have boundaries are much more likely to have MORE freedom and trust in their marriages and less problems as they have communicated and set boundaries in their relationship. If couples haven't discussed their boundaries  with the opposite sex,  or sexual boundaries in their own relationship, there is no line that is ever crossed if there is never a line (boundary established).Boundaries in marriage are a shield and a protection for your marriage....from all the onslaughts of the world trying to destroy marriages.In this episode, we discuss the boundaries in our marriage that we have established and how it has had protected our marriage. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

It's amazing all the distractions or little things that can get in the way, and keep a couple from connecting, which of course will negatively impact their marriage. So many of these distractions take place at the most critical time of the day (and place) where couples should be connecting the most... in the bedroom. Most couples dont realize the impact and consequences this has on their marriage, but with a few simple routines, the marriage can be transformed. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss 8 bedtime routines couples can do to help them connect before going to bed. These are simple things and will make all the difference in your marriage. Listen to this episode to find out what they are and to make a huge difference in your relationship. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We just had our 20th anniversary and we were discussing all the things we have learned  over the past 20 years of our marriage (which are many). There were a lot of expectations of what we thought marriage would be like, and perceptions of things in life with our relationship and how we viewed other relationships as well. Of course we were wrong about many of our expectations and perceptions of what we thought. The things we have learned have helped our marriage tremendously, and although everyone's marriages are different and unique based upon their background and life experiences, we think most of these things on our list will resonate with you and help you in your marriage!We also share many of the poll answers from our survey on social media "What have you learned from your marriage and what tips would you give  a married couple? We got hundreds of answers so thank you to everyone that shared their experiences and input in our social media poll!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, we share the results from the social media poll we did with our Ultimate Intimacy audience about husbands and wives favorite and least favorite sexual positions, the ideal times a week to be sexually intimate, tips for their spouse, and so much more! We also discuss the many benefits of sex and share the top voted sex positions. You might be as shocked as we were with the poll answers! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Last week we talked with Expedition Marriage about the 6 Things Your Husband Needs From You, so this week we want to talk to the husbands about the 6 Things Your Wife Needs From You. Often times in marriage we think for our marriage to change for the better, we have to do some major life changing things, but it is most often the small and simple things that make the difference in having a mediocre marriage to finding "Ultimate Intimacy"! and when you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage, it is amazing! Trust us, we have been there.... some of the things you as husbands can do for your wife's that they NEED from you are:Give her your attention. She wants to be listened toYour love and affection (not just when you want sex)Be vulnerable and create a deeper connectionIf you want to hear the rest, you will have to listen to the episode :).  When you are fulfilling each others needs, your marriage will be transformed. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Chris and Jamie Bailey with Expedition Marriage about an article they wrote on their blog about what husbands need to hear from their wive's. If you are a wife, these simple things can transform your marriage and are very easy to do. Your husband needs:To hear that you believe in him and support himSexual intimacy and to connect with youTo know you love, appreciate and respect himTo know you dont hold the past against himand others topics.Ladies, if you implement these things in your marriage, you will see a major change in your husband in a good way :).  Listen to this episode to find out all the things your husband need and ways you can find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

How to get your wife to want more sex?.... This is the million dollar question that most men would sell all they own to know the answer to ;) We polled over 1000 wives on social media to get REAL answers for you.Here are the questions we asked in the poll:What non-sexual things does your husband do that turns you on and gets you in the mood for sex?What things does your husband do to get you mentally in the mood for sex? What things does your husband do to make you instantly lose your desire for sex?Do you feel like the sexual intimacy in your marriage is positive? We know that every couple is different and some things work for some couples where they do not work for others, but there are some specific things that you as a husband can do to get your wife in the mood more often.We also have an article on our blog called "5 ways to get your wife to want more sex" which outlines the things a husband can do to get his wife in the mood for sex more often which you can find HERE. If you are a husband that would love to have more sexual intimacy with your wife, then this episode is for you! DISCLOSURE: We understand that it is not always the husband that wants sex more often than his wife does. In fact, we hear from many women that they are the higher sex drive spouse. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

The majority of people now days have an addiction to technology which has a significant impact on their sex life and relationship. The stats are incredible. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss an article from Emily Jamea called "The Modern Day Libido Killer" found HERE, and also share insights from an article from The 80/80 marriage, about how technology is killing our sex lives and relationships. If you and your spouse are not having sexual intimacy on a regular basis, technology is most likely one of the major reasons for this. In this day and age our minds are so consumed and distracted, it's hard to pay attention to sexual cues, feel in sync with our spouse, and get in the right frame of mind for sex. We took a poll on instagram to see what you think and get your thoughts and the results are quite incredible. We asked:Does technology keep you from connecting with your spouse?Do you have less sexual intimacy because of technology?Who is more addicted to their phone in marriage (husband or wife)?We also share some astonishing facts:How many times do you think the average person touches their phone per day? How many hours per day does the average adult spend on technology?50% of people admit to experiencing full-on behavior addiction to their phones.We also share a quiz from 80/80 Marriage on how to know if you have an addiction to the internet/technology. Want to know if you are addicted? Click HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy interview Dr. Kim Kimberling with Awesome Marriage about his online course "Marriage 911" to help couples re connect and find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriages.  Some of the topics they discuss in the podcast are: What is the wrong and right way to fight?What is healthy communication?Expectations in marriageBoundaries in and out of the marriageTurning to GodDealing with distractionsSex issuesFinances and how they impact marriageForgivenessHaving Fun!Check out the Marriage 911 Course HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!