The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Research shows around 50% of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce.  That is a staggering statistic! Why is this happening and what is causing this trend? While there are probably many answers to this question, but couples are obviously falling out of love.When couples are first dating, they do the things in the relationship that builds love and that continues to grow. They get married and think their whole life will be like it was when they were dating and the feelings will just grow, only to find out as time goes by, they slowing start to fall out of love. They stop working on the relationship, going on dates, doing fun things together and the things that caused them to fall in love. Love is something you have to constantly work on and for it to continue to grow, and if you stop doing the things that strengthen the love for each other, then the love is going to eventually wither away and die. When love is absent in a marriage, you just end up with 2 people living with each other.     In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the signs you could be falling out of love, and more importantly what you can do to change the direction and find "Ultimate Intimacy" again.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Many of us often wonder "what are the key things couples that have good marriages do differently?" In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the key elements of a healthy marriage. If you have these things in your marriage, you most likely have a wonderful marriage.In this podcast will will learn what these key elements are and how to implement them into your marriage to help you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Every parent want's their children to be happy in life, to do well and be successful. So what parent wouldn't do everything they can to make their kid's life better and easier? The problem is many parents take this to another level to the point they do everything for their child and destroy their marriage at the same time. This behavior is often referred to as "smothering parenting" (or helicopter parenting). Not only can this behavior cause significant issues for your kids longterm, but can also be detrimental your marriage at the same time. Sometimes good intentions can cause bad outcomes. In this episode Nick and Amy tackle this important subject and discuss what a "smothering parent" looks like, and how it can impact your marriage. Are you a smothering parent or worried about becoming one?? This is an episode that you won't want to miss. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We all go into marriage with expectations, and then we quickly find out it is much more difficult and different than expected with many disappointments along the way... and that's ok! Marriage isn't just about the final destination - it's about the journey together to get there. Of course there are going to be bumps, roadblocks, detours and many other unexpected obstacles... That is just part of life. We all have to make the journey, so no one is exempt. It's how you handle the journey the matters, but the great news is there are many different roads, that in the end, arrive at the same destination. Decide what road you want to take to get there.In this episode, we discuss how you can have a positive marriage in a negative world, and enjoy "your" journey together through life, and how to get through all these obstacles you will face along the way.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

According to MANY Divorce Attorneys, lack of intimacy is rated the #2  reason for divorce. #1 is most often infidelity.. which can often be the result of #2 (lack of intimacy). Bottom line, lack of intimacy/sex is one of THE main causes of divorce. There are so many couples that have deep love for each other and get along great, have fun times together and have everything a good and healthy relationship has…but because of the lack of sex (or importance of sex) in their marriage, it eventually ends in divorce.  This may sound harsh or even shallow, but it happens all the time and illustrates how important sex is in marriage regardless of how good all other aspects are. Nick and Amy discuss the amazing answers from  the instagram poll taken asking the following questions:Does making love help you feel less stressed and more confident?What are the reasons you crave sexual intimacy with your wife?How do you feel when you are rejected constantly?Does sex play an important role in your happiness in your marriage?Nick and Amy discuss How your husband really feels when you reject him sexually.A lot of women just think a man wants sex to take care of his needs. Nothing could be further from the truth. Sex is not just about sex to a man, but so much more. Sex is not just a "want" but a "need" for him. In this episode we discuss what rejection does to a man and a relationship over time and how to work through it.DISCLAIMER: We recognize there are many marriages where it is reversed, and the husband is the one rejecting their wife sexually which can cause the same emotions, feelings and problems in the marriage. We will address that in a future episode.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Sex is an AMAZING thing that can bring couples closer together, strengthen their marriage and be incredible for both of spouses if they are implementing good things into their relationship that brings them closer together. On the flip side, we all know there are also things (that if implemented in your sexual intimacy) can quickly tear couples apart and DESTROY their marriage. This may be one of the reasons we get a TON of people messaging us asking our thoughts and opinions regarding what is ok and not ok to do, seeking answers for their relationship. While some of the questions are of course very hard to answer as they are not as simple as just a "YES" or "No" response, there are things that WILL hurt your marriage that are a simple ok or not ok response. As everyone comes from different backgrounds, experiences and beliefs, what is ok and good for some couples may not be right for other couples. As there are a lot of people looking for answers to these difficult subjects, we thought it would be great to share what we do in "our" marriage to determine if something is going to strengthen our relationship, or hurt our relationship (ok or not ok).  For those that are also wondering what is ok and not ok for their marriage we will provide you simple ways that you can determine that for "your" relationship. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Want to know how to turn your spouse on (for both husband and wife) and drive them crazy in the bedroom? Nick and Amy share tips for how a husband can drive his wife crazy, and how a wife can drive her husband crazy in the bedroom. They share the things that have transformed their marriage and sexual intimacy. After 20 years of marriage, their sexual intimacy is better than it has ever been and their goal is to help couples find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationships. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

You look at some couples and see that the wife is madly in love with her husband, and you wonder.. "what is the secret"? Over the past several years we've talked to a lot of couples about things their husbands do to make them feel loved. There is also a great article from To Love Honor And Vacuum titled "10 Things husbands who are great lovers do" which we reference in this podcast as well. If you want to know the secrets that will make your wife madly in love with you, then this episode is for you!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We constantly talk about things couples can do to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationship. However, we understand that things are not always perfect in a relationship and fighting is something that is normal and healthy to do, but it is important to fight "the right way" so that your arguments and disagreements move your relationship forward and don't cause any harm or damage long term. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss "The Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Spouse When You Are Fighting". Just like a social media post or something you say on the internet that can never be erased, so is fighting with your spouse. Things that you say to your spouse in the heat of the moment can NEVER be taken back and can change the relationship forever, so it is extremely important what you say (and don't say) when you are fighting.Check out this episode to learn the things you should never say when arguing or  fighting.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Many couples wonder why their sex life isn't like what they see on tv, or in the movies and compare their marriage to things that are not realistic. Couples have myths about sex that keep them from having the "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriage that they deserve to have. Nick and Amy discuss some of these myths and offer solutions to help you find more sexual enjoyment (and frequency) in your marriage. - Do you have to be turned on (in the mood) to have sex?- Does sex have to be amazing and mind blowing all the time?- Do you compare your sex life to what you see on tv and movies and wonder why yours instantly like that?This episode will answer a ton of myths and help you experience more sexual enjoyment in your marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!