The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Last week we talked with Expedition Marriage about the 6 Things Your Husband Needs From You, so this week we want to talk to the husbands about the 6 Things Your Wife Needs From You. Often times in marriage we think for our marriage to change for the better, we have to do some major life changing things, but it is most often the small and simple things that make the difference in having a mediocre marriage to finding "Ultimate Intimacy"! and when you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage, it is amazing! Trust us, we have been there.... some of the things you as husbands can do for your wife's that they NEED from you are:Give her your attention. She wants to be listened toYour love and affection (not just when you want sex)Be vulnerable and create a deeper connectionIf you want to hear the rest, you will have to listen to the episode :).  When you are fulfilling each others needs, your marriage will be transformed. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Chris and Jamie Bailey with Expedition Marriage about an article they wrote on their blog about what husbands need to hear from their wive's. If you are a wife, these simple things can transform your marriage and are very easy to do. Your husband needs:To hear that you believe in him and support himSexual intimacy and to connect with youTo know you love, appreciate and respect himTo know you dont hold the past against himand others topics.Ladies, if you implement these things in your marriage, you will see a major change in your husband in a good way :).  Listen to this episode to find out all the things your husband need and ways you can find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

How to get your wife to want more sex?.... This is the million dollar question that most men would sell all they own to know the answer to ;) We polled over 1000 wives on social media to get REAL answers for you.Here are the questions we asked in the poll:What non-sexual things does your husband do that turns you on and gets you in the mood for sex?What things does your husband do to get you mentally in the mood for sex? What things does your husband do to make you instantly lose your desire for sex?Do you feel like the sexual intimacy in your marriage is positive? We know that every couple is different and some things work for some couples where they do not work for others, but there are some specific things that you as a husband can do to get your wife in the mood more often.We also have an article on our blog called "5 ways to get your wife to want more sex" which outlines the things a husband can do to get his wife in the mood for sex more often which you can find HERE. If you are a husband that would love to have more sexual intimacy with your wife, then this episode is for you! DISCLOSURE: We understand that it is not always the husband that wants sex more often than his wife does. In fact, we hear from many women that they are the higher sex drive spouse. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

The majority of people now days have an addiction to technology which has a significant impact on their sex life and relationship. The stats are incredible. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss an article from Emily Jamea called "The Modern Day Libido Killer" found HERE, and also share insights from an article from The 80/80 marriage, about how technology is killing our sex lives and relationships. If you and your spouse are not having sexual intimacy on a regular basis, technology is most likely one of the major reasons for this. In this day and age our minds are so consumed and distracted, it's hard to pay attention to sexual cues, feel in sync with our spouse, and get in the right frame of mind for sex. We took a poll on instagram to see what you think and get your thoughts and the results are quite incredible. We asked:Does technology keep you from connecting with your spouse?Do you have less sexual intimacy because of technology?Who is more addicted to their phone in marriage (husband or wife)?We also share some astonishing facts:How many times do you think the average person touches their phone per day? How many hours per day does the average adult spend on technology?50% of people admit to experiencing full-on behavior addiction to their phones.We also share a quiz from 80/80 Marriage on how to know if you have an addiction to the internet/technology. Want to know if you are addicted? Click HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy interview Dr. Kim Kimberling with Awesome Marriage about his online course "Marriage 911" to help couples re connect and find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriages.  Some of the topics they discuss in the podcast are: What is the wrong and right way to fight?What is healthy communication?Expectations in marriageBoundaries in and out of the marriageTurning to GodDealing with distractionsSex issuesFinances and how they impact marriageForgivenessHaving Fun!Check out the Marriage 911 Course HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy interview Bryan Reeves who is the author of a new book called "Choose Her Everyday (or leave her)" about the importance of choosing your spouse everyday in your relationship. Bryan compares a relationship to a precious fragrant flower that is brought into the home, but then fails to be watered. Relationships start out beautiful and amazing but if we dont continue to nourish and feed those relationships, they will eventually die. We also discuss why you need to choose her (your wife) everyday, the 3 stages of love and the one you need, why great sex is never enough and you need to have 3 things to have a healthy relationship, how without a shared purpose your relationship will fail, and how relationships between couples are messy, but part of life. These are just a preview of the great things in Bryan's book and the perspective he provides. This is a great read for all the men (and women) out there and this book will help you look at your relationship with your spouse in a whole new way.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

About a year and a half ago, we had a lady write to us and say she would never be using the Ultimate Intimacy App again based upon an article we had on the app. We were shocked and wondered what we had on the app that would cause this as we personally review and post everything that goes on the app.  It was an article that was written by a Sex expert and Marriage Counselor.We read through the article several times again and thought that everything stated in it was beautiful and offered ways for couples to draw closer together and connect deeper. We found nothing wrong or offensive at all and were very confused so of course we did our research and wanted to share our thoughts.In this episode, we discuss the taboo word that a lot of Christians don't like and possibly just don't understand. We believe that any time you slow sex down, concentrate on your spouse and use your 5 senses, that even deeper Ultimate Intimacy can be found in your marriage. Let us know what you think!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Since 1990 the divorce rate among couples between the ages of 55-64 has more than doubled! Why is this happening? Aren't the years after the kids move out, and couples head into retirement suppose to be the best?Many couples focus so much time and energy on raising their kids, they often neglect their own relationship only to find out that it is VERY difficult to reconnect once they have grown apart. Also spouses may react differently in regards to becoming "empty nesters" while one spouse may experience sadness and grief while the other is excited about future possibilities together.  There are many things that can cause couples to struggle once the kids are out of the house, but in this episode, we want to tackle the 8 things couples can do to have a strong marriage after the kids move out. Nick and Amy have the pleasure of visiting with Javier & Shannan Labrador of 247 marriage Learn more about them and their mission HERE. They are now empty nesters and share great insight and experiences as to how couples can have strong and happy marriages during this stage of life, and how to prepare for it if you are in the earlier years of your marriage.Even if you are young and still have kids at home, this episode can help you develop the proper  tools to be prepared for that time in life (when it comes).If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We have all seen couples that look like they have an amazing relationship and have everything together and we wonder what their secrets are and yearn for that kind of relationship. On the flip side, we have all seen the couples that we have no idea how they are staying together as it looks like they are so unhappy together.  So what is the difference and what are the secrets of happy couples? While every couple deals with different trials, struggles and life experiences, there are absolute things that happy couples do that unhappy couples do not do and we are going to talk about the 10 differences between happy and unhappy couples.How do happy couples interact with each other vs how un happy couples interact?What are the different ways couples communicate with each other?How do gratitude and appreciation impacts happiness?How do happy couples address sex differently?In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Garrett and Chelsea Zimmerman with Transformed Couples. They have both previously been in bad relationships and now have an amazing relationship together. They share their thoughts on the differences between a happy couples and un happy couples and the experiences they have had. * While we understand there are ALWAYS exceptions and everyone does not fall under these exact things, these are true for the majority of couples.So if you are looking for ways to find more happiness in your marriage, or to aware of what things can bring you unhappiness if you're not careful, then this episode is for you!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!Check out great products at shop.ultimateintimacy.comFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

A man's sexual confidence can be negatively impacted for many reasons, and when a man looses his sexual confidence, it can effect many aspects of his life including mental health, physical health, personality, work productivity and other things in his life.On the flip side, a sexually confident man can feel like he can conquer the world and sexually confident men are often happier, more efficient at work, physically and mentally healthier, better husbands and fathers, and have a better overall well being.In this episode, we cover the most common things that impact a man's sexual confidenceRejection/Fear of rejectionBody issuesSexual dysfunctionsWorried about not pleasing their spouse sexuallyWe also discuss ways a man can become more sexually confident in these area's. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!