The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Sex is an AMAZING thing that can bring couples closer together, strengthen their marriage and be incredible for both of spouses if they are implementing good things into their relationship that brings them closer together. On the flip side, we all know there are also things (that if implemented in your sexual intimacy) can quickly tear couples apart and DESTROY their marriage. This may be one of the reasons we get a TON of people messaging us asking our thoughts and opinions regarding what is ok and not ok to do, seeking answers for their relationship. While some of the questions are of course very hard to answer as they are not as simple as just a "YES" or "No" response, there are things that WILL hurt your marriage that are a simple ok or not ok response. As everyone comes from different backgrounds, experiences and beliefs, what is ok and good for some couples may not be right for other couples. As there are a lot of people looking for answers to these difficult subjects, we thought it would be great to share what we do in "our" marriage to determine if something is going to strengthen our relationship, or hurt our relationship (ok or not ok).  For those that are also wondering what is ok and not ok for their marriage we will provide you simple ways that you can determine that for "your" relationship. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Want to know how to turn your spouse on (for both husband and wife) and drive them crazy in the bedroom? Nick and Amy share tips for how a husband can drive his wife crazy, and how a wife can drive her husband crazy in the bedroom. They share the things that have transformed their marriage and sexual intimacy. After 20 years of marriage, their sexual intimacy is better than it has ever been and their goal is to help couples find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationships. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

You look at some couples and see that the wife is madly in love with her husband, and you wonder.. "what is the secret"? Over the past several years we've talked to a lot of couples about things their husbands do to make them feel loved. There is also a great article from To Love Honor And Vacuum titled "10 Things husbands who are great lovers do" which we reference in this podcast as well. If you want to know the secrets that will make your wife madly in love with you, then this episode is for you!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We constantly talk about things couples can do to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationship. However, we understand that things are not always perfect in a relationship and fighting is something that is normal and healthy to do, but it is important to fight "the right way" so that your arguments and disagreements move your relationship forward and don't cause any harm or damage long term. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss "The Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Spouse When You Are Fighting". Just like a social media post or something you say on the internet that can never be erased, so is fighting with your spouse. Things that you say to your spouse in the heat of the moment can NEVER be taken back and can change the relationship forever, so it is extremely important what you say (and don't say) when you are fighting.Check out this episode to learn the things you should never say when arguing or  fighting.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Many couples wonder why their sex life isn't like what they see on tv, or in the movies and compare their marriage to things that are not realistic. Couples have myths about sex that keep them from having the "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriage that they deserve to have. Nick and Amy discuss some of these myths and offer solutions to help you find more sexual enjoyment (and frequency) in your marriage. - Do you have to be turned on (in the mood) to have sex?- Does sex have to be amazing and mind blowing all the time?- Do you compare your sex life to what you see on tv and movies and wonder why yours instantly like that?This episode will answer a ton of myths and help you experience more sexual enjoyment in your marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In many of their previous podcasts, Nick and Amy have discussed things you can do in your marriage to create more emotional and physical intimacy, and also the things that can hurt intimacy in your marriage. Most of them are pretty common things that many couples deal with and recognize they impact their marriages...but there are also several hidden things that can "kill" the intimacy in your marriage and could be happening without you even knowing it. We took a poll and asked couples what kills intimacy in their marriages and very few people listed the things we have in this episode, so we know it can greatly help your marriage. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss the "hidden" intimacy killers in your marriage that you may not even be aware of, and how to fix them so you can find Ultimate Intimacy in your marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Many couple's don't discuss or feel the need to have boundaries in their marriage. They feel that boundaries take away freedom, or that they would only be needed due to a lack of trust in the relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth. Couple's that haven't discussed or agreed to certain boundaries in their marriage are much more likely to do something (even unintentionally) that could cause distrust or issues at some point in their marriage. Couples that have boundaries are much more likely to have MORE freedom and trust in their marriages and less problems as they have communicated and set boundaries in their relationship. If couples haven't discussed their boundaries  with the opposite sex,  or sexual boundaries in their own relationship, there is no line that is ever crossed if there is never a line (boundary established).Boundaries in marriage are a shield and a protection for your marriage....from all the onslaughts of the world trying to destroy marriages.In this episode, we discuss the boundaries in our marriage that we have established and how it has had protected our marriage. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

It's amazing all the distractions or little things that can get in the way, and keep a couple from connecting, which of course will negatively impact their marriage. So many of these distractions take place at the most critical time of the day (and place) where couples should be connecting the most... in the bedroom. Most couples dont realize the impact and consequences this has on their marriage, but with a few simple routines, the marriage can be transformed. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss 8 bedtime routines couples can do to help them connect before going to bed. These are simple things and will make all the difference in your marriage. Listen to this episode to find out what they are and to make a huge difference in your relationship. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We just had our 20th anniversary and we were discussing all the things we have learned  over the past 20 years of our marriage (which are many). There were a lot of expectations of what we thought marriage would be like, and perceptions of things in life with our relationship and how we viewed other relationships as well. Of course we were wrong about many of our expectations and perceptions of what we thought. The things we have learned have helped our marriage tremendously, and although everyone's marriages are different and unique based upon their background and life experiences, we think most of these things on our list will resonate with you and help you in your marriage!We also share many of the poll answers from our survey on social media "What have you learned from your marriage and what tips would you give  a married couple? We got hundreds of answers so thank you to everyone that shared their experiences and input in our social media poll!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, we share the results from the social media poll we did with our Ultimate Intimacy audience about husbands and wives favorite and least favorite sexual positions, the ideal times a week to be sexually intimate, tips for their spouse, and so much more! We also discuss the many benefits of sex and share the top voted sex positions. You might be as shocked as we were with the poll answers! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!