The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

There are so many things that keeps couples from "connecting" in their marriages. To find that connection, we often need to "disconnect" from the things in our marriage that are causing the disconnections.In this podcast, we delve into the intricate web of factors that can hinder couples from truly connecting within their marriages. To uncover that elusive connection, we often find ourselves needing to disengage from the various elements in our relationships that contribute to disconnections.Here's are some of the prominent things that cause couples to disconnect:WorkFamilyFriendsSocial MediaTechnologyFinancial StressHobbiesBad HabitsJoin us as we explore the causes of disconnection in couples and offer valuable insights into the methods couples can employ to rediscover the art of reconnection in their marriages.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

A while back, we did a poll and podcast on how a lot of husbands have at sometime in their marriage felt like their wife just wanted them for a paycheck. As we talk to couples all the time, we often hear how some women feel like their husband just wants them for sexual intimacy.  So of course we had to do a poll and podcast on this subject because if many women feel that way, we need to talk about it.We also felt like this was a great time to do the episode as we just did the previous podcast episode on: The Reasons Why Your Husbands Sexual Desire For You Is So Strong.. And Why You Should Be Grateful For It!In this episode we share the results from the poll we took asking women if they have felt like their husband just wants them for sexual intimacy. The results may surprise you. We also share the responses as to why many women feel this way and discuss what couples can do to address these type of feelings.This episode is a must listen to for both husband's and wive's. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Too often, we view sex as a mere physical act, overlooking the emotional intensity and connection it offers for both spouses. If you follow our polls we do, MANY men state that sex is so much more than just sex! It is the way they feel loved.. and show love, and many more reasons which we share.Many women (or lower desire spouses) complain about the high sex drive. In this podcast episode we dive into the reasons why husbands (or the high desire spouse) desire to be sexually intimate is so strong, and why you should be grateful they desire you! We think this podcast episode might change your perception about things and help you look at things in a different way.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Have you ever felt like you're the only one seeking emotional connection in your relationship? You're not alone. We, Nick and Amy, get real about the dynamics of pursuers—the ones actively seeking intimacy—and withdrawers—those who prefer a bit more distance in relationships. Drawing from our own experiences, we're  looking at how personality types and situational factors can switch these roles. More importantly, we're breaking down ways to strike balance in relationships that carry the weight of these differing personalities, without losing the essence of who you truly are.Influenced largely by individual backgrounds and upbringings, these communication styles and personality types play a significant role in shaping a relationship. Join us for an exciting and informative episode that will answer a lot of questions you might have about  "pursuers" and "withdrawers" and how this can impact your marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode we will guide you through avoiding and addressing toxic behaviors that can seep into even the happiest of relationships. From our personal experiences to our insightful discussion on important issues like gaslighting and financial control, we lay the groundwork for fostering healthier relationships.We also tackle issues like jealousy, silent treatment and constant criticism. Our conversation highlights the vital role that boundaries, trust, and open communication play in confronting these challenges effectively. We also delve into the darker side of relationship dynamics, discussing the harm caused by constant blaming, threats, financial control and incessant sarcasm and how to counteract them.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

DISCLAIMER - We are not responsible for your actions, or any arrests due to your actions, so use wise discretion when applying these naked date ideas to your date nights :) Please do them in a private place because no one wants to see that.Ready to ignite sparks of intimacy in your relationship? We guarantee you will find that flame in this episode as we venture together through the favorite naked date night ideas that won't (or shouldn't) get you arrested.This is a fun episode that should not only provide you great ideas to keep things fun and exciting, but should make you laugh in the process.If you are in a marriage where things have lost the excitement and date night is just routine, you will love this episode.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We have been watching a show called “Married At First Sight” where 3 relationship and marriage experts/therapists match up couples who then  get married without ever seeing each other prior to getting married. One of the reasons we wanted to watch the show is a couple of the couples from previous seasons in the show, who actually stayed married, have been proponents of our app and have promoted it.It also intrigues us to see couples who haven’t been married before, that are usually in their late 20’s to late 30’s, get married and see if they can fall in love and actually make it work together. We decided to do this podcast episode based upon what we have learned from watching a couple seasons of Married at First Sight, because every time get done watching some episodes, Amy and I look at each other and express how grateful we are for each other and to be married to each other. Often times many of us think the grass is greener on the other side because of what we see on social media or the movies. We have an illusion that things should be perfect. Every time we watch the show, we even more come to the realization that what we have is amazing as many couples just can't find love, get a long, and most the couples end up in divorce.After listening to the episode we hope you realize how lucky you are to have each other and that you can be grateful for what you have instead of focusing on what you don’t have, because most people would give everything they have to have what you have in marriage. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

There are many types of sexual intimacy within a marriage and a time and place for each of them. Many couples only experience sex when the time is right, they are both in the mood (or the lower desire spouse approves of it) and the experience is typically the same each time. But sexual intimacy in a relationship doesn't have to be that way! There are MANY ways to experience sex in a relationship and in ways that can make it much more enjoyable, and foster a deeper connection between a couple.In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the various types of sex within a marriage, and why it is so important to experience each one of them periodically in your marriage!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Are you a wife that gets frustrated because your husband can't read your mind, doesn't know your thoughts, how you are feeling, or even what you expect of him? Are you a husband that lacks mind reading abilities and doesn't always know what your spouse is thinking, feeling or wanting?It's normal to hear comments from women like "my husband should know how I feel.. I shouldn't have to tell him" or "he should be able to see that I am frustrated!"Image the pressure this puts on a husband to have to try to figure out what his wife wants, needs and expects of him without her communicating it to him.When this happens, the frustration builds up for both spouses which can cause a lot of contention in the relationship when it could have been avoided by simply communicating with each other.Most husbands truly want to give their wife everything they want and desire. And all a wife has to do is tell him what she needs. Yes.. it is just that easy for most relationships.In this episode,  we talk about the reasons why mind reading doesn't work, and why you need to avoid it in your marriage.  We also share the reasons why wive's need to communicate clearly with their husbands. There are many negative consequences that can result from this mind reading assumption.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this insightful podcast episode, Nick and Amy dive into the intricate relationship between parenting older kids and teens, and intimacy within a marriage. We hear from many couples who are struggling with kids and express how their marriage is negatively affected in so many ways because of it.As parents, we invest tremendous effort in guiding our kids toward success and happiness. However, the evolving dynamics can sometimes lead our children down unexpected roads, causing strains on a marriage. We unravel the ways in which these changes can create barriers to intimacy and communication between spouses.Tune into this episode to discover practical strategies for maintaining connection and fostering intimacy amidst the challenges of parenting older kids and teens. Join us as we talk about bridging the gap between parenting and maintaining a thriving, intimate relationship!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!