237. The "Right Way" To Reject Your Spouse Sexually... And What Healthy Rejection Looks Like

There is nothing more deflating for a high desire spouse than being rejected sexually by the one they love. It really sucks! Feeling like you are so un desirable that they can't take 15 minutes to connect together and make love? Or that your spouse would rather sit on their phone and waste time scrolling through meaningless things versus connecting intimately?

Rejection often sounds like this:

"I am not in the mood"
"I am too tired"
"I have a headache"
"We just had sex ___ days ago!"
 
And there are also the non verbal rejections. Sometimes it isn't the things we say, but rather our actions and the things we do to avoid it.

But is it just the rejection that really hurts, or is it "how" the rejection happens that is the gut punch?

In this episode Nick and Amy talk about what healthy rejection looks like (because there is a healthy way to reject your spouse), and the damage that can be cause by rejecting your spouse in an unhealthy way.  We offer great insights and solutions to this very common problem.

As this is a very common problem in marriages, this is an episode you will both want to listen to!

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