LOVERS by shan

Have you heard of a couple that's Living Apart Together? In this episode, Shan interviews Ev'Yan Whitney, a sensualist, and author of the book "Your Sensual Self" about how they and their husband decided to live in different states after being together for 19 years, while still continuing to be married. Shan also interviews her parents, who have been married for 40 years, to see there's anything they could learn from Ev'Yan's story to better their own marriage.   Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody  Join Shan's Mailing List:  www.shanboodram.com/join  Follow Ev'Yan Whitney on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney  Follow Lauren on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth  Follow Olivia Boodram on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/yourtravelwitholivia  Follow Brian Boodram on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/briboo1958

In this episode, Shan interviews comedian Ashley Hesseltine from the "Girls Gotta Eat" Podcast. You could argue that this episode is about women getting off with men partners without giving anything sexual in return, you could also argue it’s about the validity of blue balls, or that we’re here to discuss dating in a post me-too era. But what it really boils down to is rewriting sexual and romantic scripts, especially for singles. How do you end an intimate encounter where you want to end it...and have it be okay? Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody Join Shan's Mailing List:  www.shanboodram.com/join Follow Ashley Hesseltine:  www.instagram.com/ashhess Follow Los on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/blamelos Listen to Enjoy the Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enjoy-the-podcast/id1526698004 Follow Lauren on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth

When people take that vow of forever, do they enter into that contract knowing that they don’t really mean it? In this episode, Shan sits down with Bart and Geo, who check all the boxes of #CoupleGoals: a marriage, a beautiful home, family, podcast and multiple thriving businesses, to find out how their recent divorce scare has reframed what #CoupleGoals means to them now. Then it gets personal when Shan, her husband, her sister and her brother-in-law admit to times when they almost called it quits. Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody Keep up to date with Shan by joining the mailing list:  www.shanboodram.com/join Follow Geo on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/geo_antoinette Follow Bart on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/bartkwan Tune into Bart & Geo’s new podcast on YouTube: Get Close Podcast - YouTube   Follow Jared Brady on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady Tune into Jared’s Podcast: ‎Enjoy the Podcast on Apple Podcasts Follow Lauren Morrison on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth  

For years, Shan has heard the rumors that A LOT of non-gay men are watching gay porn. In this episode we answer the question: What can gay men teach the non-gay community about how to have great sex? To find out Shan interviews Jade Fox, a queer lifestyle creator and social media influencer, Jade Fox, who admits to enjoying gay porn over lesbian porn. We also hear from Kevin Wade and Javonte Rose, two gay men, on what their secret sauce is when it comes to great sex. Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody  Keep up to date with Shan by joining the mailing list:  www.shanboodram.com/join  Follow Jade Fox on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/iamjadefox  Follow Kevin Wade on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/iamkevinwade  Follow Javonte Rose on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/iamjavonterose

It’s storytime! Shan takes you down memory lane in order to answer the question she is asked most often throughout her career: When and how did you decide that you were going to be a sex expert? In this special edition episode and for the first time ever on the Podcast, Shan brings in the woman who witnessed it all. None other than Olivia Boodram, aka Mom. Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody Keep up to date with Shan by joining the mailing list:  www.shanboodram.com/join Follow Olivia Boodram on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/yourtravelwitholivia  

In one of Shan’s toughest interviews to date, she sits down with New York Times Best Selling Author, Ashley C. Ford, who talks about her unconventional path to healing from sexual assault and how it impacted how she thought about sex. Shan also has a conversation with "Trauma Queen" Jimanekia about how to start the trauma healing process with a professional. If you are seeking support/resources due to sexual violence, you can reach out to organizations such as RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) by visiting www.rain.org or call their National Sexual Assault Hotline by dialing 800.656.HOPE (4673). Follow Shan on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shanboody Keep up to date with Shan by joining the mailing list: www.shanboodram.com/join Follow Ashley C. Ford on Instagram: www.instagram.com/smashfizzle Buy Ashley’s Book: Somebody's Daughter: A Memoir https://www.amazon.com/Somebodys-Daughter-Ashley-C-Ford/dp/1250305977 Follow Jimanekia on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jimanekia

Why are women still having to pressure their partners into proposing? Shan interviews Krista Williams and Lindsay Simcik from the “Almost 30 Podcast” where Krista shares how her relationship evolved over the years and how she passively let him know that she was ready and waiting for his proposal to come. Shan shares her proposal story and how she was heartbroken when the proposal didn’t come on her original timeline. But that’s just one side of the discussion. To round out the conversation, Shan invites her husband and brother-in-law who share their experience with being pressured to propose. Follow Shan on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shanboody Follow the Almost 30 Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/almost-30/id1148183612 Follow Krista: www.instagram.com/itskrista Follow Lindsey: www.instagram.com/lindseysimcik Follow Jared Brady: www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady Follow Enjoy the Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enjoy-the-podcast/id1526698004

Why are so many women immediately turned off when porn gets turned on? To find out, Shan interviews award-winning film maker and porn director, Erika Lust, about how her work addresses this common dilemma. Erika shares with us what kind of porn women should search for if they are looking to get off before getting turned off by less palatable options, and Shan sees if she can convince Lauren to give porn a chance. Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody Follow Erika Lust on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/erikalust Get your “Lovers and Friends” exclusive free 30 day trail to Lust Cinema:  www.lustcinema.com/sign-up/loversandfriends Follow Lauren Morrison on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth

Should you change who you are in order to keep the lover you wanna be with? If your first reaction is "Hell to the No!" well...you're not alone. In this episode Shan interviews Emmy award-winning producer and host Jeannie Mai, who talks about how her marriage to Young Jeezy transformed her in ways that just didn’t surprise her, it also shocked the world! We also explore whether or not Shan regrets the changes she made for love with a revealing dialogue between her husband Jared and her sister Lauren. Follow Shan on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shanboody Follow Jeannie Mai on Instagram: www.instagram.com/thejeanniemai Follow Jared Brady on Instagram: www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady Follow Lauren Morrison on Instagram: www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth

Women say they want a man who is open and willing to be vulnerable, but is this really true? Back in 2019, Shan participated in a YouTube discussion with Aba and Preach where they covered this very topic.The conversation amassed over 1.3M views and nearly 9000 comments. Two years later, Shan, Aba & Preach re-visit this under-represented dialogue about why some men don't yet feel safe to show their vulnerable side with their partners.