LOVERS by shan

So let’s talk about dating with mental illness. In this episode, Shan sits down with Eileen Kelly from the "Going Mental" podcast about her recent experience with being diagnosed with an anxiety disorder, and how it impacted her dating/romantic life. Shan continues the conversation with author and therapist, Nedra Glover Tawwab, who has advice for how to talk about mental illness when you're in a relationship and how you can be a supportive partner.   Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody Join Shan's Mailing List:  www.shanboodram.com/join Follow Eileen Kelly on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/eileen Listen to the "Going Mental" podcasts wherever you listen to podcasts Follow Nedra Glover Tawwab on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/nedratawwab

What do you do if you realize that monogamy isn’t for you, and that realization leads to another even more terrifying thought… Who? How? What the fuck, now? In this episode, Shan sits down with her personal friend Rome Green Jr. from Dormtainment who explains why he knows monogamy isn’t for him and why he also knows that he may not have the rest figured out just yet. Then Ken Melvoin-Berg & Sunny Megatron aka Sex Ed Superheroes join Shan and her husband, Jared, to break down how they've navigated openness in their marriage and what do's and don'ts they've all learned. Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody  Join Shan's Mailing List:  www.shanboodram.com/join  Follow Rome Green Jr. on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/iromealot  Follow Sunny Megatron on TikTok:  www.tiktok.com/sunnymegatron  Visit Sunny's website:  www.sunnymegatron.com  Tune into Ken's weekly D&D live stream that raises for a sex worker mutual aid fund at  twitch.tv/thunderpantsacademy  Follow Jared Brady on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady

Can you get exactly what you want sexually without taking away something from what your partner wants? And if you can't...should you really care? In this episode, Shan sits down with Weezy from the wildly popular podcast, Whoreible Decisions, to discuss how the feminine femmes play down their expertise in the bedroom in order to not threaten their partner's masculinity. Shan and Lauren then sit down to talk about how this shows up outside the bedroom and impacts a feminine's their money, career, and relationships.   Follow Shan on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shanboody Join Shan's Mailing List: www.shanboodram.com/join   Follow Weezy on Instagram: www.instagram.com/weezywtf Listen to the Whoreible Decisions Podcast on Youtube or wherever you get your podcasts   Follow Lauren on Instagram: www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth Join Lauren's mailing list: www.maketheshiftcoach.com/join

It's the last episode of 2021 and Shan brings together Jared and Lauren to share all that went on behind the scenes in making the podcast. Also, why doesn't Shan like the theme song? Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody  Join Shan's Mailing List:  www.shanboodram.com/join  Follow Jared Brady on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady  Listen to Enjoy the Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enjoy-the-podcast/id1526698004  Follow Lauren on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth

Have you heard of a couple that's Living Apart Together? In this episode, Shan interviews Ev'Yan Whitney, a sensualist, and author of the book "Your Sensual Self" about how they and their husband decided to live in different states after being together for 19 years, while still continuing to be married. Shan also interviews her parents, who have been married for 40 years, to see there's anything they could learn from Ev'Yan's story to better their own marriage.   Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody  Join Shan's Mailing List:  www.shanboodram.com/join  Follow Ev'Yan Whitney on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney  Follow Lauren on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth  Follow Olivia Boodram on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/yourtravelwitholivia  Follow Brian Boodram on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/briboo1958

In this episode, Shan interviews comedian Ashley Hesseltine from the "Girls Gotta Eat" Podcast. You could argue that this episode is about women getting off with men partners without giving anything sexual in return, you could also argue it’s about the validity of blue balls, or that we’re here to discuss dating in a post me-too era. But what it really boils down to is rewriting sexual and romantic scripts, especially for singles. How do you end an intimate encounter where you want to end it...and have it be okay? Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody Join Shan's Mailing List:  www.shanboodram.com/join Follow Ashley Hesseltine:  www.instagram.com/ashhess Follow Los on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/blamelos Listen to Enjoy the Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enjoy-the-podcast/id1526698004 Follow Lauren on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth

When people take that vow of forever, do they enter into that contract knowing that they don’t really mean it? In this episode, Shan sits down with Bart and Geo, who check all the boxes of #CoupleGoals: a marriage, a beautiful home, family, podcast and multiple thriving businesses, to find out how their recent divorce scare has reframed what #CoupleGoals means to them now. Then it gets personal when Shan, her husband, her sister and her brother-in-law admit to times when they almost called it quits. Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody Keep up to date with Shan by joining the mailing list:  www.shanboodram.com/join Follow Geo on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/geo_antoinette Follow Bart on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/bartkwan Tune into Bart & Geo’s new podcast on YouTube: Get Close Podcast - YouTube   Follow Jared Brady on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady Tune into Jared’s Podcast: ‎Enjoy the Podcast on Apple Podcasts Follow Lauren Morrison on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth  

For years, Shan has heard the rumors that A LOT of non-gay men are watching gay porn. In this episode we answer the question: What can gay men teach the non-gay community about how to have great sex? To find out Shan interviews Jade Fox, a queer lifestyle creator and social media influencer, Jade Fox, who admits to enjoying gay porn over lesbian porn. We also hear from Kevin Wade and Javonte Rose, two gay men, on what their secret sauce is when it comes to great sex. Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody  Keep up to date with Shan by joining the mailing list:  www.shanboodram.com/join  Follow Jade Fox on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/iamjadefox  Follow Kevin Wade on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/iamkevinwade  Follow Javonte Rose on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/iamjavonterose

It’s storytime! Shan takes you down memory lane in order to answer the question she is asked most often throughout her career: When and how did you decide that you were going to be a sex expert? In this special edition episode and for the first time ever on the Podcast, Shan brings in the woman who witnessed it all. None other than Olivia Boodram, aka Mom. Follow Shan on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/shanboody Keep up to date with Shan by joining the mailing list:  www.shanboodram.com/join Follow Olivia Boodram on Instagram:  www.instagram.com/yourtravelwitholivia  

In one of Shan’s toughest interviews to date, she sits down with New York Times Best Selling Author, Ashley C. Ford, who talks about her unconventional path to healing from sexual assault and how it impacted how she thought about sex. Shan also has a conversation with "Trauma Queen" Jimanekia about how to start the trauma healing process with a professional. If you are seeking support/resources due to sexual violence, you can reach out to organizations such as RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) by visiting www.rain.org or call their National Sexual Assault Hotline by dialing 800.656.HOPE (4673). Follow Shan on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shanboody Keep up to date with Shan by joining the mailing list: www.shanboodram.com/join Follow Ashley C. Ford on Instagram: www.instagram.com/smashfizzle Buy Ashley’s Book: Somebody's Daughter: A Memoir https://www.amazon.com/Somebodys-Daughter-Ashley-C-Ford/dp/1250305977 Follow Jimanekia on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jimanekia