

Very Bad Therapy
Ben Fineman and Caroline Wiita
Very Bad Therapy is a closer look at what goes wrong in the counseling room - and how it could go better - as told by the clients who survived.
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Sep 30, 2019 • 44min
20. When Therapists Need Therapy
Your therapist is having a bad day. Will this impact the quality of counseling? If you ask the therapist, probably not. But what does the research suggest about clients' perceptions of therapists who are riding the struggle bus? Today's guest Allison describes her increasingly bizarre experience with a clinician who wasn't quite able to bring her 'A' game to the counseling room. Do you have a story of very bad therapy? Send us a message to share it on the show! Show Notes: Donate to International Rescue Committee Blog post: 4 Lessons from 20 Weeks of Very Bad Therapy The Contribution of the Quality of Therapists' Personal Lives to the Development of the Working Alliance Very Bad Therapy: Website / Facebook

Sep 23, 2019 • 54min
19. How Military Mental Health Care Works (with Julie Payne, LMFT)
Tricare is government managed health insurance given to United States military personnel and their dependents. It is also very confusing to understand, even for many of the providers themselves. As we learn from our guest Anna, this can lead to a frustrating search for helpful counseling. To make sense of the mystifying details of Anna's story - as well as all the acronyms - Julie Payne joins us to discuss everything you ever wanted to know about military mental health care. Show Notes: Donate to Wounded Warrior Project What does losing your keys have in common with the treatment of trauma? Adoption by VA Residential Programs of Two Evidence-Based Psychotherapies for PTSD: Effect on Patient Outcomes Julie Payne's Website / Peninsula Family Therapy for Children & Adults Very Bad Therapy: Website / Facebook

Sep 16, 2019 • 58min
18. VBT in Focus: Dr. Scott Miller on Better Results
What is at the root of very bad therapy? The common feeling that something is lacking in the education, training, development, and services provided by psychotherapists is backed by a wealth of research supporting the notion that a paradigm shift is sorely needed. Dr. Scott Miller is leading this movement with his work in the areas of routine outcome monitoring and deliberate practice. VBT in Focus is a series of sporadic episodes in which Carrie and Ben have the privilege of chatting with their favorite thinkers in the field of psychotherapy. Thank you for listening. Show Notes: Dr. Scott Miller's Website International Center for Clinical Excellence Scott Miller, PhD - The Evolution of Psychotherapy: An Oxymoron (2013) The Heart & Soul of Change: Delivering What Works in Therapy Beyond Measures and Monitoring: Realizing the Potential of Feedback-Informed Treatment Very Bad Therapy: Website / Facebook

Sep 9, 2019 • 45min
17. The Thorny Terminator
What constitutes bad termination? In the words of Justice Potter Stewart, "I shall not today attempt to further define [it]... But I know it when I see it." In today's episode, R shares their story of termination that we can clearly know to be bad. But is it unethical? Ben and Carrie search for answers and discuss a pantheoretical framework for good termination. Thank you for listening. All reviews, ratings, Facebook likes, and feedback to soothe Ben's anxiety are greatly appreciated. Show Notes: Donate to Project Reunify Codes of Ethics on Termination in Psychotherapy and Counseling Comparing therapist and client perspectives on reasons for psychotherapy termination Do all therapists do that when saying goodbye? A study of commonalities in termination behaviors The Termination Checklist (International Center for Clinical Excellence) Very Bad Therapy: Website / Facebook

Sep 2, 2019 • 43min
16. VBT in History (1910s): Too Many Eugenicists
Lewis Terman was one of the most influential innovators in educational psychology and IQ testing. He also believed that segregating and sterilizing "feebleminded" individuals - as determined by a biased paradigm of general intelligence - was the necessary path toward a better society. This is the second installment in our monthly series on very bad therapy through the decades. Show Notes: The Uses of Intelligence Tests (Terman, 1916) The Vexing Legacy of Lewis Terman The Kallikak Family (Wikipedia) Reconstruction: America After the Civil War (PBS) Very Bad Therapy: Website / Facebook

Aug 26, 2019 • 48min
15. Child's Play (with Megan Costello, LMFT)
Young children need play - not interrogation - to help them learn and form relationships. Today's guest PJ recalls his experience as an eight-year-old with a therapist who chose not to use play therapy in favor of a more investigative approach. Next, child therapy expert Megan Costello discusses the nuance of play therapy and what went wrong in PJ's story. And for some reason, we introduce our new sure-to-fail concept: The Richard Spencer Matrix for Therapists. Show Notes: Donate to Kidspace Children's Museum Megan Costello's Website Therapy Reimagined Conference 2019 Free Licenses for the Outcome Rating Scale (ORS), Child ORS, and Young Child ORS Very Bad Therapy: Website / Facebook

Aug 19, 2019 • 38min
14. Women Don't Want to Work
In 2019, there somehow exists at least one psychotherapist who feels that it is helpful to tell a female client that her entire gender is biologically predisposed to prefer domestic life to a professional career. We cringe-laugh our way through an engaging interview with Aviva before diving into the research on societal biases, gender norms, and gender matching in the therapeutic relationship. Climate change is real. Show Notes: Donate to March of Dimes and/or RAICES Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps Race Bias, Social Class Bias, and Gender Bias in Clinical Judgment Physicians' attitudes toward preventative therapy for coronary artery disease: Is there a gender bias? Therapists' Approaches to the Normative Challenges of Dual-Earner Couples Does Client-Therapist Gender Matching Influence Therapy Course or Outcome in Psychotherapy? Effect of Patient-Therapist Gender Match on Psychotherapy Retention Among United States Veterans with Postttraumatic Stress Disorder Very Bad Therapy: Website / Facebook

Aug 12, 2019 • 39min
13. Cuddle Therapy
Imagine a spectrum of unethical therapist conduct. Far, far toward the most extreme end, just before sexual coercion, are activities like grooming behavior and inappropriate physical touch. Our guest Jessica shares her dread-inducing story of working with a therapist who abused his power in ways that mental health professionals should only experience when reading ethics textbooks. Show Notes: Donate to Renewed APA Ethical Principles and Code of Conduct AAMFT Code of Ethics Recognizing and Managing Erotic and Eroticized Transferences Very Bad Therapy: Website / Facebook

Aug 5, 2019 • 42min
12. VBT in History (1900s): Some A+ Oppression Right There
Adolescent girls should be sent to the country to prepare for housewifery and motherhood. So writes G. Stanley Hall, first president of the American Psychological Association, in 1904. This is the first in a series of monthly episodes exploring very bad therapy in the decades preceding the stories of today. Floating uteruses not included. Show Notes: Chapter XVII: Adolescent Girls and Their Education (Hall, 1904) Wherein Should the Education of a Woman Differ from That of a Man (Gordon, 1905) G. Stanley Hall (Wikipedia) Very Bad Therapy: Website / Facebook

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Jul 29, 2019 • 1h 5min
11. The Intake Process is a Mess (with Dr. Daryl Chow)
Dr. Daryl Chow, a psychologist from Singapore now in Australia, explores the flawed intake process in therapy. He shares alarming statistics about client retention and how traditional methods may push clients away. The conversation emphasizes the need for a balance between gathering information and building rapport. Dr. Chow advocates for client feedback as a crucial element for better therapeutic outcomes. His insights highlight the importance of emotional connections and the transformative potential of rethinking first sessions in psychotherapy.