
It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
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Latest episodes

Mar 22, 2024 • 21min
Usher, Rap WhatsApps and Stump Icks
You lot get Icky with a childish sense of humour, rapping WhatsApp messages and referring to certain anatomical parts as The Stump! Lala tries to get her head around red flags that have been flying high in your lives which are a rollercoaster of laughs, revelations, and cringey!
If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Mar 20, 2024 • 23min
Tate Debate & Sex Drive Discussion
Lala tackles your burning questions in this week's Agony Aunt episode. Do you feel embarrassed by your high sex drive? Does your partner show signs of postpartum depression? Ever been totally thrown by men who hold misogynist and just plain idiotic views? Lala shares her insights on people who support Andrew Tate.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram.
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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 18, 2024 • 33min
Love Is Blind: Chelsea and Jimmy
In this ‘Hot Topic’ episode Lala directs the dynamics of the relationships in the TV show ‘Love is Blind’. Can we really fall in love blind? What drives people to use reality TV shows to find Love?
Lala explores the allure of reality TV matchmaking and unravel’s the truth behind the scenes.
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Mar 15, 2024 • 32min
Red Flags with Katie Price
Katie Price and Lala dive deep into the realms of dating and relationships and share personal stories, insights, and laughter while navigating the unpredictable journey of love. They tackle your red flags, and Katie Price shares her “ICKs" – those little things that can make or break a romantic connection. From pet peeves to deal-breakers.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 13, 2024 • 26min
Contraception, Condoms and Casual Sex
Exploring contraception, consent, and casual sex, the podcast discusses societal norms, navigating boundaries, and prioritizing self-care after uncomfortable situations. It delves into communication shifts post-casual sex, advocating for open dialogue and empowerment. Addressing disrespectful behavior, hormonal contraception challenges, and the complexities of casual encounters, the podcast invites listeners to share their experiences and teases a guest episode.

Mar 11, 2024 • 25min
The Jury: Murder Trial - How Effective is our Justice system?
In this episode, Lala delves into the intricacies of the justice system, drawing insights from a recent Channel 4 programme, "The Jury: Murder Trial." This experiment restaged a real-life murder trial before two separate juries of ordinary individuals, questioning if they would arrive at the same verdict.
Join Lala as she unpacks the implications of this unique experiment, exploring the nuances of jury decision-making and its potential impact on the justice system. From the lessons learned to the potential shifts in the future of the legal landscape, this episode provides a exploration of the intersection between the courtroom and public perception.
Credit: Channel 4. The Jury: Murder Trial.
A Sony Music Entertainment production
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To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 8, 2024 • 22min
Why We Need International Women's Day
Discussion on the importance of International Women's Day, challenges faced by women globally, gender inequality and violence, collective action for change, and empowering women's voices in the ongoing fight for justice

Mar 6, 2024 • 22min
Is He The Red Flag, Or Is It Me?
Exploring red flags in relationships, dealing with revenge porn, and finding honest partners. Lala offers advice on navigating romantic challenges and provides resources for domestic violence victims. From conspiracy theories to legal challenges, this podcast covers a range of interesting topics.

Mar 4, 2024 • 17min
The World’s Biggest Single Social Experiment?
Have you heard of or seen the pear ring? It's a small turquoise ring worn by single people. Designed to replace dating apps and show strangers that you're open to meeting new people IRL.
The company says they're the world's biggest single social experiment and Lala is here to share her thoughts.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 1, 2024 • 28min
Stephanie Yeboah On The Pull A Pig Scandal and Finding Love
The fabulous Stephanie Yeboah opens up about her dating past and on finding love. Stephanie joins Lala to help answer your dating dilemmas and tells all about her biggest icks!\
If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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