

Say Grace
Steve Palmer
A soulful exploration of the hospitality industry through the eyes of celebrated restaurateur and author Steve Palmer. Combining the richness of grace—a pre-meal tradition in the South, a gift freely given, and a timeless virtue—with the transformative journey of hospitality, this podcast dives deep into the stories behind the industry. With heartfelt conversations, Palmer uncovers personal journeys of resilience, mental health breakthroughs, and sources of inspiration, showcasing how lives are shaped and changed by the world of service. Say Grace is your place to reflect, connect, and savor thoughtful narratives. Pull up a chair, and join the dialogue about food, people, and the grace that sustains them both.
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Dec 11, 2025 • 1h 5min
EP 9: A Conversation with John T. Edge, author of House of Smoke
John T. Edge is the writer and host of the Emmy Award-winning television show TrueSouth on the SEC Network, ESPN, Disney, and Hulu. He also pens a beloved restaurant column for Garden & Gun and is the author of The Potlikker Papers: A Food History of the Modern South, which was named one of the best books of the year by NPR and Publishers Weekly. His most recent work is a memoir, House of Smoke: A Southerner Goes Searching for Home, which was published in September 2025 and has been met with great acclaim. In addition to his writing and storytelling, John serves the University of Mississippi as a teacher, writer-in-residence, and director of the Mississippi Lab, and mentors students in the University of Georgia’s MFA program in narrative nonfiction. In this episode, John T. sits down with Steve Palmer to explore Southern food culture and storytelling, reflect on his journey through roles in academia and food media, and unpack the important, layered themes that connect them.Thank you to Smithey Ironware and Sloss Real Estate for allowing us to use their space to film this episode.

Dec 4, 2025 • 58min
EP 8: A Conversation with Frank Stitt
Frank Stitt is the chef and owner of Highlands Bar & Grill, Bottega, and Chez Fonfon in Birmingham, AL, and one of the most influential voices in modern Southern cuisine. A multi–James Beard Award winner and accomplished author, he has played a pivotal role in redefining Southern dining on a national stage while helping put Birmingham’s culinary scene on the map. As a founding member of the Southern Foodways Alliance, he has also been instrumental in documenting and preserving the region’s rich food culture, championing local farmers, artisans, and traditions.In this episode, Frank joins Steve for a conversation that ranges from his early career as a young American chef working in Europe’s top kitchens, to exploring different cuisines in his restaurants, and the power of truly knowing an ingredient.Thank you to Smithey Ironware and Sloss Real Estate for allowing us to use their space to film this episode.

Nov 27, 2025 • 5min
EP 7: A Thanksgiving Reflection with Steve Palmer
In this special solo episode, host Steve Palmer shares his perspective on navigating the holiday season—a time that can be especially challenging for many—as a recovering addict working in the hospitality industry. If you or someone you know in hospitality needs support this season (or any time of year), Ben’s Friends offers professional resources and a strong, compassionate community.Thank you to Pepper Place for allowing us to use their space to film this episode.

Nov 20, 2025 • 1h 7min
EP 6: A Conversation with Jon Murray of Noko
Jon Murray is the founder of Noko and Kase, two acclaimed East Nashville restaurants that blend Southern roots with a global point of view. With nearly two decades of hospitality experience, Jon is reshaping modern dining through purpose-driven concepts, people-first workplaces, and a commitment to thoughtful, intentional guest experiences. His work challenges industry norms while setting a new standard for creativity and care in contemporary hospitality.In this episode, Jon sits down with his long-time friend, Steve Palmer, to discuss the challenges of leadership, learning to balance multiple restaurant concepts, and their journey to sobriety through the “gift of desperation.”Thank you to Lagos Creative for allowing us to use their space to film this episode.

Nov 13, 2025 • 1h 2min
EP 5: A Conversation with Max Goldberg of Strategic Hospitality
Max Goldberg is the co-owner of Strategic Hospitality, the group behind some of Nashville’s most celebrated restaurants and bars, including The Patterson House, The Catbird Seat, Bastion, Henrietta Red, Locust, and Kisser. Since founding the company with his brother Benjamin in 2006, he has helped shape Nashville’s dining culture and grown the group to more than 500 employees. He serves on several local boards, is a member of the Tennessee State Workforce Development Board, and has been recognized by Forbes’ 30 Under 30, Robb Report’s Rising Power Players in American Fine Dining, and as a multi-year James Beard Award nominee for Outstanding Restaurateur.In this episode, Max joins Steve for a conversation about the changing landscape of Nashville, how COVID shifted his perspective, what it’s like to work closely with his brother, and more.Thank you to Lagos Creative for allowing us to use their space to film this episode.

Nov 6, 2025 • 1h 21min
EP 4: A Conversation with Will Guidara, author of Unreasonable Hospitality
Will Guidara is the author of the New York Times Bestseller Unreasonable Hospitality. He is the former co-owner of Eleven Madison Park, which under his leadership was named the Best Restaurant in the World. He is the host of The Welcome Conference, a Co-Producer on the Emmy Award-winning series The Bear, and is a recipient of the Wall Street Journal Innovator Award.In this episode, Will sits down with Steve for an inspiring conversation that ranges from discussing the people who had the most influence on his career, to the evolution of the hospitality industry, to the importance of creativity and how to create something that will outlive us all.Thank you to Lagos Creative for allowing us to use their space to film this episode.

Oct 30, 2025 • 1h
EP 3: A Conversation with Chef John Fleer
A native of Winston-Salem, NC, Asheville-based Chef John Fleer has earned critical acclaim for the way he transforms local ingredients into world-class dishes. The unique "foothills cuisine" he helped establish at Tennessee's Blackberry Farm walked the line between refined and rugged; fancy and familiar. The "freestyle American" cuisine he later brought to downtown Asheville at Rhubarb and The Rhu offered a unique perspective on seasonal ingredients and celebrated his local partners. John has been recognized as one of "Rising Stars of the 21st Century" by the James Beard Foundation and is a five-time finalist for the organization's "Best Chef: Southeast." In this episode, John joins Steve for a conversation on discovering his culinary influence, the importance of place in dining experiences, and his difficult decision to close Rhubarb after eleven years and the journey that followed.Thank you to The Flat Iron Hotel for allowing us to use their space to film this episode.

Oct 23, 2025 • 1h 23min
EP 2: A Conversation with Graham House, Sean McMullen, and Sarah Charles Hereford of Luminosa
Executive Chef Graham House, Chef de Cuisine Sean McMullen, and Director of Food & Beverage Sarah Charles Hereford are the talented trio behind beloved restaurant Luminosa at The Flat Iron Hotel in Asheville. Known for its elegant yet approachable take on Italian cuisine, Luminosa celebrates the spirit of the mountains through local ingredients, seasonal flavors, and warm, polished hospitality. A Western North Carolina native, Graham marries Italian traditions with Appalachian sensibilities, creating dishes that honor both heritage and innovation. Sean brings nearly twenty years of experience and a deep knowledge of preservation techniques to the kitchen, grounding each dish in authenticity and care. Overseeing both Luminosa and the hotel's intimate speakeasy, Red Ribbon Society, Sarah infuses every guest experience with creativity and refinement. Together, they're redefining modern mountain dining with a unique perspective. In this episode, the Luminosa team joins Steve for a conversation about empathy in the kitchen, uniting their team with a common goal, and finding joy in cooking and service. Thank you to The Flat Iron Hotel for allowing us to use their space to film this episode.

Oct 16, 2025 • 1h 37min
EP 1: A Conversation with Meherwan and Molly Irani of Chai Pani Restaurant Group
Meherwan and Molly Irani, the dynamic duo behind Chai Pani Restaurant Group, share their journey of transforming Indian street food in the U.S. They discuss the importance of building a strong hospitality culture and how their personal histories shaped their vision. Their courageous decision to open during the 2008 financial crisis is explored, emphasizing passion over fear. The couple highlights the significance of internal hospitality and investing in their team. With ambitions of expanding to 10 restaurants in 10 years, they aim to redefine hospitality in America.

Sep 18, 2025 • 45min
EP 23: A Conversation with Simone Reggie of French Truck Coffee
Simone Reggie is the Director of Sales & Marketing at French Truck Coffee, where she leads marketing, community relations, and partnerships across the company's 12 locations. Based in New Orleans, Simone brings over a decade of experience in the food and beverage industry, with a career defined by meaningful relationships and a strong connection to both brands and the communities they serve. Her work blends strategic vision with a genuine passion for hospitality, making her a trusted voice in the world of coffee and beyond. In this episode, Simone and Steve chat about the impact her Lebanese heritage had on her relationship with hospitality, the doors that honesty opens, and lessons motherhood has taught her in the workplace. Thank you to Stolon Food Lab for allowing us to use the space to film this episode.


