
We're Having Gay Sex
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy
Latest episodes

May 18, 2020 • 1h 4min
Emma Willmann Straps Into Her Strap-On
Comedian Emma Willmann (Netflix, Colbert, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend) recalls the first time she went into a sex store (to purchase a strap-on). Ashley has sex with a strap-on for the first time. Gara hookups with a girl in a public bathroom who will not stop saying namaste. We also discuss age-gap relationships and whether you can go down on someone while chewing gum.
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May 11, 2020 • 1h 17min
Paige Cole Uncorks The Pork
Paige Cole (MTV 's Are You The One) dives deep into her intense break up with her boyfriend from the show, getting off while living w/ your parents during quarantine, and the best and worst behind the scenes tea. Ashley deep dives into period finger banging. Gara has the best sex of their entire life.
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May 8, 2020 • 56min
TikTok Ban Bonus: Dedicated To The Youth
As Ashley battles a ban on her TikTok account (@ashgavscomedy is the new one) the WHGS gang decides to dedicate a special episode to the youths from TikTok that made the podcast go viral. On this episode we discuss coming out, our first loves and heartbreaks, what it's like to be young and queer, and the objects we masturbated on and/or with. @queerdancebaby @jenparkerdavis
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May 4, 2020 • 1h 3min
Milo Alosi is DONE with Canadians
Milo Alosi (Aladdin on Broadway) joins the podcast to discuss his horrible track record with Canadian men and his coming out story as a cis-male pansexual. Ashley has a fling with a single mom from Texas. Gara lectures on panda porn. Trigger warning 52:00 - 54:00, Ashley asks a not-so-thoughtful question about sexual orientation. @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 28, 2020 • 1h 4min
Remy Kassimir's Threesome Was Poorly Configured
Remy Kassimir (Netflix, How Cum Podcast) has a poorly configured threesome. Ashley picks up a straight stranger on the subway. Gara fights with a girl about who is the top. We discuss what goes into making a good threesome, what it's like to come out as pan while in a straight relationship, and moving your relationship from monogamous to poly. Trigger Warning: insensitive joke 45:00 to 45:20 @ashgavs @garararararara
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Apr 20, 2020 • 1h 7min
Jay Jurden Takes a Nude Every Morning
We discuss all things quarantine/online sex with thirst trap expert Jay Jurden (Tonight Show, Comedy Central, HBO). From gay alter-identities on twitter, to nudes, to thirst traps, we cover it all. Ashley sends her first nude. Gara tells us the best way to angle your phone for FaceTime sex. Follow us and send some questions! @ashgavs @garararararara
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Apr 13, 2020 • 1h 11min
Hannah Berner Has Big D**k/Denise Energy
We sit down with Hannah Berner (Bravo’s Summer House, Berning In Hell Podcast) to discuss her BDE, being a “butchy” straight girl, and watching solo female porn. Ashley accidentally says “I love you” during sex. Gara has to deal with two women feuding for their attention. We get deep and discuss moving forward from bad sexual experiences. Trigger Warning: discussion of sexual assault takes place from 46:45 to 51:45. @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 6, 2020 • 58min
Jes Tom Deep Fists Gynecologist
Ashley prepares for gay sex the hottest woman she's ever seen. A stranger slides into Gara's DMs for the very first time. Comedian Jes Tom has the best sex of their life with a gynecologist. We also discuss the correct way to fist and altering your gender presentation and energy to satisfy your partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 6, 2020 • 58min
Rayna Greenberg's Dad is Proud She Eats Pu**y (Girls Gotta Eat)
Ashley has sex with someone in the witness protection program. Gara eats pussy for the very first time. Rayna Greenberg (Girls Gotta Eat) hooks up with a ballet bear. We also discuss how to thoughtfully experiment sexually for the first time and whether or not you can have a gay phase.
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Apr 6, 2020 • 58min
Fat Carrie Bradshaw is Straight Bait
Ashley and Gara are surprised by unexpected bodily fluids inside their sexual partners. Chris Burns AKA Fat Carrie Bradshaw (Betches, Middle Children) gets kicked off Grindr. We also discuss what it's like to hook up with closeted people. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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