
We're Having Gay Sex
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy
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Jul 27, 2020 • 1h 3min
Sarah Schauer Tells Jokes in Bed
Sarah Schauer (of internet fame and irl talent) blesses us with her presence. We discuss making jokes while banging and covertly masturbating in public spaces. We also discuss growing up queer in religious homes. Ashley cries from an orgasm. Gara tries to hook up with their childhood love. Please bear with the audio on this episode, it is worth it :)
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Jul 20, 2020 • 1h 16min
Carlene Purcell Doesn't Booby Honk
Carlene Purcell opens up about learning to orgasm again after her spinal cord injury. We discuss her incredible psychosexual therapist, Michelle Donald, stimulating all different parts of your anatomy, her first time squirting, and disability pride month. Ashley and Gara deep dive into sex and hygiene: we discuss what smells we love and what smells we hate. This episode was really special to me, and I extend a huge thanks to Carlene for lending me her time Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 13, 2020 • 1h 11min
Jeff Perla has Lazer Ass
Jeff Perla, famous for taking pictures of asses around the world (you can see them on @thetravelinbum), sits down with us to talk all things BUTTS. We also discuss his hook up with a 27-year-old baby gay and whether our sex noises are authentic. Ashley gets an unexpected nude. Gara nearly has a threesome.
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Jul 6, 2020 • 1h 15min
Kai Wes is Mr. Bigwood
Kai Wes (MTV's Are You The One) talks about getting on Grindr for the first time, taking testosterone, and androgynous privilege. Ashley last minute hook up decision. Gara gets kicked out of their date's room... more than once.
You can find Kai's work at: @kai__wes on instagram.
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Jun 28, 2020 • 1h 3min
Corinne Fisher is Begging You to Take Off Your Acrylics
Corinne Fisher (Guys We F****d) tells the WHGS duo about the traumatizing time she got fingered in a nightclub by a woman with acrylics on. Ashley breaks her rule and has sex with a straight girl (again). Gara talks about role play and choosing their gender for sex.
You can find Corinne's work at: @philanthropygal on instagram
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Jun 22, 2020 • 1h 8min
Izzy McCalla Comes Towards The Light
Izzy McCalla (star of Aladdin and The Prom on Broadway) dishes on all the times she's had sex in public. Ashley "swallows" for a squirter. Gara comes for the first time on the floor of their community theatre costume shop. We also discuss why we, as a society, don't know more about women's sexual health, and Ashley simps for Izzy.
You can find Izzy's work at: @izzymccalla on instagram
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Jun 15, 2020 • 1h 1min
Rita Brent Knows That Scissoring is Hunchin'
Rita Brent (Comedy Central, TruTV) joins WHGS to discuss female wet dreams, the differences between scissoring, hunching, and tribbing, and what it was like to marry a man despite knowing she was gay. Ashley professes on the origins of scissoring in porn. Gara has the best gay night of their entire life.
You can find Rita's work at: @ritabrentcomedy on all platforms
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Jun 8, 2020 • 1h 13min
Dida Ritz Cleans Her Pipes w/ Drain-O
Dida Ritz (RuPaul's Drag Race, Queer Table) joins Ashley and Gara to discuss how preparing for gay sex is a lot like playing Candy Land. Ashley swears she did not put her teeth on the clit of her first love. Gara travels into the Iowa country side for their first gay sex on a waterbed. Finally, Dida answers all your basic questions about drag.
You can find Dida's work at: @didaswag @therealdidswag and on @queertable
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Jun 1, 2020 • 57min
Black Lives Matter: Conversations w/ 3 Black Comedians
Featuring Jourdain Fisher (Comedy Central, The Tonight Show), Jay Jurden (HBO, Comedy Central, The Tonight Show) and Alysia Brown (Vulture). This week we are highlighting the work of black artists and encouraging our listeners to listen, read, and otherwise consume black narratives. Please consider making a donation to Reclaim The Block, and following these amazing black comedians. Black lives matter.
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May 25, 2020 • 1h 4min
Brian Bahe Loves Your Hairy Butthole
Comedian Brian Bahe (Sketchfest) opens up about his fight against the fear of eating ass, while Ashley repeatedly gets strep throat from eating too much of it. Gara has sex with their twin (figurative, not literal) and the gang discusses the ethical consequences of having sex with your clone.
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