Milo Alosi (Aladdin on Broadway) joins the podcast to discuss his horrible track record with Canadian men and his coming out story as a cis-male pansexual. Ashley has a fling with a single mom from Texas. Gara lectures on panda porn. Trigger warning 52:00 - 54:00, Ashley asks a not-so-thoughtful question about sexual orientation. @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Remy Kassimir (Netflix, How Cum Podcast) has a poorly configured threesome. Ashley picks up a straight stranger on the subway. Gara fights with a girl about who is the top. We discuss what goes into making a good threesome, what it's like to come out as pan while in a straight relationship, and moving your relationship from monogamous to poly. Trigger Warning: insensitive joke 45:00 to 45:20 @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We discuss all things quarantine/online sex with thirst trap expert Jay Jurden (Tonight Show, Comedy Central, HBO). From gay alter-identities on twitter, to nudes, to thirst traps, we cover it all. Ashley sends her first nude. Gara tells us the best way to angle your phone for FaceTime sex. Follow us and send some questions! @ashgavs @garararararara      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We sit down with Hannah Berner (Bravo’s Summer House, Berning In Hell Podcast) to discuss her BDE, being a “butchy” straight girl, and watching solo female porn. Ashley accidentally says “I love you” during sex. Gara has to deal with two women feuding for their attention. We get deep and discuss moving forward from bad sexual experiences. Trigger Warning: discussion of sexual assault takes place from 46:45 to 51:45. @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ashley prepares for gay sex the hottest woman she's ever seen. A stranger slides into Gara's DMs for the very first time. Comedian Jes Tom has the best sex of their life with a gynecologist. We also discuss the correct way to fist and altering your gender presentation and energy to satisfy your partner.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ashley has sex with someone in the witness protection program. Gara eats pussy for the very first time. Rayna Greenberg (Girls Gotta Eat) hooks up with a ballet bear. We also discuss how to thoughtfully experiment sexually for the first time and whether or not you can have a gay phase.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ashley and Gara are surprised by unexpected bodily fluids inside their sexual partners. Chris Burns AKA Fat Carrie Bradshaw (Betches, Middle Children) gets kicked off Grindr. We also discuss what it's like to hook up with closeted people.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Enjoy a preview of what's to come on WE'RE HAVING GAY SEX, and yes, straight people are welcome too.  After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer encounters in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her snowflake-sidekick Gara, a non-binary, pansexual, 23-year-old “youth in the soundbooth”, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices