
We're Having Gay Sex
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy
Latest episodes

Feb 15, 2021 • 1h 2min
Francesca Farago: Never Have I Ever
Francesca Farago (Netflix Too Hot To Handle, Farago The Label) made our dreams come true on the podcast this week. We talk about her budding love story with her new girlfriend Demi Sims (Towie), hooking up with girls while dating Harry Jowsey, and feeling like her whole self after coming out. Ashley may or may not have fingered in a car which is something no one should ever do and she probably didn't even do it. Gara bangs to Fixer Upper
Francesca can be found at @francescafarago on IG and Tiktok. Her swimwear line is called Farago The Label.
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@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.
@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.
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Feb 8, 2021 • 1h 9min
Taylor Strecker Doesn't Need a Label
This episode we do a deep dive w/ actual radio royalty Taylor Strecker! We cover her entire coming out process from divorcing her husband, wondering if she was asexual (and might still be a little), to meeting her fiancé and coming out to her parents. If you are worried about your labels, defining your sexuality, or feeling generally confused, this is a GREAT episode for you.
Taylor is @taylorstrecker on IG and you can listen to her on Wake Up w/ Taylor and Taste of Taylor.
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@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.
@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.
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Feb 1, 2021 • 1h 12min
First Time Daddy w/ Watts The Safe Word
It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp from "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the first time. Gara calls someone daddy for the first time.
Watch their podcast Watt's The Safe Word on YouTube (or listen anywhere)
Mr Kristofer can be found @mrkristoferweston on IG and @kristoferweston on Twitter.
Pup Amp can be found @pupamp on IG and Twitter
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@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.
@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.
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Jan 25, 2021 • 1h 6min
Mila Myles: Champion Squirter
Mila Myles (New York State of Mindfulness podcast) is on the podcast this week and they finally answer your most burning sex questions: What is knuckling? Can everyone squirt? And is sex better on shrooms? Ashley catches a woman she once hooked up with in a lie, and we debate whether and what to text her. Gara bangs in front of the empire state building.
Mila Myles can be found on IG @MilaMiles & on twitter @mila_doesit
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@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.
@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.
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Jan 18, 2021 • 1h 10min
Georgia Bridgers Names Names
Georgia Bridgers (YouTube, ok anyway podcast) guests on the pod this week and brings *major* star power and leo energy. We discuss the first time she *did it*, coming out on YouTube, and being bi but losing her gay virginity first. Ashley's ex fights with her new girlfriend. Gara needs chapstick.
Georgia Bridgers can be found on IG and Twitter @georgiabridgers, Georgia Bridgers on YouTube, and @georgialynnrose on TikTok
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@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.
@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.
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Jan 11, 2021 • 1h 2min
Demi Burnett Wants The Meatloaf
HOLY SH*T DEMI BURNETT IS ON THE PODCAST!!!! On this episode we talk about coming out on national TV (Demi is a Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise alum) her big top energy and the people who can top her, meatloaf, and that time Ruby Rose slid into her DMs. Ashley thinks she's using lube, but turns out, it was not lube. Gara tries to find agent 0069.
Demi Burnett can be found on IG @demi_not_lovato , @demi_burnett on twitter, and @demlia on TikTok
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@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.
@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.
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Jan 4, 2021 • 1h 5min
Chris Sapphire Gets Lonely, Drunk, and Plays Avril Lavigne
Chris Sapphire (Netflix's The Circle) brings all the energy on this episode and we're here for it. We talk about why hook up life wasn't right for him, being gay *and* spiritual, and loving yourself while single. Ashley has a weird connection with a girl on a cruise. Gara comes out to a gay friend in church at 3 am.
Chris Sapphire is a treasure so go check out his work on IG (mrchrissapphire) and Twitter (chrissapphire)
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@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.
@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.
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Dec 28, 2020 • 1h 9min
Lorelei Ramirez Starring in BUM BUM TIME!
Lorelei Ramirez (Los Espookys on HBO, and the New York Times) joins us for an incredibly avant garde, poignant episode where we get into codependency and boundaries to keep relationships healthy. Ashley sustains a sexual injury to her jaw. Gara reviews Happiest Season.
Lorelei is not only a comedian but works in many other mediums. Follow their instagram @pileoftears, their twitch show https://www.twitch.tv/lramirez8095, and their art ig account @pileoftears_art. They have a full special on YouTube as well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3uDEg_gwoY&feature=youtu.be
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@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.
@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.
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Dec 21, 2020 • 1h 9min
Jared Freid is the Straight Ambassador of Male Ass Play (JTrain & U Up?)
Jared Freid (JTrain Podcast & U Up? Podcast) might be our first ever straight male guest, but his official title is the ambassador of male ass play. We talk toxic masculinity, and the differences between dating queer and dating straight. Ashley takes a finger up her butt. Gara enjoys some morning wood.
Jared is a podcasting king. Follow JTrain and U Up? He's also a BRILLIANT comedian so go follow him on IG and watch his "live screams" of the bachelor. @jaredfreid
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@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.
@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.
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Dec 14, 2020 • 1h 4min
Breanne Williamson: Eat, Bre, Out (The Bre-peat)
Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain Podcast) is back for a BRE-peat episode and it's even better than the first. Breanne talks about the time she nearly died using ice cubes in bed. Jen (@jenparkerdavis on ig and tiktok) makes a cameo to talk with Ashley about fake orgasms. Gara talks about sex music and what happens when you reach the end of your sex playlist.
Breanne has a fabulous YouTube channel under her name and can be found on ig @breannewilliamson and tiktok @breannewilliamson_
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@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.
@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.
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