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Kevin McHale (Glee & The Office), if you are reading this, honestly, why did you do our podcast? We didn't deserve you. Kevin shares discovering fanfic about himself and his co-stars on Glee, getting feelings for someone during his open relationship, and coming out via AIM. Ashley recalls the last time she tried to hook up with a man (gross). Gara comes out as non-binary at Pride.  Kevin can be found on instagram @kevinmchale or on twitter at @druidDUDE Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Shea Diamond (Spotify "I am Her", "American Pie", "I am America", "Good Pressure")  blesses us by breaking into song on this episode. Shea recounts her tale of running away from home so that she could come out of the closet. But don't worry, it gets better, and the happy ending includes Sam Smith and The Buttigieg family. Ashley gets an angry email from her aunt after a TikTok goes viral. Gara is a chamber of secrets.  Shea can be found at @iamsheadiamond on IG and Twitter.  She is Shia Diamond on Spotify.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Francesca Farago (Netflix Too Hot To Handle, Farago The Label) made our dreams come true on the podcast this week. We talk about her budding love story with her new girlfriend Demi Sims (Towie), hooking up with girls while dating Harry Jowsey, and feeling like her whole self after coming out. Ashley may or may not have fingered in a car which is something no one should ever do and she probably didn't even do it. Gara bangs to Fixer Upper Francesca can be found at @francescafarago on IG and Tiktok.  Her swimwear line is called Farago The Label.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode we do a deep dive w/ actual radio royalty Taylor Strecker! We cover her entire coming out process from divorcing her husband, wondering if she was asexual (and might still be a little), to meeting her fiancé and coming out to her parents. If you are worried about your labels, defining your sexuality, or feeling generally confused, this is a GREAT episode for you.  Taylor is @taylorstrecker on IG and you can listen to her on Wake Up w/ Taylor and Taste of Taylor.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp  from "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the first time. Gara calls someone daddy for the first time. Watch their podcast Watt's The Safe Word on YouTube (or listen anywhere) Mr Kristofer can be found @mrkristoferweston on IG and @kristoferweston on Twitter.  Pup Amp can be found @pupamp on IG and Twitter Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mila Myles (New York State of Mindfulness podcast) is on the podcast this week and they finally answer your most burning sex questions: What is knuckling? Can everyone squirt? And is sex better on shrooms? Ashley catches a woman she once hooked up with in a lie, and we debate whether and what to text her. Gara bangs in front of the empire state building.  Mila Myles can be found on IG @MilaMiles & on twitter @mila_doesit Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Georgia Bridgers (YouTube, ok anyway podcast) guests on the pod this week and brings *major* star power and leo energy. We discuss the first time she *did it*, coming out on YouTube, and being bi but losing her gay virginity first. Ashley's ex fights with her new girlfriend. Gara needs chapstick. Georgia Bridgers can be found on IG and Twitter @georgiabridgers, Georgia Bridgers on YouTube, and @georgialynnrose on TikTok Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

HOLY SH*T DEMI BURNETT IS ON THE PODCAST!!!! On this episode we talk about coming out on national TV (Demi is a Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise alum) her big top energy and the people who can top her, meatloaf, and that time Ruby Rose slid into her DMs. Ashley thinks she's using lube, but turns out, it was not lube. Gara tries to find agent 0069.  Demi Burnett can be found on IG @demi_not_lovato , @demi_burnett on twitter, and @demlia on TikTok Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Chris Sapphire (Netflix's The Circle) brings all the energy on this episode and we're here for it. We talk about why hook up life wasn't right for him, being gay *and* spiritual, and loving yourself while single. Ashley has a weird connection with a girl on a cruise. Gara comes out to a gay friend in church at 3 am. Chris Sapphire is a treasure so go check out his work on IG (mrchrissapphire) and Twitter (chrissapphire) Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lorelei Ramirez (Los Espookys on HBO, and the New York Times) joins us for an incredibly avant garde, poignant episode where we get into codependency and boundaries to keep relationships healthy. Ashley sustains a sexual injury to her jaw. Gara reviews Happiest Season.  Lorelei is not only a comedian but works in many other mediums. Follow their instagram @pileoftears, their twitch show https://www.twitch.tv/lramirez8095, and their art ig account @pileoftears_art. They have a full special on YouTube as well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3uDEg_gwoY&feature=youtu.be Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices