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Natalie Wynn (ContraPoints) is a YouTuber, ex-philosopher, transgender woman, and all-round genius who has decided to put down the books for some sexy times with the gang! We discuss compulsory heterosexuality, managing overwhelming romantic feelings, and our glorious new algorithm overlords. Ashley meets a true “chucklefucker.” Kate celebrates the New Year, COLOMBIAN STYLE!Natalie can be found @contrapoints on IG and Twitter, and you can support her amazing and thoughtful content on YouTube or her Patreon: https://www.youtube.com/c/ContraPointshttps://www.patreon.com/contrapointsAshley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.  Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSTry Green Chef, and get $130 off + FREE shipping on the most sustainable meal kit by visiting our special link and using code “ashley130”: https://www.greenchef.com/ashley130 Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/rtLy4sAJbRo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Legally, it's not a date. Yes, anywhere in the continental United States, must be 18+ to enter.Text NOTADATE to 877 497 0441 (or click here)Or submit via my website @ ashleygavin.com/winFull Rules Here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Eman El-Husseini (Comedians vs. The News) is a rib-tickling stand-up comedian and ½ of the dynamic lesbian comedy couple, the El-Salomans, but today she is stepping inside the apartment for an affair with the gang! We discuss finding true love, queer dating abroad, and ski-cucking your long-time partner. Ashley has a date, and she’s FREAKING OUT. Kate seduces a Spaniard.Eman can be found on IG: @eman_el_husseini; Twitter: @emanifique,And her comedy duo, the El-Salomans, can be found on IG: @theelsalomans.Their podcast “Comedians Vs. the News” is coming back to BBC for a 3rd season, and you can watch their comedy special “Marriage of Convenience” on YouTube now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NI9UkoZEe_o&ab_channel=JustForLaughs   Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates  Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/zBEo-DoRRFQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tien Tran (How I Met Your Father) is a riveting lesbian stand-up who has performed on Comedy Central and more, but today she is calling in straight from the mid-west for some cybering in the apartment! We discuss accidental injury in bed, terrible exes, and the intense historical rivalry between France and rural Illinois. Ashley encounters a “poly supremacist.” Kate has a subway stand-off.         Tien can be found @hanktina on IG,And you can watch her on “How I Met Your Father,” streaming exclusively on Hulu; new episodes release every Tuesday. Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and TwitterSupport WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSVisit Allform to find the perfect sofa for your home, and get 20% OFF any order by visiting our special link: https://allform.com/gaysexUse Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: https://www.truebill.com/ashleyWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/sUKGn-MxJnY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hilarious queer comedian Franqi French (Stand Up NBC, Curb Your Enthusiasm) has been on a meteoric rise, but today she has decided to come BACK the apartment for more hijinks, laughs, and gay sex. We discuss public sex acts, late vs. early bloomers, and maybe accidentally getting too high before work. Kate prepares to lose their virginity. Ashley performs for geriatric swingers.Franqi can be found @franqifrench on IG and Twitter,And see her live while she is headlining the DC Comedy Loft on April 8th -9th! Follow her on social media for more info, or visit https://franqifrench.com/ Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter--Want better sleep? Try Helix, and get up to $200 off any mattress order and two free pillows by visiting our special link: https://helixsleep.com/gaysex       Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/ViWbKaRJ6HM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Gus Constantellis is a 1st generation Greek-American stand-up/writer, a hysterical human, and the viral “Greek Mom” who has performed across the tri-state area, California, and your TikTok feed, but today he has settled into the apartment to get wet and wild! We discuss immigrant parents, spontaneous sexuality, and MILF metaphysics. Ashley finds “mommy.” Kate gets down and dirty, literally.   Gus can be found across the internet on IG, Twitter, and TikTok at: @constantlygusMerch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and TwitterSupport WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSPrefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/1PIgkGth300 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Fan-favorite Casey Tanner, AASECT, is a Queer Sex Therapist and founder of The Expansive Group, a queer-affirming therapy group that provides consultation and clinical work to individuals and institutions alike. But, today she is BACK in the apartment to answer questions and drive Ashley crazy. We discuss the complexities of queer identity, unpacking trauma, and why Ashley can’t stop simping. Ashley just wants her book back. Kate watches porn for the first time.You can find Casey on:IG: @queersextherapy, And you can learn more about her practice, as well as find LGBTQ counseling and gender therapy, on her organization’s website: https://www.theexpansivegroup.com/Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and TwitterSubscribe to our Patreon for bonus content, uncut episodes, stand-up live streams, and more!: www.patreon.com/whgsUse Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting https://www.truebill.com/ashleyPrefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5gKExymsCA0 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Brian Bahe is a hilarious Indigenous comedian, writer, and gay man who has been written up by NPR, Vulture, and the Los Angeles Times, and has an upcoming stand-up set on Comedy Central. However, thanks to the Covid-19 Omicron variant, the gang is avoiding the apartment this week and doing some cybering! We discuss coming out in school, underground sex parties, and getting horny via Pavlovian conditioning. Ashley charts her ups, downs, tops, and bottoms. Kate’s MILF fantasies go awry.       Brian can be found on: IG & Twitter: @brian_bahe,And his upcoming solo show, “Reading From My Phone,” plays on 1/23/22 at Union Hall in Brooklyn! Tickets can be purchased at: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/brian-bahe-reading-from-my-phone-tickets-221756408387, and you can learn about upcoming shows on his IG, or brianbahe.com.Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and TwitterSubscribe to our Patreon for bonus content, uncut episodes, stand-up live streams, and more!: www.patreon.com/whgsPrefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fNdT9u90U0I Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kevin McHale (Glee, Virtually Famous) and Austin McKenzie (Spring Awakening, When We Rise) are an absolute power couple taking the world by storm, best known for their numerous performances across television, film, theatre, and music, but today they slow down to get intimate in the apartment. We discuss the dynamics of sleep kink, the ins-and-outs of topping, and… *ahem*… the 2nd Amendment. Ashley confronts toxic masculinity. Kate gets a lesbian circumcision.Kevin McHale can be found on:IG: @kevinmchale,Twitter: @druidDUDE,And more exciting projects to be announced soon!Austin McKenzie can be found on:IG: @austineyes,Twitter: @apm_official,And you can stream his music on: Spotify, (https://open.spotify.com/artist/1POOtj6nQMh8veKXfQMZee)Apple Music, (https://music.apple.com/us/artist/austin-p-mckenzie/1205567214)Or wherever you listen!Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and TwitterUse Truebill to manage unwanted subscriptions, lower bills, and save money by visiting www.truebill.com/ashley Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iVpQtj_Euqs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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