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Fan-favorite Jake Cornell (Going Out w/ Jake Cornell), a must-see comedian/actor/writer on the rise, has finally returned to the apartment to exchange a few STIs with the crew! We discuss sexual health and STD prevention, getting surgery to improve your head game, and banging your long-lost cousin. Ashley meets a mamãe brasileira. Kate needs to buy a suit.You can find Jake on IG, Twitter, and TikTok: @jakewcornell,You can listen to his podcast, “Going Out With Jake Cornell,” wherever you listen,And you can see his live show, “Gorge Night,” on 4/28 at Union Hall in Brooklyn: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/gorge-night-with-jake-cornell-tickets-302767414487      Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.        Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates–Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSGet 20% off your first order of Foria’s CDB-based intimacy products by using code ASHLEY at check, or visiting our special link: https://www.foriawellness.com/ashleyWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/WHDB8pgYri8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Youngmi Mayer (Feeling Asian, Hairy Butthole) is a spectacular comedian and podcaster who is taking on the world with her sharp social commentary, but today she is slowing down to get sensual in the apartment! We discuss the inscrutability of sexual chemistry, complex perceptions of biracial individuals, and the need for proper Asian representation in our sex toys. Ashley gets real kinky. Kate tries to keep it quiet.Youngmi Mayer can be found on IG and Twitter: @ymmayer, TikTok: @youngmimayer,And you can listen to her fantastic podcasts, “Feeling Asian” and “Hairy Butthole,” wherever you listen! IG: @feelingasianpodcast, @hairybuttholepodcast.Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.        Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates–Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSWant better sleep? Try Helix, and get up to $200 off any mattress order and two free pillows by visiting our special link: https://helixsleep.com/gaysexUse Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: https://www.truebill.com/ashleyWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/cqeMxbQzSHY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Emily Wilson is a side-splitting triple threat of a comedian who performs across NYC, and soon globally at the Edinburgh Festival Fringe and more, but today she is keeping it local for a booty-call in the apartment! We discuss Emily’s truly EPIC story of being a finalist on “The X-Factor,” the joys of motherhood, and the bigger joys of group sex. Ashley has lost her mojo. Kate is stuck between a rock and a plumbing problem.    You can find Emily: @therealemilywilson on all platforms,And you can see her hilarious new one woman show, “FIXED,” at a city near you! Visit https://linktr.ee/therealemilywilson for tickets and show dates! Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.        Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates–Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/lyL4gI5K5fw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Shan Boodram (Lovers and Friends) is a certified sexologist and intimacy expert who has advised giants like Netflix, Hulu, ABC, and more, but today she is in the apartment to drop some knowledge on us! We discuss why straight men are so boring in bed, the confounding complexities of pregnancy, and how exactly to make YOUR clitoris happy. Ashley gets her nut for the first time. Kate inches closer to the truth.Shan can be found on IG: @shanboody,Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/shannontboodram/,And you can listen to her show, “Lovers and Friends,” wherever you get podcasts!   Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.        Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates–Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSGet 20% off your first order of Foria’s CDB-based intimacy products by using code ASHLEY at check, or visiting our special link: https://www.foriawellness.com/ashleyWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/6UHz-3sGdCo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Andrea Jin (Just for Laughs, Sirius XM) is an amazing shanghai-born comedian and writer whose work has been featured on VICE, CBC Comedy, and more, but today she has dropped into the apartment to wash her private parts. We discuss realizing you’re queer without having sex, feeling stuck in relationships, and fast food-based vaginal hygiene. Ashley blows through some red flags. Kate bangs with a broken butthole.Andrea can be found on IG: @andreajin, Twitter: @andreajin_, or https://www.andreajin.com/,And you can listen to her debut standup comedy album, “Grandma’s Girl,” now! https://fanlink.to/GrandmasGirlAshley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.        Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates–Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/WHIlSHksrC8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

(TW: sexual assault) Fan-favorite Austin McKenzie (Spring Awakening, When We Rise, Unhinged) is a multi-talented actor and musician, but today he is pausing his gay sex vacation to swing by the apartment! We discuss sexual assault in the gay male community, overcoming sexual trauma, and the intricacies of RuPaul’s media pantheon. Ashley steps up to her bully. Kate has ADHD. You can find Austin McKenzie on IG: @austineyes, Twitter: @apm_official,And you can listen to his new single, “Sending My Love Through the Ether,” on all platforms!https://open.spotify.com/track/7GJ512g5DxcxLpIkfpHz6D?si=f03b2221eac146a4      Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.        Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates–Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSWant better sleep? Try Helix, and get up to $200 off any mattress order and two free pillows by visiting our special link: https://helixsleep.com/gaysexListen to “Rich and Daily” on the Wondery App or wherever you listen, and hear it AD-FREE by subscribing to Wondery Plus: https://wondery.com/plus/Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: https://www.truebill.com/ashleyWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/6Gio61krVIY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sam Morrison (Tonight Show Showcase, Stand Up NBC, NY Comedy Festival) is a top-tier stand-up comedian, gay diabetic widow, and Ashley’s bestest friend/future sperm donor, but today he’s in the apartment to spread the daddy bear gospel. We discuss dick-based sense memory, dealing with grief, and getting up in your mugger’s FACE. Ashley seeks closure. Kate hits the Big Apple, LESBIAN STYLE! You can find Sam on IG and Twitter: @samuelhmorrison,Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoqH2PlyB2hIuHOGzBfjVxA,And you can see him live in a city near you! Stay updated by visiting his website: http://www.samuelmorrison.com/ Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.        Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates–Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSListen to “Rich and Daily” on the Wondery App or wherever you listen, and hear it AD-FREE by subscribing to Wondery Plus: https://wondery.com/plus/Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/bRJvjwWFqmU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Caitlin Peluffo (Good Time Gal) is a hysterical stand-up comedian who performed across the United States and on your television on Late Night with Stephen Colbert, but today she is stopping by the apartment to dip her toes back into the gay sex game! We discuss exploring your sexuality, uncomfortable group sex, and the beauty of the butch woman. Ashley battles for cat custody. Kate gets emasculated by his sink.You can find Caitlin on IG and Twitter: @caitlinpeluffo,And stay up to date on when she is in your city by visiting her website: https://www.caitlinpeluffo.com/upcoming-shows-iiAshley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.        Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates  –Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/SVQ4yjCGoTg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Angel Flores is a transgender powerlifter, political activist, and coach at the Liberation Barbell Club, a queer-friendly gym, but today she is putting down her heavy work to get sweaty with us in the apartment! We discuss transition milestones, dating mid-transition, and which tactics to employ in order to stare at titties. Ashley’s sex fest gets interrupted. Kate celebrates his queer identity.       You can find Angel on IG: @arkangeljoy, on Twitter: @ArkangelAthlete, and on her website at: https://arkangel.squarespace.com/And follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation yourself: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates  Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.   –Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSWant to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/xrqXKvJWVCc Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mak Ingemi is a lively queer vlogger/influencer with nearly three million followers across YouTube, TikTok, and IG, but today she is focusing her efforts on some pleasure with the gang! We discuss phone sex, maintaining healthy outlooks in relationships, and the lesbian curse of carpal tunnel syndrome. Ashley navigates the “Broad Squad.” Kate plans a name change. Mak can be found on TikTok and IG: @makingemi,And you can watch her fantastic content on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Makingemi  Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.     Want to hear more? Check out the following links:Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs@ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.@thekatesisk on IG and Twitter     Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Visit Allform to find the perfect sofa for your home, and get 20% OFF any order by visiting our special link: https://allform.com/gaysex Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: https://www.truebill.com/ashley Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/XKapUDuGXM8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices