

Charis Your Life with Charis Santillie
Charis Santillie
The Charis Your Life® Podcast is a home for people navigating major life transitions — the kind that reshape identity, relationships, purpose, and the way you move through the world.
If you're a high-achieving entrepreneur, leader, or quietly exhausted human who looks put-together on the outside yet feels something shifting inside… this is for you. You may be in a season of endings, beginnings, reinvention, or unexpected fire. Maybe you’re facing your own inner dragons. Maybe life is inviting you into a deeper version of yourself.
Here, you’ll find grounded wisdom, candid stories, emotional truth, and practical tools to help you soften your armor, trust yourself, and meet your life with more ease.
Hosted by Fearless Transitions Coach Charis Santillie, this show blends lived experience with actionable guidance to help you recalibrate your energy, reclaim your clarity, and navigate change with courage and grace.
Charis shares insights from her own profound chapters of loss, reinvention, and awakening, along with teachings that help you shift from performing your life to truly living it. Expect honesty, depth, humor, and the reminder that even in the mess, there is magic.
If you’re ready to create a life that feels calmer, truer, and fully yours — welcome.
This is Midlife Magic.
New episodes arrive when inspiration does — not on a schedule, but on purpose.
If you're a high-achieving entrepreneur, leader, or quietly exhausted human who looks put-together on the outside yet feels something shifting inside… this is for you. You may be in a season of endings, beginnings, reinvention, or unexpected fire. Maybe you’re facing your own inner dragons. Maybe life is inviting you into a deeper version of yourself.
Here, you’ll find grounded wisdom, candid stories, emotional truth, and practical tools to help you soften your armor, trust yourself, and meet your life with more ease.
Hosted by Fearless Transitions Coach Charis Santillie, this show blends lived experience with actionable guidance to help you recalibrate your energy, reclaim your clarity, and navigate change with courage and grace.
Charis shares insights from her own profound chapters of loss, reinvention, and awakening, along with teachings that help you shift from performing your life to truly living it. Expect honesty, depth, humor, and the reminder that even in the mess, there is magic.
If you’re ready to create a life that feels calmer, truer, and fully yours — welcome.
This is Midlife Magic.
New episodes arrive when inspiration does — not on a schedule, but on purpose.
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Apr 8, 2024 • 6min
Circle of Limitation – Lessons from an Ant
Have you ever seen an ant trapped by a circle drawn on a piece of paper? Many of our own barriers are like that. Think about your constraints—are they real or self-imposed? Consider this: What if they're just like the marker lines, not limits? Challenge your boundaries. Take that step beyond.Join me as we embrace the courage to challenge the status quo and take that first step outside the supposed circle. By doing so, we open ourselves up to a world of endless opportunities and growth.What you’ll learn:The concept of invisible barriers and their impact on our livesRecognizing self-imposed limitations versus actual constraintsChallenging perceived boundaries and expanding your comfort zoneThe power of shifting perspectives and redefining your limitationsResources: Get my FREE training: The First Step to Better Balance in Your Life https://www.charisyourlife.com/freetrainingFollow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Apr 1, 2024 • 59min
Charis Chats with Rick Hale – Stop Settling
Meet Rick Hale, a modern Renaissance man with a diverse array of talents including entrepreneurship, writing, music, and art, alongside his passions for boating and fishing.Rick's dedication to building businesses and inspiring others shines through his work. He's a driving force behind a Keller Williams real estate group boasting 1500 agents who achieved remarkable success, selling over 10,000 homes and exceeding $3 billion in volume last year.Dig into Rick's insights as he shares his life and business experiences in his book, "Stop Settling – Finding Clear Directions for a Regret-Free Life." His philosophy revolves around purposefully impacting lives, aiming for lasting change and helping others find true north in all aspects of life.In this episode, we explore the concept of "stop settling" with Rick, discussing the significance of embracing change and pursuing growth rather than settling for mediocrity. Join us as we uncover valuable insights to inspire your own journey toward fulfillment and purpose.(0:00) Introduction(10:00) Discussion about Rick's book "Stop Settling" and the concept of leaving a legacy(20:00) Balancing personal passions, building a successful business, and redefining success(30:00) The concept of a 5-year future self workshop and the importance of experiences over material possessions(40:00) Coping with aging parents, navigating identity, and embracing space in life(50:00) Reflecting on life's eulogy, reconnecting with personal philosophies, and key takeaways from Rick's book(57:20) Rick Hale's parting advice and mantra for success(58:05) Wrapping Up the Podcast EpisodeResources: Rick Hale’s Website: www.rickhale.com Rick Hale's book "Stop Settling": https://amzn.to/3TDX5xH (Amazon affiliate link)Get my FREE training: The First Step to Better Balance in Your Life https://www.charisyourlife.com/freetrainingFollow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Mar 25, 2024 • 8min
Wabi Sabi Wisdom
Are you ready to be flawsome? In this episode, I explored the Japanese philosophy of Wabi Sabi, which celebrates imperfection and the beauty found in the ordinary and aged. The concept of Kintsugi, where broken objects are repaired with gold, exemplifies the Wabi Sabi philosophy by highlighting flaws rather than hiding them. Join me in embracing Wabi Sabi and adopting a "flawsome" attitude, embracing their imperfections while recognizing their inherent awesomeness.Resources: Get my FREE training: The First Step to Better Balance in Your Life https://www.charisyourlife.com/freetrainingFollow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Mar 18, 2024 • 9min
The Opposite of Control is Trust
What do you truly have control over? What are the key elements of trust? How do you nurture inner peace?Join me in choosing trust over control this week. Let's listen to that inner voice, loosen our grip, and discover the magic of life's moments.What you’ll learn:Why trust is the opposite of controlThe subtle shifts that lead to greater resiliencePractical strategies for embracing trust in your daily lifeResources: Get my FREE training: The First Step to Better Balance in Your Life https://www.charisyourlife.com/freetrainingFollow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Mar 13, 2024 • 8min
Celebrating 100 Episodes as a Constellation of Conversations
Welcome to a monumental milestone – Episode 100 of our podcast! 🎉 Can you believe it? We've shared laughter, tears, and countless moments of inspiration together on this journey, and I'm deeply grateful for each and every one of you who has been a part of it.In honor of this milestone, I want to share a concept by Scott Boddie that has deeply resonated with me: "Don't just connect the dots, draw constellations." Together, we've explored new ideas, shared stories, and found inspiration in unexpected places. Let's continue to create our own constellations of meaning and connection as we navigate life's journey.Thank you for being a part of this incredible adventure. Here's to the next hundred episodes and the stars we'll discover together!Resources: Get my FREE training: The First Step to Better Balance in Your Life https://www.charisyourlife.com/freetrainingFollow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Mar 8, 2024 • 10min
The Power of “I” vs “You”
In this episode, Charis Santillie discusses the shift from impersonal “you” to personal “I” language in conversations, exploring its universal framing and benefits. She also shares useful techniques to encourage this change and enhance authenticity in daily life.(0:00) Introduction(1:40) The transition from impersonal to personal language(3:27) The universal framing of experiences(5:06) Techniques to shift from "you" to "I" in conversations(7:05) The benefits of authenticity in daily life(8:20) Closing remarks and invitation to listeners(9:04) Connecting with Charis Santillie on social mediaResources: Get my FREE training: The First Step to Better Balance in Your Life https://www.charisyourlife.com/freetrainingFollow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Feb 27, 2024 • 18min
The Reality Algorithm
In this episode, Charis Santillie explores the world of online and offline algorithms, and the brain’s Reticular Activating System (RAS). She emphasizes the importance of brain training and focus, discusses the Wheel of Fear and Wheel of Freedom, and provides tips to retrain your RAS to curate your reality.What you’ll learn:How your attention shapes your realityHow the brain’s Reticular Activating System (RAS) adapts to our shifting interests, influencing what you notice in your surroundingsHow to focus on what truly matters for your most fulfilling lifeResources: Get my FREE training: The First Step to Better Balance in Your Life https://www.charisyourlife.com/freetrainingFollow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Feb 19, 2024 • 1h 8min
Charis Chats with Wendy Harrop – Say Yes to Yourself
Wendy Harrop curates opportunities for women to say YES to themselves through workshops, retreats, and farm stays at her historic B&B on a small flower farm in rural MA and on culinary trips to France. She is also the host of the “say YES to yourself!” podcast. In this episode, Charis Chats with Wendy about her transition from a wedding planner to a bed and breakfast host. They discuss the importance of space in personal growth, Wendy's love for France, her journey to self-permission, and the power of saying 'yes' to yourself. They also delve into Wendy's daily routine, love, relationships, overcoming doubts, and the art of detaching from outcomes.What You'll Learn:Hear Wendy's journey of self-permission and personal growthDiscover strategies for fostering healthy relationships amidst life's challengesExplore the importance of detaching from outcomes and embracing life's uncertaintiesGain practical advice on how to say YES to yourselfResources:- Get my FREE 6-minute training ‘Your First Step to Better Life Balance’ https://charisyourlife.com/freetraining - Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/charisyourlife/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/Wendy Harrop’s Website: https://phineaswrighthouse.com Wendy’s Upcoming France Trips: https://www.phineaswrighthouse.com/experiencesWendy's Podcast "say YES to yourself!": https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-yes-to-yourself/id1597346416Wendy’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/phineaswrighthouseWendy’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/phineaswrighthouseGet my FREE training: The First Step to Better Balance in Your Life https://www.charisyourlife.com/freetrainingFollow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Feb 12, 2024 • 1h 2min
Charis Chats with Felicia Bender, Ph.D. — 2024 Numerology Update
Felicia Bender. Ph.D. - The Practical Numerologist is devoted to helping people uncover their life's purpose - and so much more - with Numerology.She is the author of Redesign Your Life: Using Numerology To Create The Wildly Optimal You, Master Numbers 11, 22, 33: The Ultimate Guide & The Ultimate Guide To Practical Numerology: Mapping Your Path & Purpose.Felicia is featured in many media outlets, including Refinery 29, Women’s Health, elephant journal and more.In this episode, Charis Chats with Felicia about the energy of 2024 from the perspective of numerology. They also explore what personal years are inside numerology.Resources: Felicia Bender’s Monthly Numerology Forecast: https://feliciabender.com/monthly-forecast/Felicia’s website: https://feliciabender.com/Felicia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePracticalNumerologistFelicia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/feliciabender/Felicia on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/FeliciaBenderGet my FREE training: The First Step to Better Balance in Your Life https://www.charisyourlife.com/freetrainingFollow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Feb 1, 2024 • 43min
Charis Chats with Sarah Parise – Simple Self-Care for Busy Moms
Charis Chats with Sarah Parise about her wellness journey and her 12-week program for moms. They discuss the power of community in fitness, the role of self-care and meal prep in daily routines. Sarah shares her 7-day reset program and other resources for lifestyle transformation.Sarah Parise is an ACE Certified Personal Trainer, Wellness Coach, Yoga Instructor, business owner, but most importantly, a mother. Driven by her passion to help other moms take better care of themselves, she's created a business centered around self-care and prioritizing themselves for just 2% of the day.Resources: Sarah's Freebie: Discover How Busy Moms Prioritize Their Own Wellness: https://pages.sarahparise.com/guide-1Sarah's 7 Day Wellness Reset: https://pages.sarahparise.com/wellness-resetSarah Parise's website: https://www.greatdaysbysarah.com/Sarah on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/timeoutformomsSarah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/greatdaysbysarah/Get my FREE training: The First Step to Better Balance in Your Life: https://www.charisyourlife.com/freetrainingFollow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/My website: https://charisyourlife.com/Resources:- Get my FREE 6-minute training ‘Your First Step to Better Life Balance’ https://charisyourlife.com/freetraining - Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/charisyourlife/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/


