The Preston Smiles Show

 “ Blaming others is a general method of staying safe from personal responsibility and accountability. It is a way for individuals to deflect criticism and avoid facing the consequences of their own actions.”Preston Smiles is a self-help guru and influencer focusing on personal wellness and positivity. His mission is to mentor and guide people in loving themselves and seeking fulfillment. He is the author of Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life and Now Or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps. He has been featured in LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin Magazine. New Year, New Campaign, Preston together with Alexi create The BRIDGE EXPERIENCE. It is a laboratory where we re-create how you show up in life with exercises and challenges over the course of a 2-day workshop. They will literally repatterning the way you see yourself-your identity–so that your worldview fundamentally shifts along with it. The Bridge Experience gives you the gift of revealing these blindspots so you can work on them. Every concept you learn, you can instantly put into practice so that you feel the difference on a cellular level.In this episode, Preston will discuss why couples break up after having a baby. There are several reasons why couples may break up after the birth of a baby. The relationship may suffer due to the extra obligations and stress that come with children.  The change in priorities frequently results in a lack of communication and quality time between spouses. Couples may find it challenging to retain their link and connect emotionally because the baby is now the main focus. Listen to the whole episode to learn more WHY Couples Break up After a Baby.Episode highlight: [00:47] Introduction[02:56] MAN: Protect and Serve[03:50] Playing to Win and Playing Not to Lose in Partnership[04:06] Nature or Nurture[05:37] Attunement is a better solution in relationship[06:04] Women are Soldiers [06:30] Why do couples break up after having a baby[06:43] Expectations and Strategies[07:33]  More work than ever before [09:21] Strategies to stay safe is to blame another[10:40] Closing messageConnect with Preston Smiles:Website | https://prestonsmiles.com/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrestonSmilesSpeaks/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/?hl=enYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonTwitter | https://twitter.com/prestonsmilesLinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsmiles/LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/prestonsmilesSANCTUARY - “Where Life Modern Life Coaching meets Spirituality” - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it!  |  https://thebridgemethod.org/sanctuary  

 “ Perception plays a crucial role in trust, as it influences our perception of others and their actions, ultimately leading to a stronger relationship and overall well-being.”Preston Smiles is a self-help guru and influencer focusing on personal wellness and positivity. His mission is to mentor and guide people in loving themselves and seeking fulfillment. He is the author of Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life and Now Or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps. He has been featured in LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin Magazine. New Year, New Campaign, Preston together with Alexi create The BRIDGE EXPERIENCE. It is a laboratory where we re-create how you show up in life with exercises and challenges over the course of a 2-day workshop. They will literally repatterning the way you see yourself-your identity–so that your worldview fundamentally shifts along with it. The Bridge Experience gives you the gift of revealing these blindspots so you can work on them. Every concept you learn, you can instantly put into practice so that you feel the difference on a cellular level.In this episode, Preston shares the power of Perception and Trust. Perception is a powerful tool that can impact the level of trust we have in others. It's the perception of someone's actions, words, and intentions. He will also discuss trust, which must be gained and displayed by regular acts and behaviors that exhibit dependability, honesty, and transparency. When trust is present in a relationship, whether it's personal or professional, it creates a sense of security and comfort that allows for open communication and collaboration. Stay tuned as he enumerates the four components of TRUST!Episode highlight: [00:17] Introduction[0:52] What truly occurs in terms of TRUST[01:25] 4 components of TRUST: #1 Sincerity[02:10] 4 components of TRUST: # 2 Care[03:17] 4 components of TRUST: # 3 Reliability[05:29] 4 components of TRUST: # 4 Competency[07:25] How the components of Trust function[09:01] The Power of Perception[10:18] Sanctuary: Where Life Modern Life  Coaching Meets Spirituality[11:11] Closing messageConnect with Preston Smiles:Website | https://prestonsmiles.com/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrestonSmilesSpeaks/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/?hl=enYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonTwitter | https://twitter.com/prestonsmilesLinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsmiles/LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/prestonsmilesSANCTUARY - “Where Life Modern Life Coaching meets Spirituality” - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it!  |  https://thebridgemethod.org/sanctuary    

 “ The true value lies within ourselves - in our ability to appreciate what we have and make the most out of it .”Preston Smiles is a self-help guru and influencer focusing on personal wellness and positivity. His mission is to mentor and guide people in loving themselves and seeking fulfillment. He is the author of Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life and Now Or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps. He has been featured in LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin Magazine. New Year, New Campaign, Preston together with Alexi create The BRIDGE EXPERIENCE. It is a laboratory where we re-create how you show up in life with exercises and challenges over the course of a 2-day workshop. They will literally repatterning the way you see yourself-your identity–so that your worldview fundamentally shifts along with it. The Bridge Experience gives you the gift of revealing these blindspots so you can work on them. Every concept you learn, you can instantly put into practice so that you feel the difference on a cellular level.In this episode, Preston shares how he lost and rebuilt his Instagram account. This information is applicable not only on Instagram but also to real-life situations. In today's world, having a strong social media presence is crucial for personal and professional success. A successful Instagram account is determined by a number of criteria. Preston will provide some pointers, and by following them, you will be able to build a powerful Instagram profile that will assist your personal and business life beyond the site itself. Episode highlight: [00:20] Introduction[00:56] Dive-In to Santuary [01:55] Preston’s Instagram backstory[03:25] Recognizing how to rebuild[05:16] Outside In-game and Inside Out-game[06:20] #1 The Value lies within[07:18] Inner and Outer Laws[08:21] #2 Ask for help[09:39] #3 Help the algorithm[10:25] #4 Play the long game[12:16] #5 Consistency[13:50] Closing messageConnect with Preston Smiles:Website | https://prestonsmiles.com/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrestonSmilesSpeaks/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/?hl=enYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonTwitter | https://twitter.com/prestonsmilesLinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsmiles/LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/prestonsmilesSANCTUARY - “Where Life Modern Life Coaching meets Spirituality” - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it! | https://thebridgemethod.org/sanctuary 

 “ Scale up and acknowledge that there is a new frontier of science emerging for which we must be prepared .”Preston Smiles is a self-help guru and influencer focusing on personal wellness and positivity. His mission is to mentor and guide people in loving themselves and seeking fulfillment. He is the author of Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life and Now Or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps. He has been featured in LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin Magazine. New Year, New Campaign, Preston together with Alexi create The BRIDGE EXPERIENCE. It is a laboratory where we re-create how you show up in life with exercises and challenges over the course of a 2-day workshop. They will literally repatterning the way you see yourself-your identity–so that your worldview fundamentally shifts along with it. The Bridge Experience gives you the gift of revealing these blindspots so you can work on them. Every concept you learn, you can instantly put into practice so that you feel the difference on a cellular level.In this episode, Alexi with Christine will discuss how to be a better coach and other aspects of it. Understanding your coaching philosophy and approach is decisive, as well as the skills and tools required to properly communicate with your clients. Another thing is building a strong relationship with your clients is the key to creating a positive coaching experience, and establishing trust and mutual respect is essential. Whether working with individuals or teams, coaching can be a rewarding career path that allows you to make a difference in people's lives. They build a coaching institute with A 7-Month Training where you will learn and embody the skills to be a master coach. Don't miss until the end to learn more about ELEMENTUM COACHING INSTITUTE!Episode highlight: [00:28] Introduction[02:49] People's criticism of the method of coaching[04:20] Coaching is still a relatively new concept[05:30] Coaches that are great marketers are one of the gaps in the industry[07:25] The significant distinction between coaches and therapists[08:13] Coaches' results speak for themselves[09:10] Being a terrific coach requires a high level of embodiment[10:18] What is a great coach as per Christine[10:28] #1 Has the natural gifts[11:40] #2 Have the experience in life that transforms you [12:40] #3 Have the training and skills[13:26] Alexi on what a great coach is a willingness and curiosity[15:36] Dealing with Impostor Syndrome[19:54] Dive in Elementum Coaching with Alexi and Christine[24:29] Realizing that our past has a genuine impact on our future[26:56] Empowering those who aspire to be coaches[29:56] Walking around completely dysregulated[30:07] Alexi's interpretation of dysregulated[34:20] Hypo and hyperarousal[35:40] How Alexi uses style flexing in her personal life and with clients[42:10] You don't want to please your clients; you want to serve them[43:40] The significance of regulation[44:35] Mission: bring people back home, back to themselves[45:58] Christine's opinion on the most influential aspect of Elementum for students[48:48] Alexi's favorite content clinics in Elementum[51:39] Elementum is for New and Seasoned Coaches and anyone in between[55:43] The most significant aspect of Elementum is that it builds a collective family[59:40] Closing messageConnect with Christine Hassler:Website | www.christinehassler.com Facebook | christinehasslerpageInstagram | @christinehassler YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonLinkTree |  linktr.ee/christinehasslerConnect with Alexi Panos:  Facebook | @alexipanosInstagram | @alexipanosYouTube | @alexipanos  LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/alexipanos Connect with Preston Smiles:Website | https://prestonsmiles.com/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrestonSmilesSpeaks/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/?hl=enYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonTwitter | https://twitter.com/prestonsmilesLinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsmiles/LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/prestonsmilesELEMENTUM COACHING INSTITUTE: The ONLY Coaching Certification you'll need!| https://elementumcoachinginstitute.com/STRETCH 22 - IT'S BACK! APPLY NOW! Your 4-Month Total Freedom Bootcamp | https://prestonsmiles.com/stretch-22/SANCTUARY - “Where Life Modern Life Coaching meets Spirituality” - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it! | https://thebridgemethod.org/sanctuary  

 “Approach the conversation with empathy and respect. If possible, try to find a solution together rather than just pointing out each other's mistakes.”Preston Smiles is a self-help guru and influencer focusing on personal wellness and positivity. His mission is to mentor and guide people in loving themselves and seeking fulfillment. He is the author of Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life and Now Or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps. He has been featured in LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin Magazine. New Year, New Campaign, Preston together with Alexi create The BRIDGE EXPERIENCE. It is a laboratory where we re-create how you show up in life with exercises and challenges over the course of a 2-day workshop. They will literally repatterning the way you see yourself-your identity–so that your worldview fundamentally shifts along with it. The Bridge Experience gives you the gift of revealing these blindspots so you can work on them. Every concept you learn, you can instantly put into practice so that you feel the difference on a cellular level.In this episode, Preston will discuss defensiveness and how it destroys relationships.When we become defensive, we put up walls that prevent us from truly hearing and understanding the other person's perspective. It can cause a breakdown in communication and trust, which can be detrimental to the relationship. One way to prevent this is to connect before you correct someone. Make sure you have all the facts straight. It's essential to approach a situation with an open mind and gather as much information as possible before making any assumptions or accusations. It takes a certain level of emotional intelligence to recognize that sometimes, being right isn't the most important thing. It can be detrimental to relationships and personal growth. Instead, a mature individual understands the value of empathy and compassion. Don't miss until the end and remember that communication is KEY in any relationship or interaction!Episode highlight: [00:27] Introduction[02:10] The death of a relationship[02:34] The innocent victim defense is a prevalent type of defensiveness[04:01] Truth about Relationship Repair[04:41] Connect before you Correct[06:20] The definition of Connecting[07:50] Say Less and Apologize[09:39] Being present for each other is a sign of maturity[10:35] Closing message Connect with Preston Smiles:Website | https://prestonsmiles.com/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrestonSmilesSpeaks/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/?hl=enYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonTwitter | https://twitter.com/prestonsmilesLinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsmiles/LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/prestonsmilesSTRETCH 22 - IT'S BACK! APPLY NOW! Your 4-Month Total Freedom Bootcamp | https://prestonsmiles.com/stretch-22/SANCTUARY - “Where Life Modern Life Coaching meets Spirituality” - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it! |  https://thebridgemethod.org/sanctuary  

 “Being ourselves at first is difficult because we have internalized trauma that prevents us from speaking and acting in accordance with our truth.”Preston Smiles is a self-help guru and influencer focusing on personal wellness and positivity. His mission is to mentor and guide people in loving themselves and seeking fulfillment. He is the author of Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life and Now Or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps. He has been featured in LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin Magazine. New Year, New Campaign, Preston together with Alexi create The BRIDGE EXPERIENCE. It is a laboratory where we re-create how you show up in life with exercises and challenges over the course of a 2-day workshop. They will literally repatterning the way you see yourself-your identity–so that your worldview fundamentally shifts along with it. The Bridge Experience gives you the gift of revealing these blindspots so you can work on them. Every concept you learn, you can instantly put into practice so that you feel the difference on a cellular level.In this episode, Preston and Alexi will discuss the subtle ways trauma has been sabotaging your life. First, trauma has a profound impact on our lives, often in subtle ways that we may not even be aware of. It can manifest as anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues that affect our relationships, work, and overall well-being. Trauma can also lead to self-sabotage, where we engage in behaviors that undermine our success and happiness. It might include procrastination, self-doubt, or a fear of taking risks. These patterns can be difficult to break without professional help. Secondly, it's important to remember that healing from trauma is a process that takes time and patience. By seeking support and practicing self-care, we can overcome how trauma has been holding us back and move towards a more fulfilling life. And lastly, don't miss until the end to know more about SANCTUARY - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it!Episode highlight: [00:29] Introduction[00:48] What is Trauma?[01:06] List of big trauma[02:11] Long-time trauma[04:20] The importance of Somatic therapy[05:25] Humans experience 2000 traumas in their lifetime[05:49] My Amygdala[10:05] The fear of abandonment collapses our truth[11:10] Having a hard time expressing ourselves due to trauma[13:24] How to recognize a trauma?[14:43] The mechanism of protection and defense[16:01] You Are Not Alone[16:30] Seek Support[17:52] Closing message Connect with Alexi Panos :Instagram | @alexipanosYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/user/alexipanos Connect with Preston Smiles:Website | https://prestonsmiles.com/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrestonSmilesSpeaks/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/?hl=enYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonTwitter | https://twitter.com/prestonsmilesLinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsmiles/LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/prestonsmilesSTRETCH 22 - IT'S BACK! APPLY NOW! Your 4-Month Total Freedom Bootcamp | https://prestonsmiles.com/stretch-22/SANCTUARY - “Where Life Modern Life Coaching meets Spirituality” - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it! |  https://thebridgemethod.org/sanctuary  

 “ The traditional gender roles and expectations placed on individuals can be limiting and oppressive, and that true freedom and equality can only be achieved by breaking down these rigid constructs.”Preston Smiles is a self-help guru and influencer focusing on personal wellness and positivity. His mission is to mentor and guide people in loving themselves and seeking fulfillment. He is the author of Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life and Now Or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps. He has been featured in LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin Magazine. New Year, New Campaign, Preston together with Alexi create The BRIDGE EXPERIENCE. It is a laboratory where we re-create how you show up in life with exercises and challenges over the course of a 2-day workshop. They will literally repatterning the way you see yourself-your identity–so that your worldview fundamentally shifts along with it. The Bridge Experience gives you the gift of revealing these blindspots so you can work on them. Every concept you learn, you can instantly put into practice so that you feel the difference on a cellular level.In this episode, Preston and Alexi will discuss the deep truth of the world of masculine and feminine polarity. This truth reveals the societal constructs and expectations placed upon individuals based on their gender, which can limit personal expression and perpetuate harmful stereotypes. It is important to recognize and challenge these constructs to create a more equitable and inclusive society.However, this concept has also been used to justify gender inequality and discrimination. Everyone has an individual truth. It means that each person's perspective and experiences shape their understanding of the world, and what may be true for one person may not be true for another. It is important to respect and acknowledge these differences to foster understanding and empathy. Listen to the whole podcast to unleash your inner truth about masculinity and femininity!Episode highlight: [00:09] Introduction[01:37] Focus on various facets of you[02:18] Masculinity and Feminity[02:40] A toxic masculinity theory [05:25] As per Alexi, Women perceive dishonesty, lack of courage, and lack of masculinity[06:20] Women acting wild are okay[08:00] Anger toward the current state of change exists[09:33] Micro and Macro Elements of Masculine and Feminine Polarity[10:14] Nothing will ever be the same again[11:11] Our inner polarity[13:30] Women's perception of feminine[14:07] Letting go of expectations[14:25] Everyone has an individual truth[14:46] Sense of healthy masculinity and feminity[15:25] Masculine is the container of life to move through when it is being held[15:34] The feminine is constantly changing, flowing, and in motion[19:15] Inner masculine dignity[20:53] How Alexi and Preston cultivate their inner feminity and masculinity[22:03] Closing message Connect with Alexi Panos :Instagram | @alexipanosYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/user/alexipanos Connect with Preston Smiles:Website | https://prestonsmiles.com/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrestonSmilesSpeaks/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/?hl=enYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonTwitter | https://twitter.com/prestonsmilesLinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsmiles/LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/prestonsmilesSTRETCH 22 - IT'S BACK! APPLY NOW! Your 4-Month Total Freedom Bootcamp | https://prestonsmiles.com/stretch-22/SANCTUARY - “Where Life Modern Life Coaching meets Spirituality” - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it! |  https://thebridgemethod.org/sanctuary

 “ To manifest something, we must also acknowledge and accept its opposite as a possibility. By doing so, we can align our thoughts and actions towards what we truly desire.”Preston Smiles is a self-help guru and influencer focusing on personal wellness and positivity. His mission is to mentor and guide people in loving themselves and seeking fulfillment. He is the author of Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life and Now Or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps. He has been featured in LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin Magazine. New Year, New Campaign, Preston together with Alexi create The BRIDGE EXPERIENCE. It is a laboratory where we re-create how you show up in life with exercises and challenges over the course of a 2-day workshop. They will literally repatterning the way you see yourself-your identity–so that your worldview fundamentally shifts along with it. The Bridge Experience gives you the gift of revealing these blindspots so you have the opportunity to work on them. Every concept you learn, you have the opportunity to instantly put into practice so that you feel the difference on a cellular level.In this episode, Preston and Alexi will educate you on How to deepen your relationship during hard times. One way to deepen your relationship during hard times is to communicate openly and honestly with your partner. It's also important to show empathy and support for each other and find ways to work together toward a solution.During tough times, relationships are put to the test and it is during these moments that true bonds are formed. Overcoming challenges together can strengthen the trust and love between two people. They will also discuss that a lot of human beings are not speaking their truth out of fear of not being loved. This fear of not being loved can stem from past experiences of rejection or a belief that their truth is not acceptable to others. It takes courage to speak one's truth, but it is necessary for personal growth and authentic relationships.Episode highlight: [00:54] Introduction[01:18] The culture has taught us that difficult times are detrimental to partnerships[01:46] The manifestation process incorporates the law of opposites[02:25] When things feel uncomfortable and difficult, you should end your relationship  [03:00] In difficult times, relationships are most important[08:00] Independent women are instructed not to rely on men[09:10] Why women are trained not to rely on men[10:55] The actual problem is that many people don't express their truth, due to a concern about being rejected[11:45] Clinging onto the dream and avoiding what occurred in childhood[13:04] Curiosity is a strong motivator that can be used at any time[14:30] How to intensify your love[15:55] Transactional love just does not feel good[17:15] How your life's setting shapes its content[18:20] Practical strategies for strengthening your bond through difficult times[18:32] Practical way #1 Bring out a photo album and share some of your favorite memories[19:43] Practical way #2 When a relationship ends, it creates space for something new to be built[21:07] Practical way #3 Plan an event that both of you will be thrilled to remember our partnership for in six months[21:44] Practical way #4 Take this as an opportunity to love yourself more[22:50] Practical way #5 Acknowledge your accomplishments at night prior to going to bed[23:30] Practical way #6 Physically reunite even if you're angry with one another[24:20] Closing messageConnect with Alexi Panos :Instagram | @alexipanosYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/user/alexipanos Connect with Preston Smiles:Website | https://prestonsmiles.com/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrestonSmilesSpeaks/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/?hl=enYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonTwitter | https://twitter.com/prestonsmilesLinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsmiles/LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/prestonsmilesSTRETCH 22 - IT'S BACK! APPLY NOW! Your 4-Month Total Freedom Bootcamp | https://prestonsmiles.com/stretch-22/SANCTUARY - “Where Life Modern Life Coaching meets Spirituality” - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it! |  https://thebridgemethod.org/sanctuary  

 “ There is something magical and beautiful that comes from every relationshipwhen we are not placing blame on each other and taking responsibility, learning and growing, and allowing the seeds of the sacred union buried in the dirt will grow into something there is so much growth.”Preston Smiles is a self-help guru and influencer focusing on personal wellness and positivity. His mission is to mentor and guide people in loving themselves and seeking fulfillment. He is the author of Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life and Now Or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps. He has been featured in LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin Magazine. New Year, New Campaign, Preston together with Alexi create The BRIDGE EXPERIENCE. It is a laboratory where we re-create how you show up in life with exercises and challenges over the course of a 2-day workshop. They will literally repatterning the way you see yourself-your identity–so that your worldview fundamentally shifts along with it. The Bridge Experience gives you the gift of revealing these blindspots so you have the opportunity to work on them. Every concept you learn, you have the opportunity to instantly put into practice so that you feel the difference on a cellular level.In this episode, Preston and Alexi will give you an in-depth explanation of things from a Female and Male perspective, most especially in a relationship. They will tell you that when you're in a relationship, there are going to be times when things seem like they're getting worse and worse. You might feel like your partner is becoming a little more distant, or that you're not spending enough time together. Maybe one day he'll say something that makes you feel hurt or rejected—and it feels like this is happening more than ever before. It's hard for anyone to deal with these kinds of things, but it can really help if you talk about them with each other so they don't spiral out of control. It's important to remember that being in a relationship is about more than just being together—it's about supporting each other and making sure the other person knows how much they mean to you.Episode highlight: [00:32] Introduction[01:07] How to know if a relationship is toxic?[01:24] What is the idea of a relationship as per Alexi[01:46] The hardships of maintaining a relationship[03:26] Preston and Alexi's brief story about their relationship[04:03] Conflict/Struggle is an opportunity to learn from each other[04:40] Are you wasting your time on your relationship? The answer is yes and no[05:33] Alexi's perspective about wasting time in a relationship[06:14] Preston and Alexis 10yr relationship was a sacred training ground[06:48] Learning to open up your heart and body and close your wounds and ego[08:05] Do not collapse on yourself: a sense of betrayal[10:45] How can you trust me when I can not trust myself[11:35] A Disney idea of love that society is putting up on us[13:20] Importance of tapping on to the heart versus tapping on to the head ( ego) [14:20] If you're going to leave, leave at the top[16:50] Most of us get feedback from life, but we are not living it right now[17:32] No matter where you are in your relationship, be the best version of you[17:54] Closing message Connect with Alexi Panos :Instagram | @alexipanosYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/user/alexipanos Connect with Preston Smiles:Website | https://prestonsmiles.com/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrestonSmilesSpeaks/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/?hl=enYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonTwitter | https://twitter.com/prestonsmilesLinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsmiles/LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/prestonsmilesSTRETCH 22 - IT'S BACK! APPLY NOW! Your 4-Month Total Freedom Bootcamp | https://prestonsmiles.com/stretch-22/SANCTUARY - “Where Life Modern Life Coaching meets Spirituality” - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it! |  https://thebridgemethod.org/sanctuary

 “ If you are in a committed relationship now or have recently been broken up with some form of fashion, we always end this relationship with good intentions.”Preston Smiles is a self-help guru and influencer focusing on personal wellness and positivity. His mission is to mentor and guide people in loving themselves and seeking fulfillment. He is the author of Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life and Now Or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps. He has been featured in LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin magazine. New Year, New Campaign, Preston together with Alexi create The BRIDGE EXPERIENCE. It is a laboratory where we re-create how you show up in life with exercises and challenges over the course of a 2-day workshop. They will literally repatterning the way you see yourself-your identity–so that your worldview fundamentally shifts along with it. The Bridge Experience gives you the gift of revealing these blindspots so you have the opportunity to work on them. Every concept you learn, you have the opportunity to instantly put into practice so that you feel the difference on a cellular level.In this episode, Preston will talk about the 3 Reasons Men BREAK Up with Women. Men feel some women don't appreciate them as much as they should, so they feel like they don't deserve a partner who will make them happy. They want to be respected, admired and validated by their partners, which means making sure that both parties are on the same page with all their goals in life. Men break up with their partners because they feel that the relationship has become a burden, and a display of emotional intelligence can improve their own relationship's success.Episode highlight: [01:07] Introduction[01:53] We are up against nature and nurture[03:20] Some women apologize but there are some who don't[04:11] Men oftentimes experience emotional abuse from their partner[05:29] # 1 reason why men break up with women is a lack of ownership[07:47] # 2 reason why men break up with women is when you speak globally[08:58] The distinction between speaking at and speaking from[09:13] Women are used to speaking at[10:38] # 3 reason why men break up with women is making them feel unloved[11:52] If a man feels a one-sided love he is going to leave [13:12] Closing message Connect with Preston Smiles: Website | https://prestonsmiles.com/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/PrestonSmilesSpeaks/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/?hl=enYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/questionswithPrestonTwitter | https://twitter.com/prestonsmilesLinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsmiles/LinkTree | https://linktr.ee/prestonsmilesSTRETCH 22 - IT'S BACK! APPLY NOW! Your 4-Month Total Freedom Bootcamp | https://prestonsmiles.com/stretch-22/SANCTUARY - “Where Life Modern Life Coaching meets Spirituality” - Come home in the SANCTUARY and be PART of it! |  https://thebridgemethod.org/sanctuary