Anatomy of Us
Anatomy of Us
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Jun 5, 2019 • 29min
241 Q&A Day 28: My husband won’t talk to me, he thinks I’m being stupid, and I have a lower sex drive.
Today we answer your questions about why husbands can often have a hard time talking about emotional issues, we talk about the importance of using peacemaking communication instead of weaponizing, and what to do about a lower sex drive. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jun 4, 2019 • 33min
240 Q&A Day 27: The impact of sexual abuse on marrige, I hate oral sex, and how can I ask for what I want?
Today we answer your questions about what to do when you have a history of sexual abuse and find intimacy challenging in your marriage, how to have a mindset shift about oral sex, and how to ask your partner for what you want in marriage. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jun 3, 2019 • 32min
239 Q&A Day 26: Porn in a Christian marriage and my husband looks at other women.
Today we answer your questions about what to do when your partner is using porn, and how to address concerns when your partner is openly looking at other people. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jun 1, 2019 • 24min
238 Q&A Day 25: Routines, how to find a counselor, and making big family choices.
Today we answer your questions about what routines we do each day and how they have shaped our marriage, how to find a therapist or a counselor, and how to process big choices in marriage together. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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May 31, 2019 • 32min
237 Q&A Day 24: Premarital Sex, Enneagram help and I think my husband is cheating on me!
Today we answer your questions about how the enneagram helps in our marriage, what to do if you think your partner is cheating on you and our thoughts on regretting premarital sex. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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May 29, 2019 • 28min
235 Q&A Day 22: Boundaries with friends, resolving conflict and communication.
Today we answer your questions about creating boundaries around friendships with past sexual partners, resolving conflict in marriage and how to improve communication. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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May 26, 2019 • 23min
233 Q&A Day 20: Faith differences in relationships and is the man really the head of the house?
Today we answer your questions about what to do when you and your partner have different perspectives on faith and we take a second look at the idea of the man being the head of the house. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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May 24, 2019 • 29min
232 Q&A Day 19: No sex for a year and what to do when you don’t have the marriage that you want.
Today we answer your questions about what to do when you don’t have the marriage that you want, and how to change the pattern of having sex just once a year. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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May 23, 2019 • 27min
231 Q&A Day 18: Wife doesn’t initiate sex and losing friends when you move away.
Today we answer your questions about how to navigate a partner who is not initiating sex and what happens when you lose your friends after moving away. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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May 21, 2019 • 32min
230 Q&A Day 17: Relationship doubts, a changing spouse, mother-in-law issues, app update and more!
Today we dive into how to manage boundaries with in-laws, what to do if you doubt your relationship, how to deal with a changing spouse, where we are with the app and so much more!! Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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