

Anatomy of Us
Anatomy of Us
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Jul 9, 2019 • 34min
262 Q&A Day 47: Connecting with your Partner, Attachment styles, and managing friendships
Today we answer your questions about connecting with your partner when you are feeling “meh”, we talk more about attachment styles and their impact on relationships, and we also talk about the importance of friendships. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 8, 2019 • 25min
261 Q&A Day 46: Double standards in relationships, and mother-in-law struggles
Today we answer your questions about what to do with double standards in relationships, mother-in-law boundary troubles and more. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 5, 2019 • 49min
260: Enemy Emotions With Dr. Laura Dabney
Today we talk with the wonderful Dr. Laura Dabney about how being the right kind of selfish can improve your marriage, how Enemy Emotions often destroy intimacy but should really act as smoke alarms, and how avoiding negative emotions can be harmful. Learn more about Dr. Laura Dabney https://lauradabney.com/ Learn more about being the right kind of selfish in marriage http://lauradabney.com/anatomyofmarriage/ Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 4, 2019 • 43min
259 Q&A Day 45: Growing wife, stagnant husband, Family Of Origin and generational addiction.
Today we answer your questions about how to inspire and invite growth in your partner, how Family Of Origin impacts relationships, and how addiction and abusive behavior get passed down through generations. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 3, 2019 • 35min
258 Q&A Day 44: How to Transform Your Marriage!
Today we talk about 3 key steps that will actually Transform Your Marriage! What you take in What you do with that information And what you give It’s gonna be AMAZING! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 2, 2019 • 33min
257 Q&A Day 43: Parenting differences, good vibes only and the grass is always greener.
Today we answer your questions about being in a relationship in your early to mid twenties, how positive vibes really do matter, and we talk about the deeper implications and importance of raising kids in a healthy balanced way and what to do when you and your partner have parenting differences. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 1, 2019 • 28min
256 Q&A Day 42: Boundaries in a separation, video game problems and honoring differences.
Today we answer your questions about what to do during a separation, how to handle the stress that video games can add to a relationship, and we explore how to actively honor differences and promote linkages! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jun 28, 2019 • 36min
255 Q&A Day 41: Adult Attachment Disorder, Organized religion, our faith journey and taking a break from your partner.
Today we answer your questions about adult attachment disorder, talk about our thoughts on organized religion and share some of our own faith journey, as well as share some tips on lovingly taking a temporary break from your partner if that is what your marriage needs. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jun 27, 2019 • 26min
254 Q&A Day 40: Spectrum and relationships, how to get sex when and how you want it, and what to do if someone you are NOT married to finds you attractive.
Today we answer your questions about being in relationship with someone on the Spectrum, how to get the sex that you want when you want it, and what to do if someone you are NOT married to finds you attractive... and tells you! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jun 26, 2019 • 34min
253 Q&A Day 39: Hope after an affair, making decisions as a couple, and forgiving a hurtful past.
Today we answer your questions about how to make decisions as a couple when you have conflicting communication styles, how to change hurtful behaviors and heal from the past, and we bring you a hopeful letter about healing after an affair. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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