

Anatomy of Us
Anatomy of Us
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Jul 24, 2019 • 43min
272 Q&A Day 56: Lust, Anxiety & Am I Really In Love?!
Today we answer your questions about how much lusting is acceptable in marriage, we talk about the impact of anxiety on relationships and we wonder if the infatuation stage is actually necessary in a happy marriage. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 23, 2019 • 39min
271 Q&A Day 55: The Enneagram In Action!
Today Seth and I talk about our own Enneagram journey and how what we used to think was a bunch of hokum has actually changed our lives!! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 22, 2019 • 35min
270 Q&A Day 54: Premarital advice, The Bachelorette, and a Disapproving Boyfriend.
Today we answer your questions about premarital advice, share our thoughts on the Bachelorette and figure out what to do about an overly disapproving and critical boyfriend. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 19, 2019 • 50min
Marriage & the Enneagram with Beth and Jeff McCord
Today we explore the Enneagram with the awesome Beth and Jeff McCord of Your Enneagram Coach. We talk about the impact that understanding the Enneagram has on your relationships, and how it is a tool for building compassion and empathy. Seth also shares his journey with discovering his own 9-ness and what that means in our marriage. Learn more about Beth & Jeff! https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/ Buy tickets for their tour https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/becomingus Follow them online! https://www.instagram.com/yourenneagramcoach/ https://www.facebook.com/YourEnneagramCoach/ Find out your type! https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/dont-know-your-type
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Jul 19, 2019 • 36min
268 Q&A Day 53: Quiet men, emotional affairs and taking responsibility for your behaviors and actions.
Today we talk about sharing your emotions as a man, we answer your questions about emotional affairs and we talk about the power and importance of taking ownership and responsibility for your behaviors and actions in marriage and in your relationships. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 18, 2019 • 35min
267 Q&A Day 52: Dating continued, hunting fights, and boundaries around an abusive parent.
Today we continue the conversation about dating, what it is for and why we do it, we also answer your questions about differences in hobbies that cost money such as hunting, and how to change your relationship with an abusive parent. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 17, 2019 • 41min
266 Q&A Day 51: Dating, Chores, preparing for baby and fun things to do with your spouse!
Today we answer your questions about dating, navigating chores with your spouse, how to prepare for having a kid, and bringing fun into your marriage with games! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 16, 2019 • 32min
265 Q&A Day 50: Household chores, pleasing in-laws, abusive parents and pet snake?!
Today we answer your questions about managing shared household chores, pleasing your in-laws, dealing with an abusive parent, and what to do when your spouse wants a snake! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 11, 2019 • 36min
264 Q&A Day 49: Afraid to touch, clingy wife, and Mother-In-law boundaries.
Today we answer your questions about how to heal from a fear of touch, what to do with a clingy wife, and how on earth to navigate a Mother-In-Law who has no boundaries. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jul 10, 2019 • 29min
263 Q&A Day 48: Narcissist Personalities, chance to rebuild and inlaws….again!!!
Today we answer your questions about what to do if you see narcissistic traits in your partner, how to rebuild after a tumultuous past, and how to handle patronizing in-laws. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage
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