
Date Yourself Instead
My name is Lyss and I'm on a mission to heal all the broken hearts.
New episodes every Monday.
Latest episodes

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Jun 29, 2025 • 36min
How to heal your inner child and attract healthy love.
Explore the transformative journey of healing your inner child and how it can lead to healthier relationships. Discover the significance of emotional safety, especially for women, and how it influences personal connections. Learn about navigating burnout through human design while honoring your inner truth. The podcast dives into the importance of addressing childhood traumas, emphasizing deeper connections and supportive partnerships that nurture personal growth and creativity.

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Jun 23, 2025 • 32min
How to keep going when you don't feel like it. Just one more try. One last push before your miracle manifests.
Discover the pivotal role of persistence in shaping your career and relationships. Explore the magic of making one last effort when it feels like giving up is the only option. Personal stories reveal how challenges can be the stepping stones to success. Learn to release desperation and embrace faith, as breakthroughs often arrive when you least expect them. Finally, reflect on the determination that leads to achievement, and get inspired to join masterclasses that can help you on your journey.

Jun 9, 2025 • 49min
How to stop procrastinating - babe, it's time to get your sh*t together and WAKE UP.
It's time to stop stalling your dream life and get the ball rolling. Here's an episode with some tough love, and a wake up call to you, but also to MYSELF. Can't wait for our goals to be accomplished together. I love you xxIf you enjoyed this episode, please share it and drop a comment below on Spotify and message me on instagram @lyss @dateyourselfinstead.DOORS CLOSING ON THE COURSES!JOIN MY MASTERCLASSES BELOW.Use code goldenaura at checkout for an exclusive discount.Dare to Detach - cut the energy cords now and step into your powerMind Body Soul Reset - heal yourself from the inside out With love and light,Lyss

Jun 3, 2025 • 36min
How to hold your standards and respect yourself - you're not "bitchy", you just KNOW YOUR WORTH.
You're not bitchy, you're not mean, you're not asking for too much. You just know your worth and refuse to settle for bad behavior. When you hold your standards, people respect you more. DETACH. FOR REAL. ACCESS HERE NOW.https://stan.store/dateyourselfinstead/p/daretodetachDARE TO DETACH - LAST WEEK TO ACCESS, EVER.DOORS CLOSE THIS WEEK…If you're still stuck on them, still chasing, still overanalyzing - you're delaying everything that's meant for you.The man. The money. The mission.Clinging is a form of self-abandonment.Detachment is self-respect.Tap here - last chance to download from anywhere worldwide.Learn how to cut the cord, reclaim your power, and become unavailable for anything that doesn't meet your standard.No more waiting. No more begging.It's now or stay stuck.See you there, xo. Lyss <3

Jun 1, 2025 • 42min
ASK LYSS - your questions on dating, self worth, my future husband, how to start a podcast, career advice, & more.
ASK LYSS. DETACH. FOR REAL. Access instantly, now.https://stan.store/dateyourselfinstead/p/daretodetachDARE TO DETACH - LAST WEEK TO ACCESS, EVER.DOORS CLOSE THIS WEEK…If you're still stuck on them, still chasing, still overanalyzing - you're delaying everything that's meant for you.The man. The money. The mission.Clinging is a form of self-abandonment.Detachment is self-respect.Tap here - last chance to download from anywhere worldwide.Learn how to cut the cord, reclaim your power, and become unavailable for anything that doesn't meet your standard.No more waiting. No more begging.It's now or stay stuck.See you there, xo. Lyss <3

May 26, 2025 • 39min
How to DETACH AND MOVE ON, FOR GOOD. The only detachment episode you'll ever need.
DETACH. FOR REAL. Access instantly, now.https://stan.store/dateyourselfinstead/p/daretodetachDARE TO DETACH - LAST WEEK TO ACCESS, EVER.DOORS CLOSE THIS WEEK…If you're still stuck on them, still chasing, still overanalyzing - you're delaying everything that's meant for you.The man. The money. The mission.Clinging is a form of self-abandonment.Detachment is self-respect.Tap here - last chance to download from anywhere worldwide.Learn how to cut the cord, reclaim your power, and become unavailable for anything that doesn't meet your standard.No more waiting. No more begging.It's now or stay stuck.See you there, xo. Lyss <3

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May 19, 2025 • 46min
10 steps to prepare for the love of your life (they're coming!)
Get ready for the love of your life by focusing on self-love and emotional healing. Discover the importance of personal boundaries and values in building healthy relationships. Learn how manifestation and positive thinking can change your dating game. Embrace the wild ride of dating with humor and appreciation, even through the tough experiences. Personal growth comes from the journey, leading to self-acceptance and gratitude as key ingredients for attracting true love.

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May 16, 2025 • 45min
Shift your reality instantly - how to raise your vibration and upgrade to your future self NOW. Instant soul activation.
Dive into the world of kundalini energy as listeners are encouraged to leave comfort zones for personal growth. Embrace transformation with a humorous twist, likening it to the purifying powers of activated charcoal. The importance of self-empowerment and effectively communicating desires in relationships is highlighted, urging individuals to release negativity and past identities. This journey promises an instant upgrade to a more abundant self—perfect for anyone ready to attract positivity and fulfillment in their lives!

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May 11, 2025 • 50min
How to PROTECT YOUR ENERGY!! Not everyone deserves access to you + my views on sex, intimacy, & karmic soul ties.
Discover the sacredness of your energy and why not everyone deserves access to it. Learn how the power of your thoughts can shape your reality and the importance of surrounding yourself with positivity. Explore evolving views on relationships, especially regarding family dynamics. The discussion emphasizes the need for discernment in your interactions and offers practical methods for protecting your energy. Embrace your personal power with a closing mantra designed to uplift and inspire.

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May 4, 2025 • 50min
LET THEM WALK. Let them go. The breakup is a portal to your highest timeline.
Breakups can unlock your highest potential and serve as a blessing in disguise. The discussion encourages letting go of toxic relationships for personal growth and self-worth. It emphasizes the need for self-acceptance over seeking validation from others. Listeners learn to navigate romantic illusions, highlighting self-awareness as key. Embracing breakups is framed as a valuable opportunity for self-discovery and new beginnings. Miracles await those who dare to detach and step into their power!