Welcome to the Via Stoica Podcast, the podcast on Stoicism.
In this episode, we explore what it truly means to socialize like a Stoic in a world shaped by screens, quick fixes, and the rising tide of loneliness. Many believe confidence comes from external aids like alcohol or status, yet the Stoics approached human connection from a far deeper place. This conversation invites you to pause and reconsider where real confidence and meaningful relationships actually begin.

At the heart of this episode is the Stoic understanding that we are, by nature, social beings, meant to contribute to one another and to the greater whole. As Marcus Aurelius reminds us in Meditations 5.1:
“At dawn, when you have trouble getting out of bed, tell yourself: I have to go to work as a human being.”
For the Stoics, this wasn’t about productivity or social performance, but about duty, contribution, and showing up as a rational, pro-social being. When Marcus writes this, he isn’t being harsh, but reminding us that withdrawing from life and others is not in harmony with who we are meant to be.

Here are a few Stoic practices from this episode you can explore in your own life:
– Examining impressions – noticing when fear of rejection or discomfort shapes your social choices.
– Voluntary discomfort – practicing sober, deliberate presence in social settings to build real confidence.
– View from above – stepping back to see how small momentary rejection truly is in the larger pattern of life.
– Daily reflection – journaling how you showed up for others and where you avoided connection.

Modern life offers endless stimulation but little depth. Algorithms, digital validation, and social shortcuts promise connection yet often strengthen isolation. Stoicism offers another way—one grounded in character, clarity, and courage. By the end of this episode, you’ll see that Stoicism isn’t a cold philosophy of detachment, but a way of living with presence, responsibility, and quiet inner strength.

Referenced clips from the episode
Scott Galloway on Bill Maher:
https://youtu.be/BeTLZasgWS4?si=p0a4l-Bp7Us3_0Tv

Gary Vaynerchuk on confidence and judgment:
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/A-BFFp9TdD4

Listen to the full episode now and discover how social connection can transform the way you think, act, and see your life.

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