随机波动StochasticVolatility

最近几年，我们身边的很多朋友都陆续成为了妈妈，我们也陆续成为了很多小朋友的大朋友、阿姨和干妈。友谊经过时间和选择的岔路，向未知的平原延伸，我们在彼此身上，看到多元宇宙里的另一个自己，看到女性不同的可能和相似的命运。 本期节目的嘉宾Serena，曾与我们联合制作了随机波动第一个亲子系列「亲爱的 Love, Actually」，当时她刚刚卸下自己的职业身份，成为一个新手妈妈，在想象与疑惑中和孩子一起成长。一年半以后，她在母亲的角色上已经更加游刃有余，很多想象被证实了，也有一些被矫正或干脆落空，很多疑惑被解答了，但还有更多在不断地生成。 比如在“理解孩子”之前，“了解孩子”就是一个漫长的过程，沉迷MBTI的大人无法将孩子对号入座，因为无论在人生的哪个阶段，我们的个性都是流动的、变化的。再比如成为妈妈让她从“没空生病”的打工人，变成了理解睡眠、饮食、运动的规律，对就医流程轻车熟路的人，对孩子健康的责任，也让大人重新认识了自己的身体。 更重要的是，更为母亲让她不得不思考、忧虑也期待未来，生育和养育本身也是在为未来投票。我们希望孩子生活在怎样的世界，要靠自己去努力营造。我们关心气候变化、科技发展、性别平等，和关心孩子的一日三餐一样重要。即便我们还不是某一个具体的小生命的母亲，但对未来的希望以及为这种希望所付出的努力，也是我们政治生活的一部分。 长效自护，领熠未来。感谢「爱他美领熠」对本期节目的支持，无论未来如何不可预测，孩子持续强健的体魄总是父母不变的期望和需求。爱他美旗下顶配「领熠」，含百亿源自健康宝宝肚肚的原生活菌和益生元，组成专利乳黄金熠生链，在宝宝肠道黄金期内建立健康菌群环境，激发宝宝更长效的自护力，应对未来挑战。 【本期主播】 傅适野，媒体人，新浪微博@ssshiye 张之琪，媒体人，新浪微博@CyberZhiqi 冷建国，媒体人 【本期嘉宾】 Serena，前投资人，新手妈妈，随机波动「亲爱的 Love, Actually」系列节目联合制作人 [02:07]《问心》中的妈妈角色：国产剧中难得的复杂女性 [04:41]《问心》中三个主角凑不出一个爹 [06:34]如何重新学习做母子 [09:05]Serena《问心》观后感：第一次觉得有两个孩子也不错 [12:30]多孩家庭不是同一份爱如何分，而是家庭中多一份爱 [15:40]从何时起，我们观看影视剧从孩子视角转换到了母亲视角 [17:30]如何爱政见不同的小孩？ [20:20]面对和自己完全不同的小孩，妈妈感觉如何 [24:30]从好奇小孩的MBTI，到放弃MBTI [28:20]观察小孩是学习的过程，也是自我反思的过程 [34:40]做父母是对身体和健康重新建立认知的机会 [40:30]从小学习运动，也是学习如何面对失败 [48:20]如何为孩子挑选适合的运动项目 [53:10]电子产品如何影响了儿童的大脑和生活 [1:00:03]沉迷电子产品，不是儿童的问题，而是电子产品设计的问题 [1:11:50]面向未来，就是面对未知和不确定性 [1:16:50]选择生育，是一种对未来的希望 [1:20:30]不成为母亲，也可以拥有母亲的视角 【本期节目使用的音乐】 “Dream Big” by TURPAK 【关于随机波动】 感谢大家收听，你可以在微信和微博搜索随机波动StochasticVolatility，关注我们，也可以关注官网www.stovol.club ，还可以在苹果播客、spotify、pocketcast等泛用性客户端收听我们的节目。如果你喜欢我们的节目，别忘了在苹果播客给我们五星好评，也可以通过公众号推送中的二维码给我们打赏。

Guest Liu Hongyan, a cancer survivor, discusses her experience with surgery, chemotherapy, and recovery. The podcast explores the challenges and emotions of caregiving, the concept of individual 'moments of faith,' and the complexities of healthcare systems. It also delves into the role of friendship, trust, and knowledge in healing, as well as the realities of limitations and letting go of illusions. Overall, it offers a poignant reflection on the intersection of illness, care, and personal growth.

A female writer explores the connection between food and motherhood, describing how food is a link from birth to death. She highlights the kitchen as the scene of epic stories, where cooking is both a labor and a weapon for women. The podcast delves into the complex relationship between women, food, and violence. It also discusses the power dynamics and history embedded in cooking. Through various literary examples, it showcases how food can be both nurturing and destructive.

Psychological consultant Zhang Chun discusses the power dynamics in relationships and societal assumptions about women in the third season of 'Goodbye, Lover.' The hosts engage in an interactive scenario with Zhang Chun, emphasizing the importance of understanding others despite the potential for failure. They explore topics such as the difficulties in leaving a good person, the rationale behind 'high-achieving women' getting married, and the outdated mindset of both men and women in intimate relationships.

In this podcast, the guests discuss the invisible household tasks that we continuously face in our daily lives. They explore topics such as the different aspects of housework, the challenges of cleaning and shopping, the division of labor in heterosexual households, the dynamics of shared living spaces, and the societal implications of household chores.

In this podcast, the speakers discuss their experiences with summer sports and the relationship between sweat and breathing. They explore topics such as the thrill of off-road running, the elegance of ballet and its connection to breathing, and the impact of menstrual cycles on women's sports. They also touch on gender equality in sports and the progress brought about by movements like MeToo. Overall, the podcast delves into the relationship between exercise, sweat, breathing, and personal growth.

The podcast explores the concept of non-binary gender and the power of imagination. It discusses challenging the binary paradigm of gender and the fluidity of gender roles. The conversation also touches on literature, art, and the representation of gender in society. The episode concludes with the question of whether we can see beyond gender in our daily lives and foster true acceptance and understanding.

萨莉·鲁尼, an Irish writer who explores relationships, intimacy, and sexuality, discusses her novels. Topics include power dynamics in relationships, the intersection of sex and imagination, the impact of social media on daily life, and Rooney's narrative techniques. Her books delve into intimate conversations during sex, capturing desire and providing a comprehensive sensory experience. This podcast explores Rooney's works and their resonance with Chinese readers.

In this podcast, the hosts highlight exceptional female creators. They discuss Miu Miu's 'Women's Tales' series and recommend three favorite films from the series by Korean director Jin Soo-yeon, Tunisian director Kaouther Ben Hania, and writer and director Miranda July. The conversation celebrates the power and impact of female creators and their unique perspectives on mother-daughter relationships, death, revenge, and technology.

The podcast discusses the challenges and frustrations of renting and buying houses, as well as the exhaustion associated with moving. They explore the concept of a double life and share personal anecdotes about frequent moving. The chapter delves into the perception of Chinese people regarding their happiness and education systems. They also touch on personal experiences and preferences, cultural differences in housing, and contrasting perspectives on Chinese happiness.