Swoon: Love Lessons with Julie and Gina

Have you ever just wanted a therapist to tell you exactly what to ask your partner when a problem arises? Well, this episode is for you! Julie and Gina get really specific and tell these callers exactly what they should ask their partner in order to get clarity and make a decision.

Discover the intriguing concept of love bombing and its unsettling impact on relationships. Julie and Gina define this manipulative tactic as excessive affection meant to control. They share red flags to watch for, like overwhelming praise and consuming attention. The duo cites pop culture examples illustrating boundary issues, while discussing emotional manipulation's cycle and consequences. They also offer practical advice for those caught in love bombing, emphasizing the importance of awareness and seeking support.

Julie, Gina and Jeff answer a listener's question about what to do if you're dating someone who's great on paper but lacks physical chemistry. It's a classic questions and we think that we're able to get to the bottom of it! Join Julie and Gina at swoonwithus.com to sign up for their membership course.

Julie, Gina and Jeff take a stab at answering a listener question about what to do if your partner doesn't want to talk about emotions and thinks they're dumb. They go all over the place with this question. There's something for everyone in this episode!

Dive into essential questions to ponder before becoming intimate! Explore the nuances of enthusiastic consent versus responsive desire. Learn the importance of clear decision-making while navigating the complexities of attraction. Discover how to communicate boundaries early on. The hosts address feelings that arise post-encounter and the impact on existing relationships. They also discuss anticipating clumsy moments and adjusting expectations. Plus, the importance of mutual pleasure and skill is highlighted!

Julie and Gina answer a listener's question about how to get through the intense grief and loss after initiating a break up.

Julie and Gina answer a listener's question about how to enter into a new polyamorous relationship while being anxiously attached.

Julie, Gina, and Jeff dive into the challenges of dating too intensely. They explore how early enthusiasm is normal but can lead to overwhelming behaviors. The discussion highlights the importance of groundedness and the role of childhood attachments in shaping our dating patterns. Listeners learn about emotional hijacking and the benefits of therapy for emotional regulation. Practical advice includes slowing down impulses and relying on friends for co-regulation. The hosts encourage embracing discomfort while navigating relationships.

Julie and Gina answer a listener question about not desiring sex after giving birth. The caller wants their husband to feel wanted but the desire to be intimate hasn't been present for over a year.

Julie, Gina and Jeff tackle the age old question of how to feel confident on dating apps. While putting yourself out there online can be nerve-racking and vulnerable, there are some practical ways you can feel better about the whole experience.