Pillow Talks

Is it normal to notice a bad odor after intercourse? What about queefing? How the heck does everyone else manage clean-up after sex?   In this episode, we’re talking about all the unexpected things we experience during sex, but that no one ever talks about openly! We’re giving you the run-down on the most embarrassing bodily functions, how to avoid them, what to do in the moment when they happen, and reassurance that these things are perfectly normal. And we even round it out with some hilarious stories from our listeners, so we can all stop feeling so embarrassed and alone!   Links & Resources: Previous Episode: Episode 99: The Bristle Reaction: What It Is, How It Happens, And What You Can Do To Fix It (https://vmtherapy.com/episode99) Previous Episode: Episode 49: The Truth About Squirting (And Why Men Are Obsessed With It) (https://vmtherapy.com/episode49) Previous Episode: Episode 68: The Ultimate Butt Stuff Episode (https://vmtherapy.com/episode68)   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Thanks Cozy Earth. CozyEarth.com (http://CozyEarth.com) and get up to 35% off when you use the code PILLOWTALKS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today’s episode is inspired by the popular Reddit thread, Am I The Asshole? We’re giving you our hot takes on some of the trickiest situations submitted by our audience. Tune in for stories about faking orgasms for 24 years, forgetting your partner's birthday, and even unknowingly being someone's first time!   Grab your partner and join us for this entertaining episode that’s sure to get you debating right alongside us. Once you’re done listening, let us know your favorite story and whether or not you agree with our stance!   Links & Resources: Guide:  Next Level Intercourse (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/next-level-intercourse/) Guide:  Ultimate Foreplay Guides (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/foreplay-guides-2022/) Guide:  👉 ⁠⁠⁠Butt Stuff 🍑 (only available inside of DEEPER)⁠⁠    If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Go to GreenChef.com/60pillow (http://GreenChef.com/60pillow) and use code 60pillow to get 60% off plus free shipping.   Thanks Cozy Earth. CozyEarth.com (http://CozyEarth.com) and get up to 35% off when you use the code PILLOWTALKS   Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode125   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Explore the anxiety about a boring sex life and learn 5 secrets to shift sex from ho-hum to mind-blowing. Discover the importance of emotional connection and vulnerability, as well as the value of effort in improving skills and hobbies. Approach sex with the mindset of a hobby and rediscover the importance of emotional and physical intimacy in relationships.

Whenever we ask parents what gets in the way of intimacy after kids, the most frequent answer we hear is time. As a parent, everything becomes about the kids, and it feels like there’s no space or energy for intimacy. But your partner and the love you share are special, and deserve your time. So let’s talk about how to create that. We asked the parents in our audience to share their best advice for other parents, and we've prepared a buffet of tips to support you on your journey to reconnect!   Tune in and get ready to reignite the spark in your relationship, even amidst the beautiful chaos of parenthood.   Links & Resources: Course:   The Sex Challenge (http://vmtherapy.com/love/)   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Thanks Cozy Earth. CozyEarth.com (http://CozyEarth.com) and get up to 35% off when you use the code PILLOWTALKS   Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode123 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Does your partner ever touch you in ways, times, or places that you don't feel comfortable with? A staggering 78% of people have experienced unwanted touch in their relationships. We’re talking things like boob honks, humping from behind, and ass smacks.   So what are you supposed to do when the person you love and trust is touching your body in ways that you don’t like? There’s one thing we’re clear on: it’s your body, and you get to decide how it gets touched. That being said, there can be nuances in these kinds of situations. What if you’ve never told your partner you don’t like that kind of touch? What if you know your partner has good intentions, but just isn’t understanding your boundaries?   In this episode, we're not just highlighting the problem; we're providing solutions. We'll walk you through the three most common scenarios when it comes to unwanted touch in relationships, and provide practical guidance on how to tackle them. Whether you're seeking advice on communication, setting boundaries, or understanding consent, we've got you covered.   Links & Resources: Guide:  Art Of Initiation (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/the-art-of-initiation/) Guide:  Survivor’s Guide (https://free.vmtherapy.com/survivors-guide-opt-in/)   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Thanks Cozy Earth. CozyEarth.com (http://CozyEarth.com) and get up to 35% off when you use the code PILLOWTALKS Thanks Babbel. Babbel.com/pillow (http://Babbel.com/pillow) for 55% off your subscription.   Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode122 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Explore the challenges of having a higher female sex drive in a relationship, including listener feedback and advice. Discuss societal stereotypes, shame, and the need for normalization. Touch on a podcast sponsor and introduce the Dipsy app. Share positive experience with meal prep service Green Chef. Discuss ways people worsen mismatched libidos and the consequences of avoiding or repressing desires. Encourage understanding and fulfilling each other's needs for intimacy.

Xander, male behavior expert, answers burning questions about male behavior. Topics include men's attitudes and behaviors regarding bodily functions, understanding male behavior in relationships, lack of sex education, impact of porn on sexual techniques, and why men forget plans.

In this episode, the hosts of Pillow Talks discuss jealousy in relationships. They explore common triggers, such as work, friendships, sex, and attraction to others. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding the underlying needs behind jealousy and provide a toolkit for managing it. They also address the temptation to blame external factors and offer advice on setting healthy boundaries. Additionally, they discuss using sex toys to alleviate jealousy and enhance enjoyment in relationships. Overall, the episode provides insights and practical tips for navigating jealousy in relationships.

Explore the undervalued role of foreplay in relationships and the misconceptions surrounding it. Emphasize the importance of open communication and the ultimate foreplay guide. Highlight the significance of foreplay in sexual relationships and challenge the misconception that it is unnecessary. Discuss the importance of attitude in foreplay and the need to redefine it as a unique experience. Explore the importance of incorporating foreplay throughout sex and the challenges of receiving pleasure.

What do you assume or secretly suspect about us? Or what have you simply been curious about?   In this episode, we’re diving headfirst into the assumptions you sent our way after we posted those questions on Instagram. From light-hearted and sexy to profoundly personal, your submissions held nothing back, and we’re sharing our vulnerable and honest truths! Our goal? To make you chuckle, perhaps catch you off guard (like we were when reading some of these), and give you a peek behind the curtain.   Join us for a hilarious episode that will challenge your assumptions and have you shouting, "I did not see that coming!”   Links & Resources: Our NYT Bestselling Book: Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life (https://sextalksbook.com/)   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Thanks Cozy Earth. CozyEarth.com (http://cozyearth.com/) and get up to 35% off when you use the code PILLOWTALKS Thanks Babbel. Visit Babbel.com/pillow (http://Babbel.com/pillow) for 55% off your subscription.   Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode117 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices