Pillow Talks

Exploring the concept of laziness in bed, the impact on relationships, and ways to break the cycle. Discussing gender dynamics, communication, and the importance of active participation in sexual encounters. Addressing reasons behind perceived laziness and empowering couples to enhance intimacy together.

Discover the challenges of sustaining romance in long-term relationships, explore why men may not be as romantic and how partners can encourage more romance. Get ideas for romantic gestures and ways to inspire more romance. Learn tips for getting your partner to be more romantic, including avoiding comparisons and focusing on love and appreciation. Shifting the mindset on romance and protecting surprises in relationships. Introducing a challenge to increase intimacy and exploring a diverse sex challenge.

Explore your sex personality type and what it says about your desires and experiences in the bedroom. Discover the challenges and dynamics between givers and receivers, and the importance of balance in sexual relationships. Learn about the desires and characteristics of passion pursuers and how to navigate relationships with them. Get insights on navigating different personality types and the significance of emotional intelligence in relationships. Plus, exciting announcements and a chance to win a prize!

Snip snap! We’re back with part 2 of Xander’s vasectomy journey. (Start with part 1 if you want to hear his story.) This time we’re answering all your questions about the process from start to finish (literally, all 30 “finishes”).   Did Xander have any pain during sex after the procedure? Did his sex drive change? Do his balls hang lower? Is his semen a different color, texture, or volume, and does it smell funny now? Did his vasectomy make him feel less masculine?   Plus, we share tons of advice about how to talk to your male partner about getting a vasectomy!   Links & Resources: Check out our homepage (https://vmtherapy.com/)   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Thanks Cozy Earth. CozyEarth.com (https://cozyearth.com/) and get 35% off when you use the code PILLOWTALKS   Thanks EarthBreeze!  EarthBreeze.com/pillow (https://earthbreeze.com/pillow) to subscribe to Earth Breeze and save 40%!

We asked you to share your funniest foreplay fails, and you REALLY delivered! Today we’re sharing the dangers of jalapeños, why you shouldn’t chew gum during oral, and some bad Cosmo advice about armpits!   But we couldn’t leave it at just your stories; we had to include some of our funniest fails as well. Trust us, you definitely want to hear what happened the very first time Vanessa ever gave someone a blowjob, and the time Xander didn’t really make it to foreplay…   If you want to avoid your own foreplay fail, we’re also sharing our #1 resource for having the best foreplay experience of your life!   Links & Resources: Guide: The Foreplay Guides (https://vmtherapy.com/foreplay)   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Thanks Dipsea. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/pillow (https://DipseaStories.com/pillow).

Xander got a vasectomy! They discuss the entire process, finding the right doctor, the procedure itself, aftercare, and more. Hilarious details about preparing for the procedure and post-procedure test. They plan to answer burning questions about the procedure in part 2. Also, discussion on risks, cost, anesthesia, positioning, and post-vasectomy testing.

A countdown of the top 10 moments from Pillow Talks in 2023, including hilarious encounters during a road trip and a change in the podcast setup. The hosts discuss the fine line between honesty and cruelty in relationships, share embarrassing sex stories, and play a relationship-themed game. They also talk about handling a penis during sexual activities and the challenge of fitting a wedding ring through a soft penis.

In this special holiday edition of the podcast, the hosts discuss gift exchange dilemmas with mothers-in-law, the etiquette of gift-giving, challenges with family expectations, and navigating holiday traditions and travel challenges. They also debate whether or not someone is the asshole for not offering a discount on a cake and share humorous conversations about recording the podcast in bed and in doggy style.

The hosts of this podcast discuss common misconceptions and challenges surrounding intercourse, including frustration with positions, movement, and timing of orgasms. They emphasize the importance of communication, foreplay, and focusing on a woman's pleasure. They also explore different sexual positions and address the limitations of porn and movies. The chapter delves into the frustration of 'pillow princessing' and highlights the significance of aftercare. The hosts introduce 'Next Level Intercourse' guide and share tips for enhancing pleasure and closing the orgasm gap.

“We’re just not having sex anymore...”   If you’ve found yourself uttering (or even just thinking) this line, you’re not alone. So many couples will experience a loss of not just their sex life but intimacy altogether.   When we released Dead Bedrooms Part One earlier this year, it instantly became one of our top episodes of all time. So we decided to bring it back for a Part Two with a brand new couple.     In this episode, you get to take a peek into another couple’s bedroom as we help them navigate how to resuscitate their sex life. We’re giving our top pointers for reconnecting inside the bedroom and out, tips on how to move through the difficult conversations, and a few suggestions for resources that can help the process along. A dead bedroom can feel draining and never-ending but we promise you there is a light at the end of the tunnel if you’re willing to keep going!   Links & Resources: Book: Sex Talks: The 5 Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life (https://sextalksbook.com/) Course:  Art Of Initiation (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/the-art-of-initiation/) Course:  Rediscovering Us (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/pilfs/) Website: Home Page (https://vmtherapy.com/)   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Thanks Dipsea. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/pillow (https://DipseaStories.com/pillow).   Go to Zocdoc.com/pillow (https://www.zocdoc.com/pillow) and download the Zocdoc app to sign-up for FREE and book a top-rated doctor.   Thanks Uncommon Goods! Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/PILLOW (https://uncommongoods.com/PILLOW)