The Tai Lopez Show

“Choose well. Your career, your friends, your mates, your investments. The person who becomes the best at choosing—I think lives the best.” - Tai Lopez(click to tweet)Go to stamps.com, and click on the microphone at the top of the homepage and type in TAI—to get a 4-week trial plus free postage and a digital scale without any long-term commitment. Go to netsuite.com/tai to download their FREE “Crushing the Five Barriers to Growth”Relationships can be the most difficult algorithm.When we partner up with a mate, the bowl of emotions doubles in quantity and suddenly, there’s two spoons stirring inside. If we’re not careful with who we choose, it can quickly become a mess too great for us to handle. That’s why breaking down personality types is so important.On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are wrapping up our discussion with Dr. Helen Fisher by discussing the 4 personality types: explorers, builders, negotiators, and directors. Helen Fisher, PhD has conducted extensive research and written six books on the evolution and future of human sex, love, marriage, gender differences in the brain and how your personality style shapes who you are and who you love. She is currently using her knowledge of brain chemistry to discuss the neuroscience of business leadership and innovation.You can learn more at helenfisher.com   Don’t forget! You can also listen to The Tai Lopez Show on Spotify! Click “Follow” and let me know what you think!“Men lie about how tall they are and how much money they make. Women lie about how old they are and how much they weigh.” - Dr. Helen Fisher(click to tweet)Points to Keep In MindThe ventromedial prefrontal cortex is highly linked to remembering the negativeWhen egg meets sperm, there are about 8 million different possible combinationsRead Compelling Peopleto understand the distribution of warmth and strength in peopleGo to The Anatomy of Love to learn about love from a team of neuroscientistsThe biggest problem in corporations is people hiring similar-minded individualsMen lie about how tall they are and how much money they make. Women lie about how old they are and how much they weighRead Civilization and Its Discontents to understand how humans seek pleasure and avoid painIn general, groups want to exploit each other, so bring good people into your bubble Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Love is the most complicated algorithm.” - Tai Lopez(click to tweet)Go to ziprecruiter.com/tai for a smarter way to hire for FREE! Check out lightstream.com/tai to learn about your best loan ever.Love is the most complicated algorithm. When we think about what’s needed for a healthy relationship, we can quickly get lost in the requirements: time, energy, money, attention, emotions, sex, and the list goes on. If we’re not careful, we can begin to feel overwhelmed with the to-do’s and lose sight of the overarching goal: love. That’s why on today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are joined by Helen Fisher to discuss the 3 ingredients of a healthy relationship. Helen Fisher, PhD has conducted extensive research and written six books on the evolution and future of human sex, love, marriage, gender differences in the brain and how your personality style shapes who you are and who you love. She is currently using her knowledge of brain chemistry to discuss the neuroscience of business leadership and innovation.You can read her latest book Anatomy of Love hereDon’t forget! You can also listen to The Tai Lopez Show on Spotify! Click “Follow” and let me know what you think!Points to Keep In MindOur brain systems for romantic love are adjacent to those of sex drive, thirst, and hungerMen fall in love faster than women do Women want to be cherished, and men want to be needed Studies show that a happy relationship can push you to live 7-10 years longerOnly 6% of people have ever tried to engage in a poyamorous relationships“The lane of love is narrow—there is room for only one.” - KabirMaking money is a lot easier than finding loveMarriage has shifted from being the beginning to now—the finale of a relationshipIf you don’t compliment the individual, you get a nice community working togetherLove is like war—it’s easy to get in to, but hard to get out3 areas of the brain linked with long-term happiness: empathy, controlling own emotions, positive illusionsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“I’ve never met two people who are alike—and I’m an identical twin.” - Helen Fisher(click to tweet)Visit netsuite.com/tai to download your FREE guide, “Seven Key Strategies to Grow your Profits”Check out lightstream.com/tai to learn about your best loan ever.It’s no secret that humans are motivated by sex.But just how deep does this drive go? When we examine our behavioral similarities and differences with other groups: our ancestors, other modern-day societies, and animal species—we can start to distill the mechanics of what actually lies beneath our sex drive.That’s why on  today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are joined by Helen Fisher to discuss the ultimate question: is sex everything? Helen Fisher, PhD has conducted extensive research and written six books on the evolution and future of human sex, love, marriage, gender differences in the brain and how your personality style shapes who you are and who you love. She is currently using her knowledge of brain chemistry to discuss the neuroscience of business leadership and innovation.You can read her latest book Anatomy of Love hereDon’t forget! You can also listen to The Tai Lopez Show on Spotify! Click “Follow” and let me know what you think!“We’ve traded security in for autonomy and adventure.” - Helen Fisher(click to tweet)Points to Keep In MindStudies show that 86% of Americans will marry by middle-age, we’re just doing it laterThe 4-year itch can be explained by how long it takes to raise a child past infancyHumans have a tremendous drive to pair-bond and be adulterousWe are motivated by the 4 M’s: money, mating, movement/freedom, mastery/statusOur cerebral cortex is where we do our thinkingApproximately 8,000 of the 9,000 species of birds form pair-bonds The Amish are highly agreeable people who are willing to conform to a groupThe brain is built for 5-9 choices; after that, you begin to not choose anyPerceiving is dopamine-related and judging is serotonin-related Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Controversial political commentator Ben Shapiro joins Tai Lopez to discuss personal responsibility, tribalism, and the importance of believing in one's own ability to succeed. They also touch on topics like cultural obstacles, challenges faced by single moms, the difficulties of hiring, and recognizing business opportunities. The episode ends with a birthday surprise for Ben and a discussion about where to find him on various platforms.

Neil Patel, Forbes Top 10 Marketer, shares his secrets to online marketing. Find out how to engage with influencers on Instagram, build a strong brand, discover trending products, invest in cryptocurrencies, network with investors, and leverage strengths for marketing success.

Russell Brunson shares his journey of building a 9-digit SaaS company, ClickFunnels, in just three years. They discuss the importance of building a community around businesses, using low-price products to build trust, and the rise of mobile traffic. The chapter also explores Hitler's strategies to persuade Germany, overcoming fear of video content, using social media marketing for dentists and restaurants, and the need for encouragement and support in business.

Visit fundrise.com/tai to have your first 3 months of fees waived!Go to myollie.com/try/tai for 60% off plus a FREE bag of treatsVisit netsuite.com/tai to download your FREE guide, “Seven Key Strategies to Grow your Profits”Get $150 off your purchase when you go to eightsleep.com/tai“Emotional intelligence is knowing how to control your own emotions in sync with also reading how others feel about you.” - Tai Lopez(click to tweet)Great marketing requires a storytelling finesse. This is because audiences are smart, and can detect the tricks you might be trying to play. Say your video’s call-to-action is too explicit; a viewer will see that and turn the other way. Or if the product’s need is not rooted in enough emotional weight, the potential customer might not feel incentivized enough to purchase. Whatever the case may be, the cure to this is to tell relatable stories. A relatable story is an emotional story. From the failure stories to the love stories, if the core of the messaging is rooted in something that the viewer or reader can relate to, the storytelling becomes much easier. No longer are you tiptoeing through the tripwires in the potential customer’s head; he or she is on the same page and will inevitably feel motivated to buy your product. On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are taking a close look at relatability. In a conversation with my brother, we discuss all things related to storytelling, marketing, and interpersonal relations. How can you be more relatable in each of these domains is the question we answer in today’s episode. Don’t forget! You can also listen to The Tai Lopez Show on Spotify! Click “Follow” and let me know what you think!“Anything you can do to make people see themselves in your story will automatically connect them with you. Next time a police officer pulls you over, make him see himself in the driver’s seat.” - Tai Lopez(click to tweet)Points to Keep In MindBeing real is being relatableWhen trying to get what you want, present your need in a way that people can relate toThe Kardashians are successful because their family dysfunction, at its core, is relatableLove is the most relatable theme in any marketing or storytelling materialEveryone can relate to being hurt, and the vulnerability that createsYou have to make the person see yourself in your shoesPeople relate to the failure story; another reason to launch businesses and fail, it will help you relate in the futureEmotional intelligence is the soft skills, far different than the IQ they teach in schoolIf you’re ever losing the crowd, say “I want to tell a story about someone close to me who betrayed me”Optimism bias causes a person to believe that they are at a lesser risk of experiencing a negative event compared to others  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Learn the importance of detecting lies and distilling the truth from the nonsense. Explore topics such as the human tendency to lie, the importance of teaching life skills to children, and the impact of honesty in relationships. Discover the drawbacks of traditional education and the power of taking action for real change. Break toxic relationships and create space for better ones.

Visit netsuite.com/tai to download your FREE guide, “Seven Key Strategies to Grow your Profits”For 20% off your first order, visitmackweldon.comand enter promo code: TAI at checkout!Get $20 off your first custom shirt at propercloth.com/taiProblems hiring? Go to ziprecruiter.com/tai for a smarter way to hire for FREE!“If you get too far behind financially in your life, it’s almost impossible to catch up.” - Tai Lopez(click to tweet)You can either be right or rich. So if you’re not rich, then you’re most likely holding onto your opinions too strongly. You’re doing this because you’re afraid of being proved wrong. Well, in educating yourself by listening to others, you learn that you are wrong. And the moment when you accept this is the start to a life of wealth.On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are discussing how to go from rags to riches through self-education. When you pursue profit, the first step is making sure you have your head on straight. What industry are you tackling? What specific niche are you going to carve out? What are you going to do different than the competitors? Tune in today to learn how to approach the path to financial freedom!And don’t forget! You can also listen to The Tai Lopez Show on Spotify! Click “Follow” and let me know what you think!“The best investment in life is education.” - Tai Lopez(click to tweet)Points to Keep In MindStudies show when you write something down, you absorb it 50% betterThe definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different resultsThe average American saves 2% every yearHave an interruption pattern that sends you up, not downMost people need massive pain to have interruption Use visualization techniques to see what you want to do before doing itAttach strong emotion to your goalsReal estate is the industry that has made the most millionaires  Use the P.A.S.E. System (Practical, Action, Social, Emotional) to read people’s personality types and adapt accordinglyPractical - slow, accountant-types, think before they speakAction - speak aggressively, say what you want, not easily offendedSocial - those who believe social chit chat is most importantEmotional - introverted, not very talkative to strangersInvest in avenues of education that will pay itself offDon’t use generic terms; people need specificityIntegrate reviews into your website designDon’t use stock photography on your marketing materialsTell stories on your website and any other marketing messagingLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For 20% off your first order, visit mackweldon.com and enter promo code: TAI at checkout!“I’m all about having mentors in your life. Successful people who push you and are positive to be around. Because there’s a lot of haters out there.” - Matt Altman(click to tweet)We all have side hustles. But are these things we do with our spare time actually making us money or just wasting our time?On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are joined by The Altman Brothers. In 2008, after the market collapsed, they moved out of their multi-million dollar mansion into two-bedroom apartment. Now, in the past 5 years, they’ve sold over $2 billion in property. How they achieved their success was through a unique type of hustling that involved walking the hills of Hollywood and talking to the people standing in line at Starbucks. Tune in to learn their tricks and take your hustling mindset to the next level!Don’t forget! You can also listen to The Tai Lopez Show on Spotify! Click “Follow” and let me know what you think!“I love cold-calling because people hang up on me and I move onto the next one. It fuels the fire inside because you want to make that sale.” - Josh Altman(click to tweet)Points to Keep In MindDon’t invest too heavily in one thing; be diversified across the boardYou have to be proactive; take people out to lunchMany different avenues to make money in real estate: Commercial, lending, buy/hold, agentIn real estate, sit in at other people’s open houses; but don’t sit, get up and walk around with the visitorsYou have to pay your dues to become successfulWhen you start out, you need a ‘servant’s heart’ and to put in ‘sweat equity’Frame your candidacy as no-risk for the employerThe younger generation’s instant gratification mindset is frustrating for older employersInvest in things you can touch, and/or things you believe in Love what you do and you will work no day in your lifeReal estate is one of the few jobs where you are your own boss Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.