The Viall Files

On this episode of The Viall Files we are joined by Ben Smith the runner up on this season of The Bachelorette. Ben talks through what it felt like in the moment when Tayshia first sent him home, going to Chris Harrison for help, how being vulnerable and sharing his story has shaped his experience on the show and how all he really wants is for Tayshia to be happy. "I thought we were on the same letter, in the same word, on the same page" Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Press House Coffee: http://www.presshousecoffee.com/VIALL to get 20%off Everlane: http://everlane.com/VIALL to sign up for 10% off your first order plus free shipping. Each & Every: http://eachandevery.com/VIALL for 30% off your first purchase Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @benveesmith See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tonight on the FINALE recap of The Bachelorette we are joined by the one and only Cazzie David. Cazzie claims The Bachelorette is the only thing she knows how to talk about now from being in quarantine and we could not be happier about that. Nick and Cazzie breakdown 2 nights of The Bachelorette and chat about all the angles and scenarios, especially the weird ones. Cazzie also has a new book out called "No One Asked For This: Essays" which is "humor not in memes guys" so make sure to check it out at https://www.hmhbooks.com/shop/books/No-One-Asked-for-This/9780358181781 "Why can't they share a room, this isn't the f-ing Crown." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Rum Haven: http://www.discover.rumhaven.com for the latest tips, recipes, and giveaways. Butcherbox: http://butcherbox.com/VIALL for 2 pounds of salmon free in your first box FightCamp: http://www.joinfightcamp.com/FILES to get free shipping and a gift valued at $109 with your purchase Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @cazziedavid See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kicking it off on this weeks episode of Ask Nick we speak to a woman who has been dating people younger than her because she doesn't like the feeling of inadequacy she gets when she dates someone older and likes the control she has with someone not so set in their ways. Next we speak to someone who's boyfriend thinks that her roommate is stepping over the boundaries of privacy in their relationship when he saw messages from another girl on his phone and told her. A 30 year age gap is our the next callers issue when it comes to the future and handling the judgment of people around them. Finally exes living together after a break up because of a financial situation are trying to find the best path forward in their new normal. "Sometimes judgment comes from a place of love and people caring for you, other times they are just haters with nothing better to do." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Press House Coffee: http://www.presshousecoffee.com/VIALL for 20% off. Usual Wines: http://www.usualwines.com Use Promo code VIALL for eight dollars off your order and have your first glass on them. Natural Habits: http://nhoils.com use promo code LOVE for 35% off Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we are joined by one of the most talked about contestants on this season of The Bachelorette, Noah Erb. Love him or hate him we take some time to hear more about who Noah is, his family, being on the front lines of COVID, and how he really approaches his sex life which is the opposite of the party boy mentality people seem to place on him. We also get to hear about what we did not see when it came to Bennett, Tayshia thinking he wasn't ready for marriage, and his conversations with Ben & Spencer off camera. "I am exactly in my life where I want to be for another person to come into my life." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Storyworth: http://www.storyworth.com/VIALL to get $10 off your first purchase. Press House Coffee: http://www.presshousecoffee.com/VIALL to get 20%off Skylight Frames: http://www.skylightfraame.com use promo code FILES for $10 off your purchase. Usual Wines: http://www.usualwines.com use discount code VIALL for $8 off your first order and try your first glass on them. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @noah_erb See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Completing his "Viathalon" Justin Long joins us for this episode of the Viall Files where we will recap two nights of the Bachelorette. As a true member of Bach Nation Justin can not just focus on the episodes at hand he has to get in his thoughts on lie detectors, passive aggressive gifts, and math problems. As we have learned, when these two get together the conversation can go in any direction. Where does Justin fall in the Noah vs Bennett debate? Who makes his heart flutter? How many contestant impressions will he do? Nick & Justin, a duo you can't stop. "That is a f*$% ing hard thing to say, I don't like you, I don't like you enough, that is very difficult." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Rum Haven: http://www.discover.rumhaven.com for the latest tips, recipes, and giveaways. Headspace: http://www.headspace.com/VIALL for a free one month trial. Noom: http://www.noom.com/VIALL to sign up for your free trial. Mejuri: http://www.mejuri.com/VIALL for 10% off your order Brooklinen: http://www.brooklinen.com use promo code VIALL for 10% off your first order plus free shipping. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @justinlong See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We have another extended version of Ask Nick for you this week as we are joined once again by the delightful, Justin Long. Will he tell one of our callers "he is just not that into you"? You will have to listen to find out so let's jump right into it. Our first caller is actively dating two people at once and thought that one would "fizzle" out but neither of them have. We then speak with someone who was dealing with the death of her father and needing the support of her boyfriend who was not showing up for her when she needed him most. Our next caller finds herself feeling constantly shamed by her boyfriend whenever things do not go according to HIS plan. A bigger dating issue comes up while chatting with someone who's original issue is that her boyfriend doesn't like it when she hangs out with her friends. Finally, a woman discovers her bi-sexuality when she realizes she has an attraction to her friend that she now is falling in love with and she is not sure how to tell her. " He is a hunk who never cultivated anything outside of his hunkiness" Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Mrs. Fields: http://www.mrsfields.com get 20% off site-wide with code VIALL. TRUFF: http://www.truff.com get 10% off site-wide with code VIALL. Liquid I.V.: http://www.liquidIV.com use code VIALL for 25% off your order. Each And Every: http://www.eachandevery.com/Viall use promo code VIALL for 30% off. Proactiv: Proactiv.com/VIALL Proactiv subscribers will receive the Hydrating Duo as a FREE GIFT. That includes four Hydrogel Masks AND the Green Tea Moisturizer! You also get FREE SHIPPING. Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Justin Long @justinlong See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you have ever wanted to get your boyfriend to listen to The Viall Files this is the one to get them hooked on as our guests Kevin Dillon & Doug Ellin talk all things Entourage and Victory The Podcast. They talk relationships on the show and how they would have handled things in their real lives, how the dating scenarios in the show came from real life scenarios, behind the scenes of the show, and what the show would look like now if it was made in 2020. It's a fun episode recapping a show that gave all us women a look into the understanding of what boys do when they are with their boyz! "I wanted that feeling of Hollywood that it is a struggle." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Plenty of Fish: Find the full list of 2021 Dating Trends on Plenty of Fish's blog, The Latest Catch (blog.pof.com) and download Plenty of Fish from the App Store or Google Play to sign up for a free membership today. Masterclass: http://www.masterclass.com/VIALL get one membership to MasterClass and one for someone else for free. Axon:http://www.taser.com use promo code VIALL for 15% off Manscaped: http://www.manscaped.com use promo code VIALL to get 20% off + free shipping. Each and Every: http://www.eachandevery.com/viall use promo code VIALL to get 30% off. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @victorythepodcast @kevindillonofficial @mrdougellin See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For this recap of The Bachelorette we are joined by one of Bachelor Nations favorite contestants Raven Gates. Nick and Raven break down the Bennett and Noah drama while comparing it to the emotional intelligence conversation on NIck's season between Taylor and Corrine, they get analytical about home towns and lie detectors and most importantly they discuss why they think Jojo did not say there was a final rose on the table. Its an episode filled with healthy debates and theories you don't want to miss. "She can not let people know there is only one rose on the table." Make sure to check out Ravens new clothing line at www.shopgreysuede.com and she is giving our listeners 30% off the entire month with code NICK. Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Rum Haven: http://www.discover.rumhaven.com for the latest tips, recipes, and giveaways. Thereagun: http://www.theragun.com/viall to Try for 30 days. Shipstation: http://www.shipstation.com use code VIALL to try it FREE for 60 days. Dipsea: http://www.dipseastories.com/VIALL for a 30 day FREE trial. Usual Wines: http://usualwines.com use code VIALL for $8 off your first order and get your first glass is on us. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @ravennicolegates See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this weeks super sized episode of Ask Nick we are joined by friend of the show Chrishell Stause. We are so happy to have Crishell back to give a female perspective to some of our callers today, and we may try to pry into the developments into her personal life as well. Our first caller is a 27 year old virgin who is fine dating and "running the bases" but is waiting for the feeling of love before she has sex for the first time. Next we speak with someone who is feeling the guilt of moving on too soon in the fear she will hurt her exes feelings. Third , we chat with a woman who's love language is gifting and her boyfriend is not understanding she needs him to show her he loves her sometimes because in the bedroom he is not reciprocating oral sex which is weighing heavily on their relationship. With our next question a woman is having a hard time losing her best friend who she had a one time sexual relationship with when her current boyfriend does not want her around their relationship. Our final caller grew up in a very emotionally abusive family and found herself dating the people she grew up surrounded by, but when she started dating a really good guy she found herself being the one toxic in the relationship. " What other people think of you is none of your business" Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Amazon Music: http://www.amazon.com/VIALL for your first 3 months of Amazon Music Free. Article: http://www.article.com/VIALL for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. Cratejoy: http://www.cratejoy.com/VIALL to get 30% off your first box and shop Cratejoy's holiday specials. Huzzah Probiotic Seltzer: http://www.drinkhuzzah.com use code VIALL for 20% off. Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Chrishell Stause @chrishell.stause See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we are joined by Jodi Rodgers, the relationship and sexologist specialist from Netflix's Love On The Spectrum. Jodi started working with people with disabilities and expanded her studies specialzing in autism & relationships. She saw there was a lack of conversation around sexual and romantic dynamics when it came to Autism in adults and this focus made her the therapist helping out some of the people we meet on Love On The Spectrum. Nick and Jodi do not only speak about her time on the show but also get into Sexology and Jodi takes the time to share her thoughts on some of the relationship questions we often get on The Viall Files. "It had something to do with a love of snails." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Manscaped: http://www.manscaped.com use code VIALL for 20% off and free shipping Blendjet: http://www.blendjet.com/VIALL to save an extra 12% Brooklinen: http://www.brooklinen.com enter promo code VIALL for 10% off your order plus free shipping. Skylight Frames: http://www.skylightframes.com enter code FILES to get $10 off your purchase. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.