

A Gay and A NonGay
James Barr and Dan Hudson
In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.'Highly Recommended' Guardian'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOutAn independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongayGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed
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Oct 11, 2023 • 21min
Princess Diana
How often does Dan think about the Roman Empire, and how often does James think about Princess Diana? Dan has some very exciting career news, and James definitely does not have the hump! Plus, bird news.Get tickets to our upcoming live show at Cheerful Earful Festival in London on November 2nd! (Book Dan as a Jamie Dornan lookalike on lookalikes.co.uk 👀) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 4, 2023 • 20min
What is life like for LGBTQ+ asylum seekers in the UK?
James and Dan are joined by Leila Zadeh from Rainbow Migration. Together, we dig deep into the harsh realities faced by LGBTQ+ asylum seekers trying to find safety in the UK. Leila reveals the heartbreaking truth about the challenges these individuals face, shining a light on the trauma caused by the UK's immigration detention system.This episode paints a vivid picture of what it's like to be an LGBTQ+ asylum seeker. It highlights the emotional toll of being locked up and the uncertainty of when, or even if, they'll be set free. In the darkness of the UK Governments 'Stop The Boats' rhetoric, it's crucial to remember that behind these policies are real people, desperately seeking safety, dignity, and a chance at living as their authentic selves.Leila passionately calls for change, urging the government to create safe and compassionate pathways for those escaping persecution.Join James, Dan, and Leila as they navigate the heart-wrenching struggles and unjust policies affecting LGBTQ+ asylum seekers in the UK.For information regarding LGBTQ+ immigration in the UK, or to support Rainbow Migration's important work please visit https://www.rainbowmigration.org.uk/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 27, 2023 • 12min
Is being 'thick' a 'gay' thing?
Dan thinks that James might pretend to be "thick" to fit a gay stereotype? This goes down well 😂 and James wonders if Dan thinks "all straight people are boring", prompting a lively exchange. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 20, 2023 • 21min
Bird News
We're back with Bird News! James is ‘back in the game’ - dating-wise, but doesn’t want to use any apps. Plus is driving a car 'straight'? and it’s James’ birthday but why was Dan not invited? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 13, 2023 • 19min
Is it safe to be gay in the UK?
James reflects on the horrific events at The Two Brewers in Clapham in August, and asks if the UK is a safe place for gay people. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 6, 2023 • 18min
Is there a 'power dynamic' in gay relationships?
What is the ‘power dynamic’ in a gay relationship? Would James role-play as someone’s brother? Plus Dan has some bird news. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 24, 2023 • 14min
Are rape and sexual assault considered 'normal' for queer people?
It goes without saying, trigger warning.For help and support check out Galop ,the UK's LGBTQ+ abuse and violence charity,https://galop.org.uk/get-help/helplines/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 17, 2023 • 14min
Fire Island Chicken Tender-gate
James fills Dan in on more 'gay Twitter' drama regarding Chicken Tenders. Plus, is Jack Grealish leading a 'new trend' of feminiity? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 10, 2023 • 12min
What is a 'circuit queen'?
James reflects on the *drama* at Adonis nightclub. Meanwhile, Dan's latest business venture 'Only Dans' is still not off the ground. :(. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 2, 2023 • 14min
Go 'woke', go Broke? and Barbie
This Barbie is a podcaster - As a christian preacher condemns Barbie, James is embarrassed to discover he's the only gay that fancied his Ken doll as a child. Plus we question the motivations behind transphobia, are these born to a genuine concern about transgender people or something else? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices