

A Gay and A NonGay
James Barr and Dan Hudson
In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.'Highly Recommended' Guardian'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOutAn independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongayGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed
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Jul 26, 2023 • 23min
Are Just Stop Oil right to protest Pride in London?
Were Just Stop Oil right to protest Pride in London? Plus James has witnessed his first orgasm at LA Pride. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 19, 2023 • 21min
Ten Years of Equal Marriage with Layla Moran MP
James and Dan are joined by Liberal Democrat MP Layla Moran, the UK's first pansexual MP.On the agenda - why is David Cameron taking credit for introducing same-sex marriage? Are there lots of secretly gay MPs who vote for homophobic legislation? And why are the government so obsessed with trans people? Plus, Layla opens up to James and Dan about her own coming out journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 12, 2023 • 21min
Glastonbury Darkrooms
Dan learns about a darkroom at Glastonbury, and James finds out what an upside-down pineapple means. Is this a thing? Meanwhile in Solihull, 'the most NonGay town in Britain', everyone's apparently drinking pina coladas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 5, 2023 • 27min
America's Chemsex Killer with Patrick Strudwick
Are experiences like abuse, chemsex, sexual exploitation, racism and even murder considered 'normal' for LGBTQ+ people?James and Dan dive into the depths of LGBTQ+ shame with journalist Patrick Strudwick, uncovering it's impact and the vulnerabilities it can create. In this chilling episode, Patrick shares insights from his new Audible original series, 'White Smoke: America’s Chemsex Killer'.Are there more Ed Bucks out there?Listen to White Smoke on AudibleFor help and advice with chemsex, join the Terrance Higgins Trust's online chemsex group for Gay and Bisexual men, click herePivot Point also offer some useful advice on quitting/cutting back, and tips on how to make sure PnP is as safe as possible https://pivotpoint.org.au/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 28, 2023 • 13min
Has Philip Schofield given gays ‘bad PR?’
Has the Philip Schofield scandal given the gays ‘bad PR?’. Dan wonders if age-gap relationships are more common in the LGBTQ+ community? Is there anything wrong with them? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 22, 2023 • 18min
Breakups and Beefs
Should you be 'friends' with your exes? Dan discovers that none of James' breakups have been amicable. Meanwhile James' friend is panicked after sleeping with someone that looks exactly like Dan. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 14, 2023 • 19min
Is everyone a bit queer?
James has an accident in a hotel room and Dan is annoyed by TERFS claiming to be punk. Plus can straight people also be 'queer'? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 7, 2023 • 14min
Are straight people ‘endlessly boring?’
James is very bored this week - bored of straight people dominating narratives in TV shows and ‘endlessly running marathons’, Is he just jealous that he’s not the centre of attention? Do other gay people feel the same? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 31, 2023 • 14min
Sam Smith and the fake moral panic
James has been arguing with Piers Morgan again 🙄 (he's got a tour to sell), and why if someone tells you to be less of something, you should be MORE of it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 24, 2023 • 14min
Is sex funny?
Is it healthy to laugh at intimacy? Is sex funny? Dan thinks it is, James thinks it isn't. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices