

A Gay and A NonGay
James Barr and Dan Hudson
In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.'Highly Recommended' Guardian'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOutAn independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongayGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed
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Jan 29, 2020 • 18min
The big three
James has said 'the big three', Dan is appropriating gay culture again and we chat about the BBC's official response to our Gavin & Stacy complaints; after they broadcast the word 'F****t' into over 17.1 million homes on Christmas Day.We’re coming to see you babes! Join us on our first ever UK tour, check out our dates below and tap here for tickets http://gaynongay.com/live. . We can’t wait to meet you!22/03 Brighton,23/03 London,24/03 Birmingham,26/03 Manchester,27/03 Glasgow.Do the admin and respond to our new listener survey, you'd be doing us a massive favour podcastviews.com. . Thank you.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 22, 2020 • 16min
Friends forever?
The boys discuss how hard it is to keep friendships - but is it easier for LGBTQ+ people? Plus James thinks he's worked out how Dan's relationship works.Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to be themselves and chat, visit www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ . Get tickets for our 2020 tour, https://www.gigsandtours.com/tour/a-gay-and-a-nongay/ . we can't wait to meet you.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 15, 2020 • 18min
Twenty Twen-T
We’re declaring 2020… TwentyTwenT – the year to actively go out of your way to stand up for our trans friends, especially when people like Sharron Davies are coming after them every day on twitter. -Plus Dan’s invaded a safe space – is everyone really welcome?-Read a recent research report on transphobia online here.https://www.brandwatch.com/reports/transphobia/ .-Please donate to one of our favourite charities , Mermaids UK and help children, young people and their families to achieve a happier life in the face of gender adversity,https://uk.virginmoneygiving.com/donation-web/charity?charityId=1013391&stop_mobi=yes.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 8, 2020 • 15min
Gavin and Stacey
Happy New Year! Dan can't stop using his '2020 vision' joke 🙄and James is no longer a 'salon gay'. Dan gets defensive and Fairytale of New York is back... We discuss the fallout from Gavin and Stacey broadcasting the word F***** on Christmas Day. Sigh.Get tickets for our 2020 tour now, visit www.gaynongay.com/live/. See you in March.What do you think about Gavin and Stacey celebrating the F word? Join the conversation in our new Facebook listener group, an inclusive safe space for you to meet other listeners from across the world 👉www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 25, 2019 • 37min
Best of 2019
Catch up on the best of A Gay & A NonGay from 2019! We wish you all a happy holiday period and a fabulous New Year! See you in 2020.Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to be themselves and chat, visit www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ . Get tickets for our 2020 tour, https://www.gigsandtours.com/tour/a-gay-and-a-nongay/ . we can't wait to meet you.Happy Holigays xGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 18, 2019 • 17min
Santa Strikes Back
It's the most homophobic time of the year. James has censored 'Fairytale of New York' on his radio show but Dan notices a complication. Plus we welcome LGBTQ+ ally, Santa Claus, for an exclusive chat ahead of Christmas 🎅.Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to be themselves and chat, visit www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ . Get tickets for our 2020 tour, https://www.gigsandtours.com/tour/a-gay-and-a-nongay/ . we can't wait to meet you.Happy Holigays xGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 11, 2019 • 23min
No Bumming Please
The Bumming Tour is now called 'The Podcast Tour' in some places because we can't promote 'Bumming' on Facebook'. Dan met the Cock Destroyers and James is having trouble adjusting to having a boyfriend. Plus there's an important update on the protests against LGBTQ+ inclusive education at schools in Birmingham.Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to be themselves and chat. www.Facebook.com/groups/gaynongay.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 6, 2019 • 23min
LGBTQ+ inclusive education with Olly Pike
We chat LGBTQ+ inclusive education with amazing Children's Author/Illustrator and YouTuber, Olly Pike. This episode contains mild themes of bullying and suicide.Donate one of Olly's inclusive books to your school this Christmas, click here.Join us for our 2020 'Bumming Tour'! 'Bum' someone you love this Christmas by surprising a friend with tickets to one of our shows, tap here for more info :).Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 27, 2019 • 17min
#NotAllStraightMen
James has had enough of NonGay's after Dan moved in... for one night. Plus James has a new boyfriend but refuses to talk about it.We're so proud of our three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shopGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 22, 2019 • 54min
Live in Manchester: Stephen Bailey
Live from the Manchester Podcast Festival. Dan and James have had a falling out 👀. The boys are joined by our voiceover Fiona live, plus we chat to one of our favourite comedians Stephen Bailey. We're so proud of our three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shopThanks for listening xGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices