

A Gay and A NonGay
James Barr and Dan Hudson
In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.'Highly Recommended' Guardian'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOutAn independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongayGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed
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Apr 1, 2020 • 24min
Lowkey Worker
Has A Gay and a NonGay's life changed since the UK went on lockdown last week? Dan's a 'key' worker apparently but James has accidentally moved in with someone and things are maybe a little too intimate 😬 Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 25, 2020 • 35min
Dr. Ranj
It's time for some facts from an actual doctor. We're joined by Dr. Ranj to chat Covid-19 and it's effect on the gay community. Are hookups okay? What does it mean for people living with HIV and can we still get pizza delivered?Caught up on Coronavirus? Skip to 18.00 to hear about Dr Ranj's life growing up as a gay Asian man, his marriage to a nongay and how it felt to finally embrace his authentic, beautiful self.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 18, 2020 • 18min
Five Guys a Week
Live from the gay and nongay bedrooms, the boys discuss James’ 'new Channel 4 show', and the problems with not hooking up during the Covid-19 outbreak. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 11, 2020 • 38min
Live in Dublin with Colm O’Gormon & Rev. Chris Hudson
This episode contains a priest swearing, themes of child abuse and gay conversion therapy.To celebrate St.Patrick’s Day (yes we know it's next week!) we’re sharing highlights from our live show in Dublin. It’s one of our favourite shows to date featuring a breathtaking conversation about hope with the Executive Director of Amnesty International Ireland Colm O'Gorman, and a surprisingly candid chat about ‘gay conversion therapy’ with godsend Rev. Chris Hudson of the All Souls Church in Belfast. Plus we're playing 'Halo or Homo' - Is it a quote from the bible, or a homosexual?Trigger warning. After being raped by a priest at the age 14, Colm O’Gormon tells us how he sued the pope, forcing the pontiff to tell the truth of what the catholic church knew about the rape and abuse of children by its priests. ---We're on tour soon and we can't wait to see you, tell your friends, bring your own NonGay's! We can't wait to meet you all, get tickets now from www.gaynongay.com/live/. We're playing Brighton, London, Birmingham, Manchester & Glasgow from 22nd March, with special guests including Dr. Ranj, Sophie Anderson from The Cock Destroyers, Divina De Campo & more!Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 5, 2020 • 17min
Leather Jackets
Dan and James chat about recent police raids on Gay Village dark room sex in Manchester. Plus our podcast has a brand new sound thanks to queer pop music icon Bright Light Bright Light! Yay. Let us know what you think?We're on tour soon and we can't wait to see you, tell your friends, bring your own NonGay's! We can't wait to meet you all, get tickets now from www.gaynongay.com/live/. We're playing Brighton, London, Birmingham, Manchester & Glasgow from 22nd March, with special guests including Dr. Ranj, Sophie Anderson from The Cock Destroyers, Divina De Campo & more!Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 26, 2020 • 19min
Double Standards
What a dish! Is it ok for James to objectify people even though Dan can't? Plus we've got a very special adult tour announcement!Join us for The Podcast Tour! We've announced some of our special guests and we can't wait to see you all in person. Get tickets now, click here or visit www.gaynongay.com/live. .Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 19, 2020 • 30min
It’s Gonna Be Okay with MUNA
James and Dan catch up with the ‘greatest band in the world’ for a deep dive into queerness, safe spaces for LGBTQ+ people, self-deprecating lyrics and self-promotion. Plus with everything happening in the world today... Is it going to be ok?Join us for The Podcast Tour! We've announced some of our special guests and we can't wait to see you all in person. Get tickets now, click here or visit www.gaynongay.com/live. .Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 14, 2020 • 7min
The podcast tour is coming
Happy Galentines Day. We're so happy to announce some of the incredible LGBTQ+ guests joining us on The Podcast tour 🏳️🌈🎤🎧! We can't wait to meet you and your friends this March :). Get tickets at www.gaynongay.com/live. . Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 12, 2020 • 20min
Phillip Schofield
The boys discuss the reaction to Phillip Schofield coming out as gay on national television, and the impact of ‘straight-seeming relationships’. If you’re affected by the issues in this episode, visit https://straightpartnersanonymous.com/. . For advice on coming out, check out Ditch the label's top 11 tips https://www.ditchthelabel.org/top-11-tips-for-coming-out-as-lesbian-gay-or-bi/ . here.We’re coming to see you babes. Join us on our first ever UK tour.-22/03 Brighton-23/03 London-24/03 Birmingham-26/03 Manchester-27/03 GlasgowTap here for tickets, www.gaynongay.com/live. . We can’t wait to meet youGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 5, 2020 • 17min
Fleabagging
James is educating Dan about some 2020 dating trends, the library is back open and we're putting a load on.We’re coming to see you hunty. Join us on our first ever UK tour, check out our dates below and tap here for tickets http://gaynongay.com/live. . We can’t wait to meet you!22/03 Brighton,23/03 London,24/03 Birmingham,26/03 Manchester,27/03 Glasgow.Do the admin and respond to our new listener survey please, you'd be doing us a massive favour podcastviews.com. . Thank you.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices