
The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome
A life of faith was never meant to be safe and clean. It’s an unpredictable, aggressive ride that will push you to your limits—and it’s the only way to live. On The Aggressive Life, author, adventurer, and pastor, Brian Tome, shares his honest, gritty, and faith-filled life, one built on the foundation of making aggressive moves. He is joined by guests from all walks of life who are doing the same. In a world that thrives on conflict, the real enemy is passivity. It’s time to punch back.
Latest episodes

Jul 1, 2025 • 15min
The True Cost of Restoring a Jeep (and Following Jesus)… Plus Dirt Gives Away T-shirts—In the Garage with BT
When BT found his dream restoration vehicle, a 1978 Jeep CJ-7, he had no idea just how much time, effort, and money it would cost him. But with his eyes focused squarely on the end goal, he kept moving forward, even when it was uncomfortable and difficult. Recorded live in his garage, he explains how the physical reality of counting the costs of this project directly mirrors the spiritual principle of what it takes to follow Jesus.
For the month of July, we’re reliving Brian’s 3-year Jeep restoration project, as chronicled on his YouTube show Garage Bible Study. With over 30 episodes dedicated to restoring his 1978 Jeep CJ-7, BT draws a straight line from physical work to spiritual principles. Track along with the entire project on YouTube, here.

Jun 24, 2025 • 51min
Winning the Fight for Fatherhood—Live in Cincinnati
Fatherhood is a fight to the finish, but how do you know if you are winning? In this live talk, recorded at Crossroads Church in Cincinnati, Brian unpacks the three F’s that all great fathers do. They (a) follow a framework, (b) they stand tall as a figure worth emulating, and (c) they finish. Whether you are a biological dad or not, you can still be a father that has a profound impact on the world.
Watch the full episode on YouTube here.

Jun 17, 2025 • 35min
Finishing Builds Confidence with Petey—Gear Head, Chopper Pilot & BT’s Friend (Part 2)
Finishing doesn’t just complete projects, it changes you. In part two of a powerful conversation, Brian and Petey discuss finishing as a way of life. Petey shares how he overcame $1 million in debt, is healing from the sudden death of his wife, and how finishing is connected to confidence.
Watch the full episode on YouTube here.
If you missed part 1, find it here.

Jun 10, 2025 • 31min
How to Finish What You Start with Petey—Gear Head, Chopper Pilot & BT’s Friend (Part 1)
Lots of people start things… very few finish. Recorded live at the Barndo, where BT is restoring a WW2-era Dodge Power Wagon, he is joined by his friend, Peter Standhart. Petey is a gear head, a former Army helicopter pilot, and a man who won’t quit. In part one of this two-part conversation, the pair talk cars, choppers, and why finishing what you start has the power to change your life.
Watch the full episode on YouTube here.

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Jun 3, 2025 • 1h 7min
Is AI Pushing Us Toward God? with Bobby Gruenewald—CEO, YouVersion Bible App
Bobby Gruenewald, CEO of the YouVersion Bible App and recognized innovator, shares his vision of technology’s potential to enhance spirituality. He reveals the inspiring origin story of YouVersion, highlighting its journey from failure to nearly 1 billion installs. Gruenewald discusses how AI may be drawing people closer to God, amid growing spiritual engagement among younger generations. His insights on embracing risk and leadership help listeners rethink complacency while emphasizing the importance of sharing resources freely for greater accessibility.

May 27, 2025 • 1h 2min
Decoding Revelation, Avoiding Burnout, and More: Fishbowl Questions with Matt Chandler—Pastor
BT and Matt Chandler sit down for an hour of questions pulled at random from a fishbowl. Covering topics as wide-ranging as food and fatigue, to family rhythms and the mystery behind the biblical book of Revelation, it’s an unpredictable ride filled with aggressive gold.
Watch the full podcast episode on YouTube, here.

May 20, 2025 • 26min
How Can I Get The Most Out of Summer? — One Question with BT
Memorial Day, the un-official kickoff to summer, is just days away. For many people, summer means a different pace of life. But a summer slowdown doesn't mean you stop taking ground—in fact, it might be exactly what you need to take your life to the next level in the fall. In this One Question deep-dive, Brian shares his plans for the summer, why rest is integral to a life that works, and a hack to discover what type of rest will revitalize you the most.
Watch the full podcast episode on YouTube, here.

May 13, 2025 • 1h 2min
My Wife Cheated With the Neighbor; We're Still Married with Harrison Scott Key—Humor Writer
Harrison Scott Key thought his life was moving in the right direction. An award-winning humor writer, with two successful books under his belt, he was working on his third when everything hit the fan. His wife, the mother of his three girls, and a woman who spent nearly every Sunday of her life in church, was asking for a divorce. Why? She was in love with someone else. Who? The next door neighbor. Initially preparing for the messy aftermath that would inevitably follow, Harrison was confronted with a different option when a friend asked, “Aren’t you going to fight for your wife?” What happens next is a story you have to hear to believe. Harrison is making aggressive moves that will push your own relationships forward.
Watch the full podcast on YouTube here.

May 6, 2025 • 1h 1min
Choosing the Harder Path Changed Everything with Austin Knight—Arctic Paratrooper
Austin Knight thought he had life by the horns, until he was fired, and dumped by his girlfriend, on the same day. Facing the task of starting over, he had two routes to choose from—the ease and stability of a corporate job, or joining the U.S. military as a paratrooper. He chose the harder route, and wouldn’t change it for the world. A part of the Arctic Angels, the United States’ only Arctic Paratrooper unit, Austin shares his aggressive story from Joint Base Elmendorf-Richardson in Anchorage, Alaska.
Watch the full podcast on YouTube here.

Apr 29, 2025 • 24min
3 Ways to Elevate Your Marriage—Live from Couples Camp
Dive into the world of marriage with insights from a lively Couples Camp. Discover how a strong work ethic can transform relationships, inspired by the story of Isaac and Rebecca. Learn about three essential pillars for a flourishing marriage: the desire to serve, going the extra mile, and keeping the energy alive. Hear personal anecdotes that illustrate the evolution of love and the importance of renewing vows for lasting commitment. This is all about strengthening your bond while having fun!