
The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome
A life of faith was never meant to be safe and clean. It’s an unpredictable, aggressive ride that will push you to your limits—and it’s the only way to live. On The Aggressive Life, author, adventurer, and pastor, Brian Tome, shares his honest, gritty, and faith-filled life, one built on the foundation of making aggressive moves. He is joined by guests from all walks of life who are doing the same. In a world that thrives on conflict, the real enemy is passivity. It’s time to punch back.
Latest episodes

Mar 11, 2025 • 1h 9min
Risk is Key to Growth in Friendships, Marriage, and Business with Ron Razete—Founder, Peace, Love and Little Donuts
When Ron Razete launched Peace, Love and Little Donuts, it was an incredible risk. After multiple failures in the entrepreneurial space, Ron and his wife, Marci, had their backs against the wall. With nowhere else to turn, she sold her car to finance the venture, and the couple opened their first brick and mortar store in Pittsburg. 15 years later, that risk has more than paid off, expanding to 30 locations in 11 different states. In this aggressive conversation with a long-time friend, Ron shares the unlikely history of Peace, Love and Little Donuts and the lessons learned along the way—take the risk, listen to your wife, and have fun.
Watch the full podcast on YouTube here.

Mar 4, 2025 • 1h 9min
How to Put Your Phone Down and Live More with Darren Whitehead—The Digital Fast
Darren Whitehead, a pastor and author of "The Digital Fast," shares compelling insights on the urgent need for a digital detox in our tech-dominated lives. He emphasizes the staggering hours spent on screens and the detrimental effects on personal relationships and mental health, especially in parenting. Through personal stories and practical tips, Darren advocates for disconnection from technology to foster meaningful connections and genuine life experiences, encouraging listeners to embrace a life beyond the screen.

Feb 25, 2025 • 19min
How to Be a Better Husband—One Question with BT
The phrase “how to be a better husband” is Googled nearly 2x as much as “how to be a better wife.” Why is that? And how do you know if you’ve found a good answer? With nearly 40 years of experience, BT gives his perspective on that question. To be a better husband, he believes it involves seeing your marriage as a team, spending your energy toward it, having a plan, and making space for fun together.
Claim your spot at Couples Camp here.
Watch the full podcast on YouTube here.

Feb 18, 2025 • 1h 15min
Growing Prophetic Spiritual Muscles with Paul Maconochie—Leader, Teacher, Pastor
Does prophecy still happen today? Paul Maconochie thinks so, and that God is speaking to anyone willing to listen. Alongside BT, Paul unpacks the ways he hears from God, the risk it takes to share with others, and how we can learn to do the same. This aggressive conversation will push you out of your comfort zone and into a better place—because the more you risk, the more you grow.
Watch the full podcast on YouTube here.

Feb 11, 2025 • 48min
Pushing Yourself to the Limit (and Beyond) with Dan Rebella—Runner, The Great World Race
Running has been in Dan Rebella’s blood for years, so when the ultimate challenge presented itself, he didn’t blink. In late 2024, Dan signed up for the inaugural running of The Great World Race—7 full marathons, on all 7 continents, in only 7 days. From the first race, in Antarctica, to the final in Miami Beach, Dan pushed himself to the utter limit, and came out the other side stronger. No matter if you like running or not, the lesson’s Dan picked up along the way about perseverance, faithfulness, and choosing the harder path have the power to push your life forward.
Watch the full length episode on YouTube, here.

Feb 4, 2025 • 1h 2min
Hack Your Habits For A Better Life with Michael Easter—Researcher, Author, Rucker
Join Michael Easter, a best-selling author known for his works 'The Comfort Crisis' and 'Scarcity Brain,' as he challenges the perils of consumerism and the need for discomfort in our lives. Easter discusses how modern comfort impacts our health and behaviors, urging listeners to embrace discomfort for personal growth. He explores the psychological effects of abundance and the vital role of community. Plus, hear about fascinating adventures, and how making conscious choices can lead to a richer, more fulfilling life!

Jan 28, 2025 • 58min
5 Keys to Improving Your Finances with John Hope Bryant—Financial Literacy Expert & Coach
John Hope Bryant is a successful entrepreneur, author, and financial guru who believes financial literacy—understanding how to make, save, and spend money—is the civil rights issue of our era. And he’s doing something about it. He’s written best-sellers, advised presidents, and helped influence policymakers. But his most enduring work is as the CEO of Operation Hope, where John is helping teach financial literacy to all, giving everyday people the tools they need to make wise financial decisions. In a conversation that touches on everything from politics, to history, to tools for making more (and better use of your) money, John Hope Bryant is a deep well that will get your rear in gear.

Jan 21, 2025 • 34min
Sports Betting, A Trip to the End of the World, and Raising Kids That Like You—Big News and a Mini Q&A with BT
Dive into enlightening discussions about sports betting and its troubling impact on mental health. Discover the excitement of a motorcycle trip to Prudhoe Bay while highlighting the importance of mentorship. Engage with insights on parenting, focusing on building strong connections through shared experiences. Explore the nuances of navigating faith and marriage, especially during spiritual differences. Lastly, enjoy a touching tale of a child's encounter with the divine, encapsulated by the whimsical symbol of a unicorn chair.

Jan 14, 2025 • 54min
Mental Health and Perseverance on the Appalachian Trail with Tara Dower - Speed Record Holder for the A.T.
The first time Tara Dower got on the Appalachian Trail, she only lasted a handful of days before anxiety and mental health forced her to abandon her goal of through-hiking the 2,000 mile footpath. But she didn’t give up. In 2024, Tara got back on the A.T. with the goal of claiming the FKT—fastest known time. When she reached the finish line in only 40 days, she became the fastest human ever to cover every mile of the A.T. This down-to-earth and hard working woman will push you to keep making forward progress on your aggressive life, and to keep getting up when you fall down.

Jan 7, 2025 • 21min
How to Hear from God — One Question with BT
If you’re going to have a spiritually potent life, you have to learn how to hear from God. In this 1 Question deep-dive, BT shares his method for hearing from God: a daily repetition of scripture, prayer, and making space to listen. It takes persistence and perseverance, but when you learn how to hear from God for yourself, your aggressive life will hit new strides.
- Create your own custom Bible reading plan at bibleplan.org.
- Read scripture along with Brian on the free spiritual fitness app, Crossroads Anywhere.
- For an easy introduction to spending time with God, try Brian’s new 60-day devotional for men.