LaidOPEN Podcast

Join us on LaidOPEN Podcast as we dive into the world of transformational theatre and healing practices with my sometimes co-host Amy MacClain and her creative partner Molly Kittle. Discover the magic of the collaborative work that’s resulted in their highly anticipated mid-life musical “After The Rainbow,” which will be debuting at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival this summer. Together Molly and Amy discuss their transformational musical about overcoming trauma and finding purpose while detailing their unique backgrounds in experimental theater, social-emotional learning, and music.  Molly and Amy share their journey of finding each other, emphasizing the importance of transformation, play, and collective healing in the work they’ve done, both separately and together, to create their musical.  They also talk about their upcoming participation in the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, which you can see them at if you live in the UK and includes a performance of the single from “After The Rainbow,”, 'You Are the Light,' highlighting the themes of mutual support and self-recognition. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on trauma, transformation, and the healing power of art. 00:00 Introduction and Course Announcement 01:00 Introducing Today's Guests: Amy MacLain and Molly Kittle 02:18 Amy and Molly's Journey and Collaboration 03:21 Molly's Background and Path to Transformation 04:58 Amy and Molly's Creative Process 06:56 The Birth of 'After the Rainbow' 07:30 Themes of Transformation and Healing 10:38 The Role of Music in Healing 13:44 Preparing for the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 16:12 The Power of Play and Collaboration 21:30 Performing and Sharing the Message 32:37 Concluding Thoughts and Farewell

Please welcome, Mathew Boudreaux, also known as Mx Domestic to his millions of crafting fans from around the globe. During the pandemic, Mathew’s crafting projects left them with a wide following. However, the interaction they were sometimes having speaking their truth led to conflict on their social media channels. Mathew muses on this while also sharing their transformative healing journey, detailing the emotional and psychological challenges they faced, including childhood PTSD, ADHD, and CPTSD.  They also discuss navigating corporate America while being authentic and the difficulties encountered due to their identity and social stance. Mathew opens up about the impact of trauma, uncovering neurodivergence, and the steps they took to heal. They share personal stories related to family struggles, social issues, and the power of vulnerability.  The conversation also delves into coping strategies for mental health, managing triggers, and the role of art and crafting in their healing journey. The episode emphasizes the significance of self-love, setting boundaries, and creating community connections through shared experiences. Charna and Mathew wrap up by highlighting practical techniques for emotional regulation and the profound impact of parenting with a healed perspective. The episode offers a deep dive into the intersection of mental health, identity, and creativity. 00:00 Introduction to Pathways to Peace Course 01:11 Meet the Guest: Matthew Boudreaux 02:46 Matthew's Healing Journey 04:55 Navigating Corporate America with Authenticity 09:15 The Impact of Trauma and Healing 13:11 Discovering Neurodivergence 16:05 Family Struggles and Personal Growth 31:48 Standing Up for Social Issues 34:23 Navigating Personal Challenges 35:28 Sharing Personal Stories for Impact 35:53 Mental Health Strategies 36:33 Understanding and Managing Triggers 42:22 Sexual Identity and Trauma 46:51 Parenting and Healing 48:35 Practical Techniques for Regulation 01:02:08 The Power of Crafting 01:03:24 Conclusion and Resources

In this episode of the Laid Open Podcast we welcome Dr. Susan Campbell PhD, an esteemed psychologist and relationship coach who delves deep into the essence of understanding and managing what triggers us in intimate relationships. Dr. Susan provides practical steps for self-awareness, emotional regulation, and effective communication to foster healthier relationships. Plus, she emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, safety, and understanding attachment styles. Together, Charna and Dr. Susan discuss the profound impact of individual healing on a collective scale. The episode wraps up with Dr. Susan guiding an exercise on recognizing one’s Trigger Signature and touches on approaches for relational freedom and repair. 00:00 Introduction and Course Announcement 01:18 Introducing Susan Campbell 02:26 Exploring Emotional Triggers and Healing 19:42 Understanding Attachment Styles 26:44 Practicing Self-Regulation and Pausing 37:05 Understanding Attachment Dynamics 37:20 Learning Through Experience 39:27 The Importance of Repair in Relationships 40:22 Compassionate Self-Inquiry 40:44 Addressing Core Fears and Triggers 42:17 Effective Communication and Repair Scripts 48:17 The Role of Radical Honesty 48:59 Creating Safety and Self-Awareness 50:07 Managing Triggers and Repair Timing 53:50 Unilateral Repair and Seeking Reassurance 58:45 When to Seek Third-Party Help 01:00:14 Workshops, Webinars, and Continued Learning 01:02:03 Relational Freedom and Trigger Signature Exercise 01:13:54 Conclusion and Resources  

In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, host Charna Cassell welcomes guest Mark Walsh an embodiment coach and host of The Embodiment Podcast, to discuss their shared history and Mark's extensive work in the field of embodiment and trauma education. He's also the author of Embodiment, Working with the Body in Training and Coaching, and Embodied Meditation. He led The Embodiment Conference (1000 teachers, 500,000 delegates) and has trained over 2000 embodiment coaches in over 40 countries. Mark, situated near Stonehenge in England, shares insights from his extensive travels and training, including his work with trauma-affected communities in Ukraine. The conversation spans various topics, such as the global rise of social isolation, the impact of technology on mental health, the essential role of humor in trauma work, and the importance of cultural context in embodiment practices.  Mark also shares his personal journey with embodiment, driven by his hyper-intellectual background and a traumatic childhood. The episode concludes with a practical centering exercise and reflections on embodied freedom, emphasizing the importance of awareness and choice in overcoming habitual behaviors.   00:00 Introduction and Reunion 02:10 Mark's Current Endeavors and Thoughts on Society 03:23 Impact of COVID and Technology on Mental Health 08:46 Mark's Work in Ukraine 21:37 The Role of Humor in Trauma Training 26:31 Navigating Cultural Sensitivities 29:08 Managing Vicarious Trauma 31:40 Personal Practices for Well-being 33:43 The Power of Social Media 35:16 Connecting with Mentors 45:30 Embodied Freedom and Choice 47:15 Conclusion and Resources  

In the season 4 finale of LaidOPEN Podcast, Charna welcomes Dr. Keesha Ewers, an expert in integrative medicine, functional sexology, and a survivor of autoimmunity induced by trauma. And shares her personal journey from starting as a conventional nurse to exploring alternative healing modalities like Ayurveda, hypnotherapy, and EMDR after being diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis.  She illuminates the profound connection between unresolved trauma and physical health, including autoimmune disorders and sexual vitality. The discussion delves deep into the science of adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), highlighting the impact of trauma on long-term health and well-being.  Dr. Keesha also discusses the concept of 'libido' as life force vitality and emphasizes the importance of healing and digesting trauma for reclaiming one's full vitality and sexual freedom. The episode encourages personal reflection and offers insights on how to embark on a healing journey with an exercise from Dr. Keesha that teaches how to embrace your inner 'eagle' and live a more embodied and liberated life. Show Notes 00:00 Welcome to LaidOPEN Podcast with Dr. Keesha Ewers 01:06 Embarking on a Journey of Healing and Transformation 01:23 Dr. Keesha's Personal Battle with Autoimmune Disease 04:55 Discovering the Power of Ayurveda and Yoga 07:34 The Profound Connection Between Trauma and Health 13:57 Exploring the ACE Study and Its Implications 21:56 Navigating Trauma and Its Impact on Health 25:34 Personal Stories of Overcoming and Healing 27:21 The Importance of Self-Care and Boundary Setting 32:39 Embracing Vulnerability and Overcoming Shame 34:12 The Power of Plant Medicine in Healing 35:01 Navigating Life's Developmental Milestones and Achieving Unity Consciousness 35:43 Understanding the Human Condition: From Victim to Perpetrator 36:42 The Journey to Self-Compassion and Liberation 42:26 Exploring Sexual Liberation and Vitality 52:17 The Importance of Play and Embracing Different Perspectives 59:40 Concluding Thoughts on Community, Healing, and Empowerment

In this latest episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, Charna Cassell speaks with Mariah Freya, a sex coach and founder of Beducated, an online platform for sex education that offers a vast library of resources for pleasure-focused sex education.  Mariah delves into the innovative role of AI technology in revolutionizing sex education, making it more accessible and tailored to individual needs. Highlighting how Beducated’s AI sex coach aids users in navigating their expansive library and provides personalized sex education resources. She also shares the challenges and experiments involved in developing their AI-powered tool.  She also speaks on the challenges of balancing parenthood with entrepreneurship to the transformative power of embracing one's sexuality, this conversation explores the intersections of personal growth, intimacy, and empowerment.  We end this episode with Mariah sharing a mindful shower practice. Join us as we delve into the importance of self-discovery, boundary-setting, and cultivating a sex-positive mindset at any stage of life. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Presentation 01:48 Exploring Sexuality and Motherhood 06:25 The Impact of Parenthood on Business 12:55 The Journey of Sexual Empowerment 31:04 The Role of AI in Sex Education 40:09 The Vision for BBeducated 50:20 Closing Thoughts and Farewell

This week, Charna interviews Brett Chamberlin, the founder and executive director of OPEN, the Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Nonmonogamy. Brett opens by sharing his journey of transitioning from environmental activism to the advocacy for more awareness and legal rights for non-monogamists. This includes anyone who subscribes to relationship designs outside the norm of one man and one woman, including single people. He also discusses the cultural implications of nonmonogamy, the impact of societal norms, the progressing nonmonogamy movement, and the importance of community, consent, and cooperative living in practicing non-monogamy. When it comes to having a successful non-monogamous relationship, Brett emphasizes the relevance of developing effective communication skills, having a clear understanding of personal desires, and the establishment of healthier relationships. He calls for the questioning and challenging of the supremacy of monogamous relationships in society and how dismantling this norm will lead to a more inclusive, loving society. Charna ends the episode by sharing resources for people looking to explore the world of non-monogamy, as well as, an exercise designed to help you focus in on the characteristics and nuances you’re looking for in a partner when choosing a potential mate.  Show Notes 00:04 Introduction of Brett Chamberlin and OPEN 01:09 Brett Chamberlin's Journey to Polyamory Advocacy 03:31 The Birth of OPEN: Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Nonmonogamy 04:09 The Challenges and Privileges of Advocacy 05:38 OPEN's Theory of Change and Advocacy Strategies 11:07 The Reality of Nonmonogamy in America 13:23 The Importance of Visibility and Acceptance 17:22 The Legal Challenges Faced by Nonmonogamous People 28:31 The Role of Polyamory in Broader Human Liberation 35:42 The Liberatory Potential of Non-Monogamy 35:51 The Social and Environmental Impact of Extractive Systems 36:31 The Rise of Social Issues and the Role of Non-Monogamy 38:08 The History and Evolution of Monogamy 38:58 The Impact of Industrial Revolution on Relationship Structures 40:55 The Importance of Relationship Education 50:07 The Role of Media in Normalizing Non-Monogamy 54:43 The Impact of Pandemic on Non-Monogamous Relationships 59:41 The Importance of Self-Acceptance and Authenticity in Relationships 01:00:58 Understanding and Navigating the Complexities of Relationships 01:03:57 Conclusion: The Power of Open Conversations and Community

Get ready for Valentine's Day with Celeste Moore, a personal image and dating consultant in the latest pre-Valentine's Day episode of LaidOpen Podcast. In this episode, Celeste offers invaluable guidance for those navigating new beginnings, particularly men who are navigating the complexities of dating post-long-term relationships or marriages. She also explores the importance of communication and authenticity in relationships, strategies for building confidence, and the art of crafting effective digital dating profiles.  Discover how Celeste's experience as a sole parent informs her approach and the invaluable insights she offers for single parents dipping their toes back into the dating pool. From debunking common profile pitfalls to unveiling the top lies men tell online, this episode is packed with wisdom and inspiration for anyone seeking love in the modern world. Charna wraps up the episode with a powerful visualization exercise, enhancing focus and attention skills for a more mindful dating experience by pulling one's energies back from the past or future and directing them towards the present moment. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 00:54 Introducing the Guest: Celeste Moore 02:07 Celeste's Journey to Becoming a Dating Coach 04:05 The Challenges of Working with Men and Women 05:13 The Evolution of Celeste's Career 07:08 The Ideal Client for Celeste 08:59 The Challenges of Dating and Image Consulting 09:38 The Importance of Image in Dating 10:30 The Different Types of Clients Celeste Works With 13:44 The Importance of Adventure in Dating 18:35 The Role of Mock Dates in Celeste's Coaching 24:25 The Challenges of Being a Sole Parent 32:51 Parenting and Dating: A Delicate Balance 34:59 The Importance of Timing in Relationships 35:57 Transferable Skills: From Parenting to Dating 37:23 The Power of Collaboration in Personal Growth 38:21 Breaking Communication Barriers 42:21 Building Confidence and Desirability in Dating 53:45 The Art of Online Dating: Profile Dos and Don'ts 59:09 The Journey to Self-Love and Acceptance  

In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast Charna is joined by holistic sex educator and Yoni Mapping therapist, Freya Graf to discuss Freya's approach to dismantling shame and taboos around sexuality. She also explains the practice of Yoni Mapping Therapy, a method she uses to help people with vulvas and vaginas understand their bodies, relationships, and the impacts of trauma.  Additionally, Freya opens up about her personal journey with sexuality, offering a unique perspective on holistic sexual practices. The discussion delves into the realm of sex education, focusing on reconnecting individuals with their bodies, enhancing pleasure, and challenging societal narratives surrounding sex. The conversation culminates with Graf explaining her exercise, The Seven Gates of Female Arousal, and sharing about her online course 'Queen Out', a guide to Yoni self-massage, de-armoring, multiple orgasms, and the release of trauma and tension. 00:38 Guest Introduction: Freya Graff 02:40 Understanding Yoni Mapping 03:44 The Process of Yoni Mapping Therapy 04:40 The Impact of Yoni Mapping on the Nervous System 08:42 The Importance of Sex Education and Body Reconnection 19:58 The Role of Neurofeedback in Healing 25:21 Personal Journey Towards Sexual Healing 31:32 Acknowledging the Courage to Change 32:24 Healing Ancestral Trauma 34:14 Breaking the Cycle: A Personal Journey 35:33 Family Reactions to Unconventional Career Choices 43:50 Finding a Calling in Yoni Mapping 49:14 The Seven Gates of Female Arousal 55:48 Freya's Online Course "Queen Out" use code LAIDOPENPODCAST to get $100 off. 58:28 Conclusion: The Journey Continues  

Join us this week on LaidOPEN Podcast, for an insightful conversation with certified Human Design expert, Evelyn Levenson.  In this episode, Evelyn shares her journey of discovering Human Design and its profound impact on her life. She recounts how understanding herself as a Projector within Human Design redirected her path from a successful yet unfulfilling business career to a deeper exploration of Human Design's transformative possibilities. She also sheds light on how uncovering her Human Design type propelled her towards a fulfilling pursuit of assisting others in navigating their unique paths. Throughout the episode, Evelyn and Charna eloquently break down the fundamental principles of Human Design, using it to illuminate how this system serves as a valuable tool for self-discovery, providing a roadmap for individuals to optimize their choices and live fulfilled, authentic lives.