Selective Ignorance with Mandii B

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B sits down with culture critic Barry Neal for a dynamic, unfiltered conversation that dives deep into the intersections of culture, controversy, and community. The episode opens with an introduction and guest welcome [00:00], setting the tone for a thought-provoking discussion that blends humor, honesty, and critical insight into the realities of modern media and identity. The conversation kicks off with a cultural commentary on the Joe Budden podcast incident involving Marc Lamont Hill [01:28], where Mandii and Barry unpack the viral controversy and what it reveals about accountability, ego, and the performative nature of online discourse. They examine how the situation underscores deeper tensions within the Black podcasting space, where authenticity often collides with influence and public perception. From there, the dialogue explores the role of conflict in podcasting [15:07], dissecting how debates, disagreements, and drama drive engagement but can also distort meaningful dialogue. Mandii and Barry reflect on the fine line between using controversy as content and maintaining integrity as creators in a rapidly evolving digital landscape. The episode transitions into a sharp examination of classism and intellectualism within Black culture [20:22], as the hosts question who gets to represent the community in public spaces. They discuss the tension between academic voices and street perspectives, emphasizing the need for both authenticity and nuance in shaping cultural narratives. This leads naturally into a broader discussion on the complexity of Black identity and representation [38:56], where Mandii and Barry reflect on the pressures of visibility, code-switching, and how mainstream success can sometimes come at the cost of cultural authenticity. As the conversation shifts gears, they spotlight the rise of Kevin McCall [41:18], exploring his talent, public struggles, and complicated journey in the music industry. This segues into a detailed breakdown of Chris Brown’s enduring impact and performance legacy [50:34], as the hosts analyze how fame, redemption, and public opinion intertwine in the lives of artists who’ve faced both acclaim and controversy. In one of the most introspective portions of the episode, Mandii and Barry address burnt bridges and unforgivable actions [01:01:52], discussing how personal accountability and growth play out in both public and private life. The conversation deepens as they explore navigating relationships and choices [01:12:10], tackling sensitive topics like forgiveness, boundaries, and the emotional toll of living under constant scrutiny. The episode concludes with closing thoughts and a look ahead to future conversations [01:18:09], where Mandii and Barry encourage listeners to embrace nuance, challenge assumptions, and remain open to growth — even when faced with uncomfortable truths. This installment of Selective Ignorance masterfully balances cultural critique with personal reflection, offering listeners a space to think critically about identity, fame, and integrity in today’s hyper-connected world. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media Barry Neal Instagram @micdroppers Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and special guest Glasses Malone for a bold, thought-provoking, and humor-filled exploration of culture, community, and connection. The conversation kicks off with a spirited discussion about the Powerball lottery and the fantasies it fuels [01:24], as the crew reflects on how sudden wealth can amplify values—or expose insecurities. From there, they shift into a sharp critique of community ownership and responsibility [02:47], questioning what true “buy back the block” movements look like in practice and who actually benefits when outsiders invest in Black neighborhoods. The dialogue takes a playful yet insightful turn with a dive into celebrity gossip and gender dynamics [03:41], using pop culture as a lens to unpack deeper truths about fame, loyalty, and the human desire for validation. Glasses Maloneoffers a compelling perspective on the identity of hip hop and cultural authenticity [05:38], reminding listeners that the genre’s foundation lies in truth-telling and community representation, not algorithms or vanity metrics. As the episode progresses, the hosts unpack the nature of relationships and accountability [12:41], questioning how much transparency partners owe each other and how past experiences shape current dynamics. This seamlessly leads into navigating fame and public perception [20:06], with reflections on how visibility alters personal relationships—particularly in the age of social media. The group then circles back to a fan-favorite question: “What would you do if you actually won the lottery?” [23:39], sparking an honest debate about money’s impact on morality and motivation. A recurring theme of giving back and community impact emerges [29:53], as Mandii and her guests emphasize the importance of reciprocity and responsible leadership. That message is echoed in their dissection of the Turkey Leg Hut controversy [34:19], a heated conversation about respectability politics, community standards, and the tension between cultural pride and public image. The tone shifts as the panel examines men’s insecurities around women’s pasts [41:20], tying it to the broader complexity of romantic relationships [50:00] and the unrealistic expectations often placed on women in love and life. The discussion deepens further with Kanye West’s ongoing struggle with fame and mental health [53:22], exploring how the pressures of celebrity amplify emotional vulnerabilities and distort public empathy. This leads naturally into a sharp analysis of power dynamics in relationships [59:27], where the hosts explore how ego, gender norms, and social conditioning influence control and communication. From there, they open the floor to conversations around sexual education and representation [01:04:50], acknowledging how misinformation and stigma still shape public discourse—particularly in communities of color. In a standout moment, they reflect on Snoop Dogg’s evolving views on LGBTQ+ representation [01:15:21], celebrating growth while confronting the cultural hurdles that make such progress difficult. The episode concludes with a nuanced discussion on tourism in underprivileged communities [01:23:18], questioning the ethics of cultural consumption versus contribution, and challenging listeners to think critically about how they engage with spaces that aren’t their own. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Glasses Malone @glassesloc Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B takes listeners on an introspective and thought-provoking journey through the concept of selective ignorance—the conscious choice to disengage from certain realities for the sake of peace, perspective, or personal growth. The episode opens with an introduction to the philosophy behind selective ignorance [00:00], as Mandii breaks down how people often tune out overwhelming information or societal pressures to protect their mental well-being. She shares personal anecdotes that highlight when ignoring the noise can be both a strength and a survival skill in today’s overstimulated world. The conversation then transitions to parenting and the challenges of managing children in public spaces [02:24], where Mandii explores the delicate balance between judgment and empathy. Through humor and honesty, she discusses how parents navigate public expectations, social media critiques, and their own inner battles when children act out. This segment offers both relatable and raw insight into the societal double standards placed on mothers, especially when it comes to discipline and public behavior. From there, Mandii examines the role of accents and speech in professional settings [12:36], addressing how language and tone often shape people’s perceptions of intelligence, competence, and credibility. She raises powerful questions about authenticity versus assimilation, sharing personal experiences and listener observations that reveal the hidden biases professionals face. This section challenges listeners to consider how often they “code-switch” to fit into spaces that don’t always make room for their full identities. As the episode deepens, Mandii shifts into one of her most candid and emotional conversations yet—a discussion on the complexities of abortion decisions [22:03]. With compassion and sensitivity, she explores the emotional, moral, and societal layers surrounding reproductive choices, including the stigma and isolation many face in silence. She unpacks the conflicting narratives around bodily autonomy, judgment, and faith, urging listeners to approach these discussions with empathy rather than condemnation. Closing the episode, Mandii reflects on the importance of staying engaged yet intentional about what we choose to absorb [36:20]. She encourages her audience to practice mindful awareness—choosing understanding over outrage, empathy over ignorance, and dialogue over division. This intimate and reflective installment of Selective Ignorance captures Mandii B at her most vulnerable and insightful, blending storytelling, social commentary, and emotional depth to remind listeners that sometimes, knowing when to tune out is just as powerful as speaking up.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by special guest Ace Metaphor, creator of Tonight’s Conversation, for an insightful and provocative discussion on the complexities of modern dating, self-worth, and the evolving expectations of love in the digital age. The conversation opens with a reflection on relationship standards and the various types of partnerships people seek in 2025 [00:00], setting the stage for a deep dive into how social media and influencer culture shape public views on dating [00:54]. As the discussion unfolds, Ace Metaphor and Mandii explore the role of content creators in driving relationship conversations online [02:21], acknowledging both the empowerment and confusion that come from an oversaturated advice culture. They break down how viral relationship clips and podcasts have redefined gender roles, emotional intelligence, and expectations in dating [06:42], highlighting the tension between authenticity and performance in today’s social climate. Transitioning into practical insights, the duo share honest dating advice for women navigating the modern landscape [12:18], emphasizing the importance of recognizing genuine interest, protecting emotional boundaries, and maintaining self-respect in situationships and long-term relationships alike. Their candid conversation serves as a reality check against performative dating trends, encouraging listeners to prioritize compatibility over validation[19:44]. The dialogue then turns to pop culture as they analyze Summer Walker’s recent dating decisions and how celebrity relationships mirror broader societal issues [25:47]. They question whether fame distorts the idea of love and explore the pressures that come with being in a public relationship, where every action is scrutinized through social media’s lens [30:28]. The episode deepens when Mandii and Ace dissect Aisha Curry’s comments about feeling overlooked in her marriage to Steph Curry, unpacking the weight of societal expectations placed on women to be fulfilled, desired, and self-assured all at once [34:15]. They candidly discuss how even successful women can experience insecurity and longing for validation [35:27], framing it as part of the broader human experience of vulnerability and growth[39:47]. From there, the conversation expands into the emotional process of healing after relationships [43:10], emphasizing that each breakup represents a chapter of self-discovery and evolution rather than a failure. Mandii and Ace reflect on how personal growth often requires confronting one’s own patterns and redefining identity outside of romantic attachments [50:00]. As the episode nears its conclusion, they discuss the role of public perception in shaping personal identity, especially for public figures whose love lives become fodder for entertainment [57:04]. They challenge listeners to embrace new beginnings without comparison, reminding them that every season of love—whether painful or joyful—contributes to building emotional resilience and clarity. Blending humor, vulnerability, and social critique, this conversation between Mandii B and Ace Metaphor offers a refreshingly grounded perspective on love, self-worth, and growth in the era of digital relationships, making it an essential listen for anyone seeking to navigate modern dating with emotional intelligence and authenticity.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B invites her patrons for a lively and unfiltered Assembly of Classmates — an open discussion that blends current events, humor, and raw honesty. The conversation kicks off with introductions and setting the tone for the group’s engaging dialogue [00:00], before diving headfirst into the New Orleans jailbreak and the chaos that followed [02:50]. The group examines how crime, justice, and media narratives often collide, sparking debate over public perception versus personal accountability. From there, the conversation pivots to the highly publicized Diddy sentencing, with Mandii and her patrons questioning whether the punishment fits the crime [06:10]. Through sharp commentary and witty exchanges, they unpack what justice looks like in a celebrity-driven culture, and how public opinion often influences legal outcomes. Things take a provocative turn as the group addresses Cam Newton’s controversial request for a list of his partner’s past sexual partners [14:31]. This sparks an intense, funny, and revealing conversation about trust, transparency, and insecurity in modern relationships. The discussion deepens as they debate relationship standards and emotional baggage [34:58], moving into how people navigate secrets, pasts, and expectations with new partners [40:18]. As the dialogue unfolds, Mandii and the patrons examine the complexity of sexual history and double standards in dating [44:55], questioning whether full disclosure builds intimacy or fuels insecurity. The debate evolves into a broader reflection on judgment, dating preferences, and the pressure to uphold certain moral standards in modern society[50:05–55:47]. The episode then shifts into a heartfelt yet hilarious exploration of family dynamics and financial responsibility[01:00:08], where the group calls out the hypocrisy in parenting, relationships, and “doing it all” culture. Finally, they close with a thoughtful look at intentionality in relationships and parenthood [01:04:29], emphasizing that personal growth and honest communication are at the heart of healthy connections. With a mix of real talk, laughter, and perspective, this Selective Ignorance bonus episode captures the essence of Mandii B’s community — candid conversations that challenge norms, encourage vulnerability, and remind listeners that learning through dialogue is the ultimate act of growth. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez unpack the powerful intersections between social media, mental health, and self-perception, exploring how digital culture shapes modern identity and relationships. The conversation opens with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], before delving into the “monster in our pockets” — the pervasive influence of social media on mental health and self-worth [00:51]. They reflect on their experiences at the Sheen Magazine Awards, discussing the pressure to remain professional while navigating the blurred lines between celebrity culture and authenticity [04:59]. The team examines the evolving role of journalists and content creators in an age driven by viral narratives and online engagement [09:44], while also addressing how generational perspectives on work and mental health have shifted over time [20:03]. From there, the conversation turns to knowing your worth in the job market and how financial security can impact self-esteem and boundaries [29:31], leading into a broader discussion about relationships, self-value, and social media’s effect on connection and trust [30:30–31:29]. The hosts emphasize the importance of therapy and emotional growth, particularly for those battling internalized expectations and societal pressures [37:11]. As the dialogue deepens, they challenge traditional notions of masculinity and the stigmas surrounding men’s mental health [48:48], before highlighting the value of long-term vision over quick success in both personal and professional life [58:18]. The latter part of the episode takes a reflective turn as Mandii and her team discuss the hypocrisy surrounding money, morality, and integrity in entertainment [59:46], sparking debate about accepting funding from controversial sources— specifically in light of the Saudi Arabia Comedy Festival controversy [01:05:01]. They explore the broader cultural implications of comedy, free speech, and ethics in global entertainment [01:11:35–01:19:31], ultimately concluding that true growth comes from aligning one’s actions with their values, regardless of public perception. This thought-provoking episode of Selective Ignorance offers an unfiltered look at how social media, money, and morality continue to shape modern consciousness — reminding listeners that integrity and balance remain the ultimate measures of success.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by friend of the show Carla Wilmaris for a raw and thought-provoking conversation about abortion, parenting, relationships, and the cultural pressures that shape these decisions. The episode opens with [00:00] an introduction and book promotion, before shifting to [01:51] current events and personal opinions that set the stage for a deeper dive. The hosts candidly address [04:57] abortion views and personal experiences, unpacking the stigma, complexities, and emotional realities of reproductive choices. From there, the discussion moves into [11:31] conversations around unprotected sex, highlighting the societal double standards and consequences that follow. Celebrity culture enters the spotlight at [18:35] as Mandii and Carla react to Cardi B’s pregnancy controversy, examining how fame magnifies judgment and public opinion. This naturally leads to [26:23] judgment and parenting decisions, exploring how money, career, and outside scrutiny impact motherhood. The conversation then pivots to [29:05] the balancing act of motherhood and career, reflecting on how women navigate personal growth and societal expectations. By [31:29], the dialogue shifts to relationships and their role in shaping personal growth, followed by [33:27] navigating time and life decisions that often come with compromise and sacrifice. The tension between [36:47] judgment vs. support in friendships takes center stage, where both hosts explore how empathy, communication, and honesty can either build or break trust. The episode doesn’t shy away from the consequences of choices, unpacking [39:37] the fallout of poor decisions and [42:54] the power of empathy in communication. At [47:11], they expand the conversation to judgment in public life, connecting personal stories to the broader cultural dialogue. Finally, the episode closes at [57:39] with thoughts on growth, understanding, and self-reflection, leaving listeners with the encouragement to reconsider how judgment, support, and experience shape their own views. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@carlawilmaris Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by special guest Carla Wilmaris for a thought-provoking conversation that weaves together freedom of speech, friendship dynamics, faith, and cultural identity. The discussion opens with a celebration of five years of voices and the platform’s growth [00:00], before diving into the challenges surrounding freedom of speech in today’s climate [00:55]. From there, Mandii and Carla reflect on the dynamics of friendship and how differing perspectives can create both friction and growth [02:49], as well as how contrasting upbringings shape personal views [05:58]. This leads into a candid exploration of navigating public opinion while maintaining personal expression [08:46], highlighting the emotional toll of public scrutiny in a social media-driven world [12:10]. The hosts further explore the complexities of free speech and its societal implications [15:04]. The conversation then shifts to religion and faith, examining the role of hope in religion as a source of resilience[17:50]. They unpack how faith can be misinterpreted or misused [30:44], while also acknowledging the importance of hope and belief systems as personal anchors [39:46] [43:21]. The dialogue also addresses the struggles of navigating faith and doubt in modern society [50:21]. The episode takes a sharper turn as Mandii and Carla reflect on public figures and their influence on health perceptions, including the controversy around Trump’s statements on autism [51:20] and the intersection of autism awareness with pharmaceutical interests [59:47]. The discussion closes by examining cultural identity and representation in media, including the anticipation surrounding Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl performance and its broader cultural significance [01:02:33].  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@carlawilmaris Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and former music executive and media personality Wayno for a deep dive into the state of hip hop, R&B, and the ever-changing music industry. The conversation begins with an introduction and book promotion [00:00] before moving straight into a breakdown of the current state of hip hop and R&B and how the Drake vs. Kendrick Lamar feud has shaped cultural conversations [00:55]. The crew then examines the cultural pulse of media and marketing and how these forces influence public perception of artists [02:20]. Drawing from their own careers, the hosts share personal experiences in media and content creation, highlighting both the opportunities and challenges of today’s digital-first environment [05:52]. The discussion turns to the role of gatekeeping in media—a double-edged sword that can both protect and limit access for artists [19:36]. From there, they reflect on the dynamics of Dreamville and the importance of industry relationships, exploring how collaboration, reputation, and authenticity shape success [32:21]. This naturally transitions into a broader conversation about navigating industry relationships and staying true to one’s voice [39:25]. As the conversation develops, the panel revisits the topic of gatekeeping in the music industry and how it affects rising talent [41:44], before diving into one of the most debated questions in culture: what defines the “Song of the Summer”?[42:09]. They unpack how streaming, TikTok, and changing audience habits have altered how hits are made and sustained. From there, they explore the evolution of music promotion and artist visibility in a landscape oversaturated with content [59:51], followed by a discussion on the state of R&B festivals and whether the genre’s live presence reflects its cultural impact [01:05:04]. They then critique the oversaturation of media and music, stressing the importance of differentiation and strategy for artists [01:08:23]. The episode also tackles the changing metrics in the music industry [01:12:28] and how the obsession with numbers affects music perception and success [01:16:39]. From there, they highlight the tension between cultural impact and artist recognition [01:21:22], offering perspective on how audiences, critics, and platforms assign value in today’s fragmented landscape. The conversation closes with reflections on navigating the modern music business [01:26:04] and why leverage is one of the most important tools artists can have in today’s industry [01:30:26].  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media@wayno119 Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and returning guest Ray Daniels for a thought-provoking exploration of pop culture, accountability, and the current state of society. The conversation kicks off with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], before moving into a sharp dissection of today’s biggest pop culture headlines [00:55]. From there, the hosts dive into the art of public apologies and accountability [02:44], reflecting on how controversial perspectives on relationships continue to shape both personal dynamics and public perception [05:14]. This leads into a larger discussion on the role of social media and how it amplifies — and sometimes distorts — public discourse [08:59]. The episode then shifts into rap culture, beginning with an honest breakdown of hip hop and street culture’s current state [13:48], followed by an in-depth look at Young Thug’s leaked jail calls and what they reveal about celebrity, loyalty, and consequences [18:44]. Relationship dynamics return to the forefront through the lens of Mariah the Scientist’s public narrative [24:32], before the group pauses for reflections and conclusions on how these conversations connect back to accountability and cultural responsibility [29:52]. As the dialogue expands, they explore the ecosystem of confidence and leadership and how it influences both individuals and communities [33:07]. The conversation also examines the evolution of language and shifting social norms [36:09], before celebrating athletic achievements like Carmelo Anthony’s Hall of Fame speech as part of a broader narrative about legacy and inspiration [37:33]. In its final stretch, the episode tackles the complexity of relationships and public perception [40:44], the impact of political narratives and violence — including the controversial killing of Charlie Kirk [45:05] — and ends with a powerful reflection on empathy, accountability, and the real-world consequences of opinions in today’s hyperconnected society [50:35]. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media@raydaniels Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.