Selective Ignorance with Mandii B

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by returning guests Ish from the (Joe Budden Podcast) and Barry for a dynamic conversation unpacking the state of modern discourse and the way culture, technology, and gender shape how we think. The episode opens with an introduction and book promotion [00:00] before diving into the rise of parasocial relationships and how echo chambers created online influence how people interact and form opinions [00:56]. From there, the hosts explore the ongoing struggles women face in society [03:47], examining how criticism often intersects with gender and the broader challenges of having one’s voice heard [08:07]. This leads into a larger reflection on the importance of healthy discourse [11:49] and the difficulty of maintaining objectivity in an era dominated by social media [14:41]. The conversation then shifts to the role of algorithms in shaping information consumption [18:00] and how audiences balance education and entertainment when engaging with digital platforms [21:50]. They also dissect the outsized influence of celebrity culture on perceptions of success [24:55], while stressing the importance of forming independent opinions amidst the noise [28:35]. As emotions naturally play a role in these exchanges, the group discusses how to navigate emotional responses in conversations [31:59] and the growing impact of AI in shaping both information and content creation [35:36]. This sets the stage for a thoughtful breakdown of how wealth and success are often perceived [39:39], alongside a deeper discussion on music, culture, and representation in media [43:48]. The episode concludes with a reflection on why critical thinking is more essential than ever [47:44], tying together the themes of information overload, digital culture, and societal growth before closing with final thoughts [51:35]. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the Guest: IG:@thatsthatish Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B along with special guest Ish (Joe Budden Podcast) and Barry dive into a wide range of conversations that span parenting, community empowerment, dating, and cultural accountability. The discussion kicks off with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], before exploring how sports reflect parenting dynamics and family values [00:52]. From there, the focus shifts to the power of community gatherings like Invest Fest [03:59] and a critique of how success is measured and celebrated in those spaces [08:40]. The dialogue then turns to the complexities of dating in modern society, beginning with expectations and shifting dynamics [11:52], leading into a deeper debate around reparations versus equity for the Black community [19:26]. The hosts also examine the challenges of transactional dating and the shifting roles of gender within these relationships [28:07]. As the conversation expands, they connect these personal and social themes to broader cultural issues, including the intersection of politics and cultural narratives [41:59]. The episode concludes with a powerful reflection on corporate accountability, the role of boycotts, and the impact of the Black dollar in shaping systemic change [52:59].  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the Guest: IG:@thatsthatish Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by A-King and Jayson Rodriguez for a dynamic deep dive into the world of Black cult classics—films that continue to shape culture, conversation, and identity across generations. The episode kicks off with an introduction to the concept of Black cult classics [00:00], before unpacking what truly defines a “classic” in this space [02:52].Together, they examine the cultural impact and the power of representation in film [05:53], while also spotlighting the role of actors and directors in pushing stories forward [09:04]. The discussion explores how genres within Black cinema have evolved [11:55], touching on the controversial legacy of Blaxploitation [14:44] and Eddie Murphy’s groundbreaking influence in the 1980s [17:44]. The conversation then shifts to the 1990s, celebrated as a golden era for Black films [21:05], followed by a lively debate on quality versus cult status [23:49]. After reflecting on how these dynamics continue to shape the future of Black cinema [27:04], the trio engages in a spirited comparison of “hood films” and “love films” [40:02], before branching into discussions on other genres like comedy, biopics, and more [42:48]. Romance and dramedy emerge as critical forces in shaping narratives around Black love and identity [46:32], while Tyler Perry’s controversial reign in Black film becomes a focal point [50:13]. This naturally leads into a comparison of Spike Lee and Tyler Perry’s distinct legacies [54:40], and a spotlight on the new generation of filmmakers such as Ryan Coogler and Jordan Peele [01:01:14]. The group also unpacks the complex role of slave movies in Black cinema [01:07:22], questioning their place in shaping narratives of identity and history. Finally, they close the episode on a playful note with a game of “How Many Black Movies Have You Seen?” [01:09:47], blending nostalgia, critique, and cultural appreciation. This episode highlights the enduring impact of Black films and the ongoing journey of representation, storytelling, and ownership in Hollywood. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with her mother for a heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation that blends politics, personal experiences, and the emotional truths of American history. The discussion opens with Jay Hill’s book promotion and introduction [00:00], before transitioning into a wide-ranging overview of today’s chaotic political landscape [00:55]. From there, Mandii and her mother dive into the role of family dynamics in shaping political conversations [03:20] and reflect on how personal experiences inform political awareness [05:07]. The emotional weight of American history surfaces throughout the dialogue, with moments of reflection on what it means to carry generational trauma and resilience [11:28]. This naturally leads into how racial identity shapes political outlooks [12:52] and the generational differences that often determine levels of engagement and activism [15:41]. The conversation also examines how media consumption influences political awareness [18:07], and they break down state-level politics with humor and critique—from Florida’s “Alligator Alcatraz” [21:34] to Texas’ “Deportation Depot” [30:22]. These regional deep dives segue into an unflinching look at the prison system and political corruption [32:42], as well as the troubling persistence of corporal punishment in schools [39:21]. In the later portion of the episode, Mandii and her mother discuss the implications of recent legislation on gender and sexual orientation [56:39], and close with reflections on current events unfolding in Washington, D.C. [59:49]. Through candid storytelling and honest exchange, this episode underscores the ways politics are deeply personal—shaped by identity, family, and history—while reminding listeners of the urgent need to stay informed, engaged, and ready to hold systems accountable. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jay Hill, a multimedia journalist and influencer from Baltimore, joins the conversation to discuss the complexities of public outrage surrounding gender roles and domestic violence. He shares insights on how selective outrage influences perceptions of victimhood and accountability. The duo reflects on the disparities in public reactions to artists like Chris Brown and Kendrick Lamar, while diving into the ethics of interviewing controversial figures. They explore the ripple effects of violence on society, highlighting the need for unlearning harmful narratives and fostering accountability.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with sex educator and podcast host Ashley Cobb for an unfiltered deep dive into the layers of women’s autonomy, sexual liberation, and the societal pressures that keep trying to police both. They open the episode [00:00], framing the conversation around sexual autonomy and the power that comes with owning your narrative. By [01:23], they’re unpacking the pendulum swing of women’s rights and how quickly public opinion shifts. At [03:19], the spotlight turns to the role of men in these conversations—whether they’re allies, obstacles, or just awkward bystanders. Ashley shares her Essence Fest experience at [04:39], revealing the branding challenges that still exist in spaces meant to celebrate Black women. The conversation at [10:15] dives into the tug-of-war among women themselves, followed by a candid breakdown at [12:36] of how societal expectations complicate sexual liberation. By [16:19], it’s time to decide—do you double down on your truth or take it back to appease others? From [19:57] to [28:11], Mandii and Ashley explore sexual exploration, relationship dynamics, and the sometimes messy intersections of past connections. The complexity deepens at [35:05] with a discussion on accountability within the Me Too movement, leading into [38:28] on power dynamics in relationships and [41:21] on the nuanced lines between consent and victimhood. At [46:04], they assess the lasting impact of the Me Too movement before shifting to [52:18], where workplace dynamics and gendered expectations get scrutinized. By [55:44], historical context steps in to remind listeners that these struggles didn’t start yesterday, and at [01:01:27], the conversation looks ahead to the future of sexual liberation. They close at [01:07:52] with generational perspectives on sexuality and what younger voices are bringing to the table.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@sexwithashle Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B leads a heartfelt conversation on the many ways people discover, protect, and reclaim their personal power. 00:00 The episode opens with reflections on what power means and how it shapes growth. 02:54 The discussion moves into the journey of finding personal power, before exploring 05:45 the role financial independence plays in building confidence and autonomy. 08:41 Mandii and her guests unpack self-love and body confidence, while 12:04 dives into navigating relationship expectations in a modern dating landscape. 14:53 They discuss the importance of honesty in dating, followed by 17:43 powerful personal stories of overcoming abuse. 20:33 The group reflects on how past relationships can leave lasting marks, leading into 23:57 an examination of emotional and psychological abuse. 26:39 The conversation shifts to empowerment through self-discovery, and 29:40emphasizes the importance of creating your own narrative. From there, 32:22 they address the nonlinear nature of healing, 35:33 the role of community and support in that process, and 38:26 how embracing change can be a catalyst for growth. 41:23 The group highlights the power of self-reflection, before 44:41 redefining success and happiness on one’s own terms. Finally, 47:17 the episode closes with future aspirations and reminders that the journey to empowerment is deeply personal, yet universally resonant.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by actress Giovonnie Samuels and rapper Sy Ari to unpack the layered relationship between self-worth and market value across entertainment, sports, and media. The conversation kicks off with a distinction between personal value and perceived value in professional spaces (02:37), touching on the importance of negotiating with clarity and intention—whether you’re in a boardroom or on a basketball court. From there, the trio dives deep into the realities of contracts (16:55), the cultural and economic factors behind the WNBA's ongoing pay disparities (36:01), and the larger systems that define how labor is valued in male-dominated industries like sports and music (52:20). They also explore how cultural impact often doesn't align with compensation (54:37), especially as new dynamics like NIL deals reshape college sports (56:55). The discussion expands to Joe Budden’s controversial business approach (59:42), the evolving economics of podcasting and creator-led media (01:03:23), and what fair pay looks like for creatives (01:09:21). In the latter half, Mandii and guests shed light on residuals for TV actors (01:17:40), the historic exploitation of child actors (01:23:51), and why knowing your worth—and demanding it—is an act of survival in an industry that rarely plays fair (01:29:50). “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@only1giovonnie @syaridakidFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week's bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B takes you on a deeply personal journey through sexual liberation, self-reflection, and the evolving dynamics of love. She begins by discussing what personal progression looks like beyond appearances [00:00], before unpacking the emotional layers of shame, regret, and how they fuel growth [02:57]. The conversation dives into the interplay of money, sex, and self-worth, exploring how transactional relationships shaped her self-perception [05:49], and the emotional complexity behind romantic entanglements and blurred boundaries [08:44]. Mandii reflects on past choices that once carried guilt but now serve as milestones of learning[11:59]. She candidly shares her experience as a side chick [14:51] and how it informed her understanding of love, betrayal, and resilience [17:47]. Vulnerability becomes a source of strength as she explores how openness can lead to empowerment[20:43], especially when revisiting the imprint of past relationships [23:41]. Through stories of heartbreak [26:34] and hard-earned lessons about the role money plays in intimacy [29:10], Mandii moves toward a place of self-acceptance and grace [32:13]. She emphasizes the power of setting boundaries in romantic and personal growth [35:08], and navigates the nuanced realities of non-monogamous dynamics [37:42]. The episode closes with a reflective chapter on loss, letting go, and the love that remains after the end [40:53]—reminding listeners that healing, though messy, is also transformational.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B alongside Jayson Rodriguez and A-King explore the sweeping impact of artificial intelligence on our daily lives. The conversation begins with an overview of AI's rapid evolution and influence across industries[00:00], followed by reflections on recent current events and the collective processing of death [02:50]. The hosts then navigate the nuances of workplace relationships and the importance of setting boundaries [06:10]. They shift into a debate around the controversial “T App” and its implications on dating and digital consent [09:02], before unpacking how AI is reshaping everything from communication to creative work [11:52]. The discussion widens to examine the future of autonomous vehicles and what it means for transportation as we know it [41:25], including a closer look at how automation is changing customer service experiences [46:49]. The collective also dives into AI’s role in consumer pricing, surveillance capitalism, and corporate accountability[53:16], and questions how political lobbying is influencing AI regulation and public policy [57:36]. In the final stretch, they explore AI’s presence in the music industry and whether it can ever replicate true human connection[01:02:44], closing out with a reflection on capitalism, automation, and the existential anxiety that often comes with technological advancement [01:20:05]. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.