Untamed & Unashamed

Ben Goresky spent his early adult life as an addictions counsellor, & holds a bachelor's degree in Addictions Counselling.He coachs men in 1st and 2nd stage recovery using a holistic approach to accelerate their healing and achieve a full recovery from addiction. As a leader in The Samurai Brotherhood, a community for conscious men, he draws on his experience in the realms of addiction, & transpersonal therapy to support men in improving their relationships, and their success in the world.His dream is to live in a world where everybody knows their value, feels loved, and is in touch with their purpose. & the work he does truly is helping that dream come true. What we discuss in this episode:  -part of what brought him to this work was that “he had met his match & knew that if he didn’t level up that he would probably sabotage the relationship”  -It’s not your job to tell your partner when they’re projecting -“your dream partner will become your nightmare, and we need to learn to resolve the nightmare without forcing the other person to change…” -why men have such a hard time taking suggestions from women. Is it a mother wound or is it our culture?  - “If you think you're enlightened, spend a week with your family” do we ever stop getting triggered? -How we can truly set aside our ego so that we can hold space for our partner  -Learning to hold and love our partners inner child -the US vs THEM sickness that many of us have -The best distraction your mind can create to prevent you from looking inward is to have someone else to blame -How he asks his men’s group, “I think I’m better than other people because___” & what happens in the group when this is answered honestly -Why we are all so selfish but refuse to acknowledge it -intellectualism as a common cover-up for fear of direct experiences (intellectual bypassing)  -letting yourself be imperfect  -BEING alone with our thoughts  Books mentioned: king warrior magician lover  AFFILIATES: Pleasure Wands & Yoni eggs: https://waands.com/?ref=MvvfOgLGokjDQQCODE “JADE” for a discount  Royal Codes Goddess Wear: Royal Codes | Goddess Wear CODE “JADE” for a discount CBD DirectHemp.com - A Better Way to CBDCODE “JADE” for a discount HigherDOSE Infrared products: CODE “JADE75” for $75 off  Intro music:  Milckmusic.com@milckmusic on TikTok, ig, fb, Twitter Somebodysbeloved.com Production:Reel In Motion  https://instagram.com/untamedandunashamedpodcast?utm_medium=copy_linkAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Their Desire & Promise Is To get everyone rooted. To direct others attention towards what really matters, which is what is here with us right now. Not just the 5D or ascension, but the medicine within our bodies that we all have access to when we choose to integrate! They desire to share with the world a different approach to life. One that requires less stress, indecisiveness and ungrounded energy. And one that offers more grace, ease and joy. What they can promise in this moment, is that the second you begin to experience and implement these tools, your life will never be the same again. It is time to discover the power of your heart from embodying your body. Please help me welcome Neil & Ash to untamed & unashamed!    What we discuss in this episode:    -What tantra is & how it played a role in each of their healings   -How someone can start out practicing tantra whether as a single or in a partnership   -How you can access tantra in the uncomfortable moments of being triggered   -How Tantra can be used for healing sexual trauma   -integration and what that actually looks like…   -slowing down to speed up   -Spiral dynamics   Books mentioned: gene keys, it didn’t start with you, the body keeps the score    AFFILIATES:   Pleasure Wands & Yoni eggs: https://waands.com/?ref=MvvfOgLGokjDQQ CODE “JADE” for a discount    Royal Codes Goddess Wear: Royal Codes | Goddess Wear  CODE “JADE” for a discount   CBD DirectHemp.com - A Better Way to CBD CODE “JADE” for a discount   HigherDOSE Infrared products:  CODE “JADE75” for $75 off    Intro music:   Milckmusic.com @milckmusic on TikTok, ig, fb, Twitter  Somebodysbeloved.com   Production: Reel In Motion    https://instagram.com/untamedandunashamedpodcast?utm_medium=copy_linkAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Infrared saunas give you the calorie burn (and high) of a workout out while simultaneously calming your nervous system, detoxifying the body, boosting your metabolic rate, and triggering the happiness response in your brain. The result is a rejuvenating experience that leaves you feeling euphoric and healthy.   The only downside is that these things are huge, and not everyone is lucky enough to live in a city like NYC or LA with locations like HigherDOSE. That’s why they partnered with Clearlight Saunas, to create the Infrared Sauna Blanket & Mat. It feels like a warm hug and offers all the same benefits of the sauna, but at a fraction of the size and cost so you can use it at home or while traveling. If you’re struggling with your health, can’t wind down after a day in our hectic world, or just need to try all the greatest biohacking tech, this episode is going to have you hooked on trying Infrared therapy for yourself! So please help me welcome the founders of HigherDOSE, Katie Kaps & Lauren Berlingeri to untamed & Unashamed!  AND They are offering the listeners of this episode $75 off any of their products with code “JADE75”!!  What we discuss in this episode:   -the science and benefits of all things infrared!  -why it’s so important that the products we use for this are Low emf -What is low elf -crystal therapy  -the use of Ions and what they do for us -What Pemf technology is -the Difference between infrared and traditional saunas Book recommendations: the untethered soul, recapture the rapture, how to eat mice & be healthy by Paul Chek  AFFILIATES: Pleasure Wands & Yoni eggs: https://waands.com/?ref=MvvfOgLGokjDQQ CODE “JADE” for a discount  Royal Codes Goddess Wear: Royal Codes | Goddess Wear  CODE “JADE” for a discount CBD DirectHemp.com - A Better Way to CBD CODE “JADE” for a discount HigherDOSE Infrared products:  CODE “JADE75” for $75 off    Intro music:   Milckmusic.com @milckmusic on TikTok, ig, fb, Twitter  Somebodysbeloved.com   Production: Reel In Motion    https://instagram.com/untamedandunashamedpodcast?utm_medium=copy_linkAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

She has learned to fiercely listen despite being nearly deaf, to banish shame attached to a body mass index, and to rebuild a family after the debilitating loss of her father when she was eight. She’s a pathological truth teller whose story of recovering from disordered eating and depression helps us find, accept, and embrace our own vulnerability, bravery, and humanness. Cheryl Strayed calls this woman “a conduit of awakenings.” Her work is a celebration of happiness and self-realization over darkness and doubt and an inspiration for us all to live outside the box and to reject the all-too-common belief of “I am not enough.” I am so excited to welcome, Jen Pastiloff to untamed and Unashamed!   What we discuss in this episode:    -her story    -how we can all Quiet our inner A-hole   -“Should” is an asshole   -lToday may I not let fear be the boss of me.”   -online criticism    -imposter syndrome   -what she calls “Just-A-Box”   -What it means to be a no bullshit mother   -How we can cultivate creativity   -why asking “Now What?” every day is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves to take baby steps each day in order to manifest our goals   Book mentions: on being human, The chronology of water  AFFILIATES:   Pleasure Wands & Yoni eggs: https://waands.com/?ref=MvvfOgLGokjDQQ CODE “JADE” for a discount    Royal Codes Goddess Wear: Royal Codes | Goddess Wear  CODE “JADE” for a discount   CBD DirectHemp.com - A Better Way to CBD CODE “JADE” for a discount   Intro music:     Milckmusic.com @milckmusic on TikTok, ig, fb, Twitter  Somebodysbeloved.com   Production: Reel In Motion    https://instagram.com/untamedandunashamedpodcast?utm_medium=copy_link  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

“I want to be healthy! I want to be happy! I want to be surrounded by nothing but positive people! I want to travel the world and inspire people on stages of thousands and I want to make a bunch of money, but I want the money to represent something that I passionately believe in that I would do for free! Just show me a sign! Just show me a sign!” Those are the words that today’s guest screamed out during the darkest moment of his life. He spent over a decade jumping from one couch to another and lived out of his car for two and a half years. Even though Garrain knew deep down inside that he was meant to live a better life, he allowed his selfish ways, his ego and his pride to get in the way of reaching his dreams. He was finally realizing that the choices he made created the life he was living.   6 ½ years after being homeless, Garrain is now a serial entrepreneur who motivates and inspires thousands. The knowledge he gained while being shaped and molded sent him down the pathway to become a Transformation Coach. He is an advocate for living a healthy life, business coach, speaker, and author of the book, “Change Your Mindset Change Your Life.”   Things we discuss in this episode:    -the highs & lows that brought him to where he is today    -“Energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only be transferred”   -you were born looking like your mom and dad, but you will die looking like your decisions   -how he healed his relationship with his daughter    -How this message applies to those who feel forgotten    -the weekly relationship ritual he has with his wife   AFFILIATES:   Pleasure Wands & Yoni eggs: https://waands.com/?ref=MvvfOgLGokjDQQ CODE “JADE” for a discount    Royal Codes Goddess Wear: Royal Codes | Goddess Wear  CODE “JADE” for a discount   CBD DirectHemp.com - A Better Way to CBD CODE “JADE” for a discount   Intro music:     Milckmusic.com @milckmusic on TikTok, ig, fb, Twitter  Somebodysbeloved.com   Production: Reel In Motion    https://instagram.com/untamedandunashamedpodcast?utm_medium=copy_linkAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Our guest today serves as the CFO of The Motherhood Center of New York, a mental health clinic providing care to women who are suffering with postpartum depression. Author of The Gift of Maybe, finding hope and possibility in uncertain times. Oprah Magazine included the concept of Maybe as an example of “mind-blowing new definitions for everyday words” and cited it in their new and improved feature “Dictionary to Enlightenment.” Her most recent book, a year without men , A 12 point guide to inspire and empower women… offers simple, practical tools to help women to look within, to find their own values, morals, and passions, to work on their skills, to call on other women, and to forge new ways to do business.   We discuss in this episode:    -How a fear of uncertainty affects us in business and our personal lives   -What we can do about the fear of the unknown   -How we can move forward at work or in our personal lives after someone has compromised our trust   -How we can reduce stress & suffering in 10 minutes   -how expectations steal our happiness and our ability to move forward   -“compare and despair”   -Just Because Someone Says It, Doesn’t Make It True   -doing less    Book recommendations: The Great Awakening    AFFILIATES:   Pleasure Wands & Yoni eggs: https://waands.com/?ref=MvvfOgLGokjDQQ CODE “JADE” for a discount    Royal Codes Goddess Wear: Royal Codes | Goddess Wear  CODE “JADE” for a discount   CBD DirectHemp.com - A Better Way to CBD CODE “JADE” for a discount   Intro music:    Milckmusic.com @milckmusic on TikTok, ig, fb, Twitter  Somebodysbeloved.com   Production: Reel In Motion    https://instagram.com/untamedandunashamedpodcast?utm_medium=copy_linkAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Our guest today is here to help you overcome the blockages, overwhelm, and limiting beliefs that have been holding you back from a life of impact and purpose. He holistically combines heart-connecting meditation and breathwork, with the action-oriented approach of mindset coaching to rewire your subconscious behaviors and empower you to transform your life. A former NYC Creative Director (Vogue, Apple, Hugo Boss, Coach, Swarovski, among others), Philip now has created a program that systematically helps ambitious, conscious entrepreneurs shift the old paradigms that no longer serves them and humanity so they can help build the New Earth. His methods have transformed his own life from 'dis-ease into ease', holistically overcoming his own Graves' autoimmune disease that left him with permanently crossed-eyes. Now 100% committed to helping heart-centered entrepreneurs activate their purpose so they can better serve themselves AND the world with their unique gifts!   Topics we discuss:    -his Journey From ‘Dis-ease’ Into Ease   -What is Reiki and how it played a role in his healing   -What is the Heart Breath    -the algorithm of God What are codes of consciousness? What are universal laws?  What is spiritual mastery?   -How we can start to Overcome Anxiety & Ignite our Purpose   -how we can begin to be more calm and live in the now   -FINANCIAL FLOW    -what are the main money blockages that holds people back   -how consuming content can be an addictive crutch    Intro music:    Milckmusic.com @milckmusic on TikTok, ig, fb, Twitter  Somebodysbeloved.com   Production: Reel In Motion    https://instagram.com/untamedandunashamedpodcast?utm_medium=copy_linkAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Paul Selig is the award-winning author of 8 channeled books, a man who many consider is a “radio,” one attuned to frequencies that are in consonance with the Divine. Described as “a medium for the living,” He has the unique ability to step-into and “become” the people his clients ask about, often taking on their personalities and physical characteristics as he “hears” them telepathically.   In this episode we discuss:    The new book coming out, called Kingdom    What embodiment mean to Paul   How we can align more to our knowing   How we can feel in to whether the fear is a healthy one or not    Why psychic abilities sometimes seem to just “turn off”   Being thrown out of certainty   “You don’t get to cherry pick what is of God, that God is all things”…how can we apply this to things like sex trafficking, racism, etc?    How to come down from the stimulation that sometimes spiritual work can bring    Paul channels the boys in Jade’s home to give her parenting advice on how to adequately support them    Intro music:    Milckmusic.com @milckmusic on TikTok, ig, fb, Twitter  Somebodysbeloved.com   Production: Reel In Motion    https://instagram.com/untamedandunashamedpodcast?utm_medium=copy_linkAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Do you ever feel like you are losing focus and can’t find the energy to do what needs to be done?  Well, today we are having on an Inner-Peace Coach & Healer, Author, dynamic speaker, empowerment coach, & a breathwork facilitator, who is going to talk to us about his Laser Focus Method and ways to best utilize our energy. He helps men and women understand and heal aches, pains and injuries in order to experience more joy, love and creativity. He also Helps People Conquer Anxiety and Subconscious Blocks to Manifest Their Dream Life with Ease… His desire to do this work started after sustaining a devastating back injury while snowboarding & Instead of the doctor’s recommendation to have spinal surgery, Charles began a self-healing journey. He combined ancient healing practices and eastern philosophy with modern day science and Neurokinetic therapy to allow for optimal healing and wellness. He offers powerful and playful practices for moving through fear, releasing resistance, and stress to activate your zone of genius and build the confidence to share your greatest gifts. His path from tragedy to triumph and extensive training in the healing arts has allowed him to offer a series of high level upgrades to unlock human potential… please help me welcome Charles Clay to untamed and unashamed..    Things we discuss in this episode:    -What the laser focus method is   -ways to conquer procrastination   -Vacation vibration    -creator consciousness   -creating more than we consume   -What muscle testing is    -the three pillars of communication   -how you can maintain calmness in your parenting   -the conscious duties that comes with the role of the father   -coping mechanisms & how in order to change those we need to feel it to heal it, or reveal it to heal it   -healing the anger that you carry around inside your body    -What we can learn from anger   -expansion breath & the inner peace process    Books mentioned:  The better business book The untethered soul    Intro music:    Milckmusic.com @milckmusic on TikTok, ig, fb, Twitter  Somebodysbeloved.com   Production: Reel In Motion    https://instagram.com/untamedandunashamedpodcast?utm_medium=copy_linkAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sherry Gaba is a Psychotherapist, with over twenty years of experience as a clinician, and a graduate of USC specializing in addictions, relationships, co-dependency, trauma, parenting, divorce and single parenting.  She was the go-to expert for Dr. Drew Pinsky’s Celebrity Rehab show on VH1 and later on the spin-off, VH1’s Sober House as well as Celebrity Rehab’s Sex Addiction. She teaches clients how to stop the cycle of toxic & codependent relationships and gain unconditional radical self-love.    In this episode we discuss:    -What is codependency?   -What is love addiction?   -What is the difference between being in love and having an unhealthy obsession with your partner?   -What does trauma have to do with all of this?   -What are some treatment options?   -What is withdrawal?   -10 writing prompts to practice self-love:    Become a Member - Codependency Special (2020) - Wake Up Recovery    $1 to join   Intro music:    Milckmusic.com @milckmusic on TikTok, ig, fb, Twitter  Somebodysbeloved.com   Production: Reel In Motion    https://instagram.com/untamedandunashamedpodcast?utm_medium=copy_linkAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy