Conscious Relationship, The Cure for Addiction, & Us vs. Them Mentality, w/ Evolving Man’s Ben Goresky

Ben Goresky spent his early adult life as an addictions counsellor, & holds a bachelor's degree in Addictions Counselling.

He coachs men in 1st and 2nd stage recovery using a holistic approach to accelerate their healing and achieve a full recovery from addiction. 

As a leader in The Samurai Brotherhood, a community for conscious men, he draws on his experience in the realms of addiction, & transpersonal therapy to support men in improving their relationships, and their success in the world.

His dream is to live in a world where everybody knows their value, feels loved, and is in touch with their purpose. 

& the work he does truly is helping that dream come true.

 

What we discuss in this episode: 

 

-part of what brought him to this work was that “he had met his match & knew that if he didn’t level up that he would probably sabotage the relationship” 

 

-It’s not your job to tell your partner when they’re projecting

 

-“your dream partner will become your nightmare, and we need to learn to resolve the nightmare without forcing the other person to change…”

 

-why men have such a hard time taking suggestions from women. Is it a mother wound or is it our culture? 

 

- “If you think you're enlightened, spend a week with your family” do we ever stop getting triggered?

 

-How we can truly set aside our ego so that we can hold space for our partner 

 

-Learning to hold and love our partners inner child

 

-the US vs THEM sickness that many of us have

 

-The best distraction your mind can create to prevent you from looking inward is to have someone else to blame

 

-How he asks his men’s group, “I think I’m better than other people because___” & what happens in the group when this is answered honestly

 

-Why we are all so selfish but refuse to acknowledge it

 

-intellectualism as a common cover-up for fear of direct experiences (intellectual bypassing) 

 

-letting yourself be imperfect 

 

-BEING alone with our thoughts 

 

Books mentioned: king warrior magician lover 

 

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