With Joe Wehbe

The conversation continues on the DAILY With Joe Wehbe Podcast on the danger of careers advice – when people try to give you guidance on what path you take and how you should go about your life, we get into murky waters. There is also a probelm with the concept of a high school careers advisor. Remember, the best way to stay up-to-date with episodes is by signing up on the website: https://withjoewehbe.com/everything-joe/

The conversation continues on the DAILY With Joe Wehbe Podcast, and we talk about the tricky subject of advice... including how my first book might actually hurt and hinder some young readers... For more updates and to keep up with episodes, sign up at https://withjoewehbe.com/everything-joe/

The conversation continues on the DAILY With Joe Wehbe Podcast. Luke's question:  Why do you think it's so difficult to give and receive advice? And why is it difficult to essentially show someone the way? We use the example of a piece of advice from a respected thought leader, showing how it can be good AND bad depending on who listens to it.  Remember the best way to stay up to date is by signing up via email at: https://withjoewehbe.com/everything-joe/

Another DAILY EPISODE of With Joe Wehbe Podcast continuing the conversation on an important but vague topic, 'Connectedness' and linking it to the greatness of Steve Jobs and Leonardo Da Vinci, for whom everything was connected. With so much happening and so many episodes, get your ultimate guide by signing up for updates here: https://withjoewehbe.com/everything-joe/

Do you crack easily like glass, or come back stronger like hydra? Welcome back to the DAILY EPISODES on the With Joe Wehbe Podcast. https://withjoewehbe.com/everything-joe/ for more and to sign up to get updates from The Doorman.  Best bits of today's episode:  your mind is anti-fragile in the sense that it'll, it'll learn and, and grow stronger. Nassim Nicholas Taleb. A fellow man of Lebanese heritage like myself, although he identifies as Lavant and not Lebanese, which is oddly specific. And he wrote this amazing book for me, one of the best books on education that in no way, shape or form is obviously linked to education called antifragile the more you damage it, the stronger it gets, whereas something like glass is fragile So thinking about a muscle again in the gym

DAILY episodes → come back tomorrow! For more updates sign up here: https://withjoewehbe.com/everything-joe/ The example of university and my non-stance — what it's real purpose is The human brain is based on heuristics, shortcuts, the example of the cocktail party effect. How we filter information, and the truth of human attention Helps us understand things like racism Binary thinking is lazy thinking, the example of Lady Gaga looking beyond the easy If you've heavily invested in an idea, because of the story you want to tell yourself, it's hard to dislodge it. Thinking Fast and Slow — System 1 and System 2 Thinking. The mind, our understanding, needs exercise. It's compared to a muscle. Actionable tips on how to do this. Rationality is missing with the binary thinker... nothing is that simple.

New episodes daily! For more on careers, education and actionable tips head to https://withjoewehbe.com/everything-joe/ Tim Ferriss — your ability to have uncomfortable conversations is what helps you become successful People who are capable of more, are working on the wrong things, but not 'telling them what to do' https://www.18andlost.com.au/ the book The medium, not just the message No one's gotten their point across to someone else by telling them they're an idiot. We're not designed to quickly alter cause because of one piece of instruction — we have a natural defense mechanism The one thing you can never control is timing. You see a gap in potential, you want to fill it... because the other person doesn't get it, you push it harder and harder. Persistence has to come from love.

DAILY EPISODES: there was one yesterday, and obviously there'll be one tomorrow! Want to treat yourself right? Head to https://withjoewehbe.com/ for more insights, deep-thinking, resources and more! Why do people struggle to let go of their ideas, when we see the evidence from De Mello, as to why we shouldn't? The role of insecurity, and how it exacerbates self-compromise Insecurity is not normally attached to reality — 'successfull' and 'famous' people are often still insecure People often look for the train ticket. https://withjoewehbe.com/2021/02/19/the-train-station/ The more insecure you are, the more easily you are seduced by shiny objects The example of Einstein and physics Not being the person who says, 'this is the way'. There is no way. The wisest people I know give strong disclaimers on their own advice.

DAILY EPISODES (this continues from yesterday's ep). For more don't forget to head to https://withjoewehbe.com/ The Duning-Kruger Effect — the example of thinking you can go toe-to-toe with someone who is very technical. This can create emotional reactions, a lot of shutting down and thinking what you know is right. Most people have a very narrow view of themselves, caught in a particular identity. Locking things in on the identity level Human beings are suckers for familiarity. People who want to 'find' themselves. Familiarity is why people cling to bad partners and bad situations. The idea of the psychological nomad https://withjoewehbe.com/2020/12/28/be-a-psychological-nomad/ When experience can be counter-intuitive - the example of career pathways that change over time.

DAILY EPISODES!!! Show me yourself some love by coming back tomorrow. Check out the site for more: https://withjoewehbe.com/ We're never taught how to think Balancing argument with conviction and clarity but not being close-minded Seek out the people who show you errors in your thinking. Thinking through boxes with dotted lines https://withjoewehbe.com/2020/08/24/how-to-think-through-boxes/ How young innovators later become stubborn old and biased people — example of Albert Einstein People get stuck when they've invested a lot in an idea.