
She's So Lucky
She’s So Lucky is a chart-topping weekly podcast dedicated to women who create their own luck against all odds. Join host Les Alfred and special guests for compelling conversations that will inspire you to live life on your terms. Les and her guests are giving you a sneak peek into the minds and habits of successful women sharing their wins, losses, and lessons that you can apply to your own life. From entrepreneurs, to creatives, to wellness experts, She’s So Lucky is a space for women to feel free and inspired to live up to their fullest potential. Each episode will help you uncover new ways to create your own luck and harness the magic you already have.
Latest episodes

Mar 15, 2022 • 35min
How to Be Patient While Your Manifestations Come Through + Understanding Your Manifestation Style [Solo Episode]
Have you ever felt impatient while waiting for your manifestations to come through? Same, friend. And I’m talking all about it in today’s episode.Though I didn’t consciously know what manifestation until my 20’s, I realized I’d been manifesting my entire life. In fact, we all have. We all have the power to manifest, and we are all constantly manifesting whether we’re aware of it or not.And when we become aware, we’re able to intentionally tap into our manifestation power. I discuss my personal experiences learning about and understanding manifestation, some manifestations I’ve had come through, and how I’m learning to be patient and prepare for my manifestations to come through in the physical realm.I also talk about…
My experiences with manifestation from childhood to now.
How to adequately prepare for your manifestations while you’re waiting for them to come through.
The importance of divine timing and being clear on what is and isn’t for you.
Practices that have helped me manifest.
Why understanding your human design can help you become a more powerful manifestor.
Resources Mentioned In This Episode (contains affiliate links):
Human Design 101 + Owning Your Own Path with Jas of Moon
Episode 104: Christianity and Human Design with Christa Keyes
Episode 124: How to Manifest with Shirin Eskandani
Add More ~Ing To Your Life by Gabrielle Bernstein
Follow me on Instagram @balancedles
Follow me on TikTok @balancedles
Follow Balanced Black Girl on Instagram @balancedblackgirlpodcast
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Mar 8, 2022 • 43min
Finding Magic Through Self-Acceptance + Yoga for Our Collective Freedom with Jessamyn Stanley
This week on the podcast we get to have an incredible conversation on inner magic and self-acceptance with yogi, entrepreneur, author, and activist Jessamyn Stanley. Jessamyn is an internationally acclaimed voice in wellness, who is highly sought-after for her insights on 21st-century yoga and intersectional identity.To say I’m a fan of her work is an understatement. When I first started the Balanced Black Girl podcast I had a shortlist of dream guests and Jessamyn was on that list, so this is a truly full-circle moment! Our conversation is rich and full of insights regarding what the practice of self-acceptance involves. We also chat about our respective yoga journeys and the profound lessons Jessamyn learned in her training around compassion. Being the true astrology nerd that I am we also get into a conversation on our big threes and the impact astrology has had on the way we connect with the universe and ourselves.This episode is full of insights regarding our path to wholeness and feels like an incredible blessing.Listen to the episode below!WE ALSO TALK ABOUT…
Yoga being the key to our collective freedom.
Finding comfort in being yourself, and accepting yourself as you are.
Allowing your yoga and meditation practice to take various different forms.
RESOURCES (CONTAINS AFFILIATE LINKS):
Yoke: My Yoga of Self-Acceptance
Everybody Yoga: Let Go of Fear, Get on the Mat, Love Your Body
Follow Jessamyn on IG - @mynameisjessamyn
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Mar 1, 2022 • 50min
126 | How to Use the Akashic Records + Embodying Imperfect Wellness with Brit Starr
This week we get to explore something that we haven’t really talked about in great length on previous episodes of the podcast. When it comes to Magic and Manifestation practitioners have different ways to connect and communicate with their spirit guides. One of those ways is by using the Akashic Records. You may be asking yourself, “Um... What are the Akashic Records?” This question is totally understandable and we had the same questions at the Balanced Black Girl podcast so I decided we needed to bring on an expert to share her insights and journey so far.Brittany “Brit” Starr is a spiritualist and creator working at the intersections of modern technology and the infinite. Through her studio, Sword + Stone, she amplifies the magic of conscious businesses through divinely inspired tech services and education. She offers a unique fusion of channeled guidance, archetypal journeying, and Akashic education through her online community, The Inner Well.We get to it all in this episode, from Brit’s journey to discovering the power connecting with the Akashic Records has, to the lessons she has learned through her interpretation of the records. As well as the ways we can use them for interpersonal development through practices of feeling our intuition, meditation, and prayer. We also chat about the messiness of spirituality and why it’s ok that our wellness journey will never be perfect.Listen to the full episode now to learn more about this unique spiritual modality!WE ALSO TALK ABOUT…
The history of the Akashic Records
How we can communicate with the Akasha
Why wellness should be messy and imperfect
How communicating with the Akashic Records can help with anxiety
RESOURCES:
Brit Starr’s Akashic Higher Self Meditation
Brit Starr’s Getting into the Akashic Records eBook
Rohini of Magic Inclined channeled an Akashic Tap-In, which Brit use to access the Records for herself and clients. You can learn more about the Akasha and get the tap-in on her website: https://www.magicinclined.com/links
Brit Starr’s tech studio, Sword + Stone: https://swordandstone.studio/ | https://www.instagram.com/sword.and.stone/ | https://www.tiktok.com/@sword.and.stone
Brit Starr’s online community, The Inner Well: https://theinnerwell.co/ | https://www.instagram.com/theinnerwell/ | https://www.tiktok.com/@theinnerwell
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Feb 22, 2022 • 1h 14min
125 | Spiritual Hygiene + Daily Rituals for Manifestation, Protecting Your Blessings with SaTar'Ra
We are continuing our magic and manifestation series with the brilliant and multi-passionate creative SaTar’Ra. SaTar'Ra is a creative, conjure woman, and ritual practitioner focused on the intersection of music, movement, and spirituality. She also happens to be a fellow graduate of the 200hr Yoga Teacher Training I took at the end of 2021.We really connected at the training, so when I was planning out this series I knew I had to have her on as a guest. This conversation is full of insight and wisdom and a must-listen for anyone looking to learn how to keep their spiritual hygiene up and work magic in their lives.Tune in for an episode dripping in good energy. We discuss spiritual rituals you can incorporate into your life and SaTar’Ra shares advice for protecting your energy and keeping your manifestations sacred.WE ALSO TALK ABOUT…
Spiritual Hygiene for manifestation
Moving through our various identities without putting ourselves in a box
Daily rituals to keep yourself protected.
Yoga as a healing practice.
RESOURCES:
Join SaTar’Ra’s Patreon
Follow SaTar’Ra on Instagram @imsattara
Follow SaTar’Ra on Twitter @iamsattra
Episode 105: Manifesting Love with Alea Lovely
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Feb 15, 2022 • 1h
124 | How to Manifest: Healing Through the Journey of Manifestation with Shirin Eskandani
Did you know we have the power to manifest the life of our dreams? In our newest series, we are connecting with guests who have created literal magic in their lives and want to teach you how to do the same. I don’t often have repeated guests on the podcast, but I can’t think of anyone better suited to walk us through a Manifestation Masterclass than the founder of Wholehearted Coaching, Shirin Eskandani.I actually participated in one of her programs back in 2019, and her method of teaching manifestation quite literally transformed my life. Trust me when I say you’re gonna want to take notes because the insight and gems she drops are incredible.WE ALSO TALK ABOUT…
Why you need to follow your vision boards with aligned action.
The balance of not being too specific or too general with your desires.
Letting go of your attachment to the outcome.
The power of dreaming.
RESOURCES:
Call in love with Shirin’s course, Manifest Them
Learn more about manifestation in Shirin’s two-part masterclass Everyday Magic
Follow Shirin on Instagram @wholeheartedcoaching
Listen to Shirin’s podcast Wholehearted Coaching
Check out Shirin’s feature in The New York Times
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Feb 8, 2022 • 44min
123 | My Journey Into Yoga + Ways to Incorporate Principles of Yoga Into Our Lives
Did you know that yoga is so much more than stretching and moving through poses? Spoiler: that’s just one limb of yoga - and there are eight. We’ve talked a lot about finding stillness, peace, making connection to the breath, and flowing into your creativity. And that all sounds so simple, but finding ways to reframe our relationship to our inner and outer world is such a game-changer.For me, yoga helped me open my eyes to the ways I can be present with myself and tune into my own form of balance. I’ve just completed my 200-hour yoga teacher training, and it’s taught me a lot about mindfulness and the gift it is to be one with yourself. In this episode, I’ll be sharing my journey into yoga and the lessons that I’ve learned so you can carry them with you without having to pick up the practice if you don’t want to.And bonus - Dive into the Reframing the Reset Challenge! It’s free, you can move at your own pace, and it’ll help you take action on what we’ve been exploring this season. Snag your roadmap here → balancedblackgirl.com/resetI ALSO TALK ABOUT…
Yoga is so much more than stretching.
Why Black women and yoga are a match made in heaven.
My journey into yoga + what it’s taught me.
RESOURCES (CONTAINS AFFILIATE LINKS):
Ep 65 - How to Heal Through Breathwork with Kathleen Booker
Ep 66 - Creating Holistic Wellness Habits that Stick with Alina Brown
Ep 75 - Wellness Beyond The Physical: Creating Spiritual, Emotional, And Social Change With Maryam Ajayi
Ep 92 - Make Mindfulness Work For You + How To Prepare For Your Level-Up With Dora Kamau
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Feb 1, 2022 • 1h 2min
122 | Reframing Self-Talk, Tapping Into Your Creativity, + Trusting Your Intuition with Arielle Estoria
It’s interesting how inspiring this conversation is, when one of the points we explore is how fleeting inspiration can actually be. Living a life full of creativity is something so many of us desire for ourselves, but when we depend on timelines and expectations in life, the rush to be something becomes a roadblock if you let it define what you’re able to accomplish. To live the life we want, we have to understand that flowing in creativity is going to look different for everyone. And finding what works for you requires nurturing and connecting to our inner, authentic truth.Arielle Estoria is a multi-hyphenate creative - a poet, artist, author, and actor - with a passion for making women feel at home in their own bodies. We talk about so many beautiful things, like building a relationship with your intuition, finding your place with creativity, and being discerning of the things you say to yourself.And bonus - Dive into the Reframing the Reset Challenge! It’s free, you can move at your own pace, and it’ll help you take action on what we’ve been exploring this season. Snag your roadmap here → balancedblackgirl.com/resetWE ALSO TALK ABOUT…
Black women are divine.
Forming a relationship with creativity.
Leaning into your intuition.
Harnessing the power of self-talk.
RESOURCES (CONTAINS AFFILIATE LINKS):
Sign up for the Reframing the Reset Challenge: balancedblackgirl.com/reset
Follow Arielle on Instagram @arielleestoria
Check out Arielle’s collaboration with Pure Leaf
Find more of Arielle’s work on her website: arielleestoria.com
*Big Magic*, by Elizabeth Gilbert
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Jan 25, 2022 • 46min
121 | Reframing Your Relationship with Stuff – Decluttering + Organization for Mental Health
Continuing to look at how we can build systems and rituals rather than routines and lofty expectations, we’re looking at the part clutter plays in whether we move forward in becoming the person we are becoming. I speak a lot from the I today, sharing several examples of how decluttering my space and creating reset rituals have made an expansive impact on my well-being and ability to show up to myself. We also get into specific systems you can implement to remove clutter from your life.And bonus - Join us for the Reframing the Reset Challenge! It’s free and we’ve been doing it together as a community. Snag your roadmap here → balancedblackgirl.com/resetI ALSO TALK ABOUT…
The impacts of having clutter in your life.
Discerning between a soul want + an influenced want.
Three decluttering systems to try.
RESOURCES (CONTAINS AFFILIATE LINKS):
Sign up for the Reframing the Reset Challenge: balancedblackgirl.com/reset
How Excessive Clutter Affects Your Mental Health - blog by Green Drop
5 Reasons Why Clutter Disrupts Mental Health - blog by Susan Krauss Whitbourne Ph.D. on Psychology Today
Delaying Disposing: Examining the Relationship between Procrastination and Clutter across Generations - 2017 article by Ferrari & Foster
The Unbearable Heaviness of Clutter - article by The New York Times
Ep 54 - Wholehearted Living with Shirin Eskandani
Ep 97 - Creating Space + Keeping Promises to Yourself
Ep 106 - Having a Healthy Relationship with Yourself + Breaking Through the Self-Development Trap
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Jan 18, 2022 • 1h 4min
120 | Reframing Your Menstrual Cycle + Ancestral Practices with Raven Rose
Over the past year or so, I’ve become impassioned with menstrual health and learning all the ways menstruating impacts my well-being. The lack of education or awareness that goes into learning about the menstrual cycle can make us feel like it’s a burden instead of seeing that it’s one of the most powerful, rewarding gifts a person can have.Raven Rose, a Menstrual Health Herbalist of Moon Medicines joins us to discuss all things cyclical living. Get ready to learn so much from Raven - not just about our cycles, but also healing with herbalism and dreamwork, and creating ancestral practices.And bonus - Join us for the Reframing the Reset Challenge! It’s free and we’ll be doing it together as a community. Snag your roadmap here → balancedblackgirl.com/resetWE ALSO TALK ABOUT…
Transferring off of birth control + living a cyclical lifestyle.
Recovering from menstrual shame.
Ancestral healing with dreamwork.
The correlation between menstrual cycles + moon phases.
RESOURCES (CONTAINS AFFILIATE LINKS):
Sign up for the Reframing the Reset Challenge: balancedblackgirl.com/reset
Join the waitlist for Raven's Sacred Cycles program
Follow Raven on Instagram @moonmedicines
*Rage Becomes Her* by Soraya Chemaly
Ep 117 - Unapologetically Dreaming Big + The Dreams I Dream
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Jan 11, 2022 • 1h 13min
119 | Reframing Your Relationship with Exercise with Lauren Leavell
As you know, here at BBG we believe wellness is so much more than having a fitness routine (or ritual). It’s just one part of the picture. So when we can start to measure our progress by how good we feel instead of a number on the scale, we’re taking our power back with movement. Before we dive full-on with a new fitness program, let’s get clear on what fitness is actually for, the benefits we’re going after, and how to make movement a joyful part of life.We’re joined by Lauren Leavell, a fitness coach and instructor who focuses on weight neutrality and finding comfort and joy in building a movement practice.And bonus - Join us for the Reframing the Reset Challenge! It’s free and we’ll be doing it together as a community. Snag your roadmap here → balancedblackgirl.com/resetWE ALSO TALK ABOUT…
Confusing fitness for wellness.
Skipping lofty goals + expectations.
Building safety both mentally + physically.
Incorporating play + joy with your relationship to movement.
RESOURCES (CONTAINS AFFILIATE LINKS):
Sign up for the Reframing the Reset Challenge: balancedblackgirl.com/reset
Join Lauren's Inclusive Fitness Membership Platform, Leavell Up Fitness
Follow Lauren on Instagram @laurenleavellfitness + on TikTok [@laurenleavellfit](https://www.tiktok.com/@laurenleavellfit?)
Subscribe to Lauren's Newsletter
Check out more of Lauren’s resources on her website LaurenLeavellFitness.com
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