Flying Solo

Looking for a great listen this summer? Check out our highlights from the past year and learn a new skill today! This week's episode of Flying Solo focuses on the often overlooked yet crucial aspect of being a solo entrepreneur—our personal wellbeing and resilience. Melli O'Brien, renowned coach, mindfulness educator, and author of Deep Resilience has aided over a million individuals worldwide in finding inner calm and clarity. She shares her personal journey from dealing with mental health crises to becoming a beacon of mindfulness and strength. In this conversation, Melli dives into the key skills necessary for cultivating resilience, breaking down her four-part method designed to empower you through life's adversities. Whether you're feeling burnt out, caught in overthinking traps, or simply eager to strengthen your mindset, this episode is filled with practical insights and strategies to help you reconnect with your inner strength and values. Key topics Melli O'Brien's Background and Journey Her experience with a difficult childhood leading to mental health challenges. Hitting a crisis point with mental health issues like an eating disorder, depression, and suicidal ideation. Discovering resilience and happiness as skills and seeking guidance. Development of Skills and Writing of "Deep Resilience" Book Encounter with teachings from Buddhism and psychology about resilience. Development of skills leading to significant personal transformation. Motivation to write her book based on patterns observed in others. Discussion on Resilience and Inner Strength Difference observed between those who struggle and those who thrive under adversity. Introduction to the "deep resilience method" and its foundational skills. The FEAR and RISE Models Explanation of the FEAR model, outlining elements leading to spirals of struggle. Introduction to the RISE model as a counteracting strategy to FEAR. Mindfulness and Its Misconceptions Addressing skepticism around mindfulness and its practical benefits. Explanation of how mindfulness helps manage thoughts and emotions effectively. Practical Application of Mindfulness and Managing Overthinking Real-life example from Melli's personal experience with her cat's health emergency. Implementing mindfulness techniques and regulating negative thoughts. Addressing Burnout and Maintaining Balance Understanding and recognising the signs of burnout. Importance of balancing life activities through an inventory of "drainers" and "sustainers." Timestamped overview 06:17 Deep Resilience and Personal Growth 10:05 Overcoming FEAR Pattern 11:52 Managing Emotions and Stress Wisely 15:52 Staying Connected to Your Values 18:53 Overcoming Anxious Thoughts 21:14 Mindfulness Simplifies Emotional Awareness 27:20 Resilience Framework: 3 C's for Wellbeing 28:49 Mastering Skills Through Practice 34:57 Mindfulness to Combat Burnout 38:47 Burnout Check-In: Drainers vs. Sustainers Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we are joined by Simi Rayat, a global productivity expert, business psychologist and founder of Wellbeing Face. In our conversation, we delve into productivity and emotional wellbeing. Simi shares her journey from a budding interest in psychology to becoming an advocate for enhancing productivity through a scientifically backed approach. Together, we explore key concepts from her latest book, "Productivity Joy," which offers strategies for boosting productivity and energy in just five minutes a day using the innovative 5Q formula. We also touch on the importance of gratitude, emotional awareness, and self-compassion in maintaining a balanced and fulfilling life. Join us as we uncover practical tips and mindset shifts that can transform your daily routines and enhance your personal and professional growth. Time-stamped overview 00:00 5-minute system boosts mood and productivity. 04:27 Science-backed process for enhancing mindset with questions. 07:38 Emotions dictate behavior; acknowledging them is crucial. 11:30 Focus on 3 high-impact tasks daily. 15:44 Mindset impacts productivity and collaboration significantly. 20:08 Revisit priorities midday; reflect briefly daily. 23:33 Take 5 minutes daily for mindset clarity. 26:10 Annual family goal-setting retreat with collaborative planning. 28:48 Identify inspiring qualities and boost self-worth and gratitude. Key Topics Recognising Qualities and Self-Reflection Admired Traits: Simi Raya emphasises that the qualities we admire in others often mirror traits that exist within us, enhancing our own self-awareness and identity. Self-Worth Connection: By recognising these qualities in ourselves, we can improve our self-worth and confidence. Identifying Influential People: Part of effective self-reflection is identifying and surrounding ourselves with individuals who inspire us to become better versions of ourselves, fostering personal growth. Value and Practice of Gratitude Human Need for Recognition: Gratitude satisfies a fundamental human desire to feel valued and impactful, fulfilling an essential emotional requirement for acknowledgment. Concerns About Gratitude: Raya expresses concern that some individuals struggle to recall the last time they received gratitude, highlighting a need for improved gratitude practices. Encouraging Expression: She advocates for a more frequent and conscious expression of gratitude to enhance overall well-being and fulfillment in our interactions. Distinction Between Busyness and Productivity Common Reflexive Responses: Many people default to saying they're "fine" or "busy" without truly assessing their emotional state or productivity level. Impact over Quantity: Simi Raya explains that being busy is often mistaken for being productive or important, yet it doesn't necessarily equate to impactful work. Focus on Meaningful Work: She suggests prioritizing high-impact and meaningful tasks over compiling lengthy to-do lists, which can lead to more significant outcomes and satisfaction. Simi Raya’s 5 Q's Formula Framework Introduction: Raya introduces a productivity framework adapted from Eisenhower’s matrix, designed to focus on prioritizing tasks by their urgency and importance. Three High-Impact Tasks: The approach emphasizes completing three high-impact tasks each day to maintain alignment with broader personal and professional goals. Brain's Preference for Threes: This method leverages the brain’s natural efficiency in processing information in sets of three, making it easier to manage and execute tasks. Daily Routine Integration: Simi suggests integrating the 5Q’s formula into existing morning routines, helping to enhance productivity and focus right from the start of the day.. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Looking for inspiration to kick-start the new year? Check out our summer session highlights for the best advice we've heard from experts this year... In this episode, we're joined by David Fastuca, co-author of the B2B Sales Playbook. David, who has successfully built a $150 million sales pipeline and scaled a SaaS business in a competitive market, shares his expertise on developing a simple, repeatable sales system that stands out from the pushy tactics many dread. We'll explore key aspects like the impact of AI on sales, the importance of having a structured sales operating system, and actionable insights for overcoming common sales challenges. Whether you're struggling to land deals or looking to refine your sales approach, this episode is a must-listen for actionable strategies and practical advice. Tune in and transform your sales game today! Key Topics David Fastuca's Sales Journey and B2B Sales Playbook: Transitioned from graphic design to sales out of necessity. Co-authored the B2B Sales Playbook with Luigi Preston. The book is designed to be highly actionable and helps founders and salespeople establish a structured sales process. Provides templates, scripts, and resources to resolve sales roadblocks and enhance sales efficiency. Sales Operating System (Sales OS) and Multichannel Outbound Approach: A structured system is crucial for habit-forming and consistent sales results. Employs multichannel outreach, including email, phone, social selling, and instant messaging. Increases response rates and nurtures leads by diversifying communication methods. Helps in building confidence and understanding real market feedback for growth and refinement. Timestamped overview 00:00 Intro to Dave 05:24 Embrace AI or Fall Behind 06:44 AI Enhances Customer Engagement Efficiency 10:22 Human Oversight Required for AI 14:26 "Belief, Market Need, Feedback Loop" 18:36 Turning Cold Calls Into Warm Leads 20:47 Strategic Prospect Engagement Steps 22:55 Continuous Customer Understanding Essential 29:00 Personalized Messaging Over Generic Outreach 32:25 AI Analysis for Sales Insights 33:25 "B2B Sales Playbook Preview" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Summer's here, and we're taking a break, so we've put together a season of summer highlights for your listening pleasure. Kick back and enjoy! Money! How to manage it, how to make the most of it, and how to attract more of it, are questions we’d all like answered and this week’s guest, Clare Wood, has some practical solutions.  Clare is a sought-after money mentor, author, speaker and CPA-qualified accountant who helps service-based businesses to scale. She also runs The Profit Academy, an online school created to help business owners increase their profits exponentially. When it comes to money management, Clare knows just what it takes to help business owners make more money and create a life of financial freedom and fun. Episode notes In this episode, Clare unpacks: 1:00 - From 2nd-gen numbers nerd to corporate finance 4:03 – Why helping small businesses make more money is her passion 8:44 – The basics of small business finance + key metrics to know 11:50 – The difference between profit and loss, cash flow + budget 13:55 – Cash flow tracking: Excel vs accounting software 17:40 – How to keep reaching your profit goals 19:10 – Why you DON’T have to tell your customers why you’re raising prices 22:20 – Understanding your money mindset – and how to change it 28:05 – The power of a growth mindset for entrepreneurs 29:05 – Sales strategies – growing your existing clients/customers 31:40 – Unlocking your money dreams and desires Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As you kick back over summer, check out our season highlights for great advice on hot topics for small business owners. If the mention of AI makes your eyes glaze over, you’re not alone—but what if AI could actually make your business smoother, more efficient, and free up valuable time? To help unravel the mystery (and bust a few myths), Cec is joined by Tracy Sheen, award-winning business tech expert, speaker, founder of The Digital Guide, and bestselling author. With over 30 years spent in the tech trenches—and a brand-new, jargon-free book called AI and You: Reimagine Business—Tracy shares practical advice for solopreneurs and small business owners looking to make sense of AI. Key topics 1. Demystifying AI for Small Business AI isn’t as intimidating as it seems; it's already embedded in everyday tools like Netflix, Google Maps, CRMs, and point-of-sale systems. Most small business owners have been using AI unknowingly for years. The goal is to make AI accessible, jargon-free, and practical for real-world application. 2. Overcoming Misconceptions and Building Mindset Many small businesses see AI as overwhelming, complicated, or even irrelevant—especially in regional Australia. Tracy emphasizes that AI is a collaborator, not a competitor. Success with AI starts with a mindset shift: treat AI as a new team member, not a threat to your business. 3. Practical Getting Started Tips Start small: Use tools like ChatGPT for fun, non-business tasks first to build confidence. Ask questions, play around, and don’t be afraid to “make mistakes”—it’s a learning sandbox. Focus on solving one key business pain point at a time with AI. 4. Recommended Tools & Everyday Applications Google NotebookLM: Great for synthesizing content, brainstorming, and creating conversational podcasts. CastMagic: Useful for repurposing long-form content (like podcasts and webinars) into social clips, emails, and blogs. Choose tools that address your particular business challenges or bottlenecks, whether content creation, marketing, or workflow. 5. Ethics, Transparency & Future-Proofing Be transparent about using AI in your business communications; customers appreciate honesty. Develop an AI policy, especially if you have EU clients, and review it regularly as things evolve. AI adoption is essential for staying competitive—digital literacy and curiosity are key assets for future growth. Time-stamped overview 00:00 "Solopreneurs: AI Simplified" 04:00 Tech as a Social Equalizer 09:17 AI Misunderstandings in Rural Australia 10:53 Everyday AI Usage Awareness 15:55 Embrace Curiosity for Better Answers 17:34 "Google Notebook: Content Conversion Tool" 22:23 "Virtual Teams for Solopreneurs" 25:19 "Social Media Help for Plumber" 27:43 AI Transparency Boosts Business Loyalty 31:42 Agenic AI Streamlines Executive Assistance 35:35 "NoteBookLM: Mind-Blowing Everyday AI Tool" 37:19 Embracing Rapid Technological Change Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People and culture specialist Claire Gray, author of the new book Thriving Teams: When Teams Unite, Align and Achieve, dives into what truly makes a business excel—whether you’re leading a handful of people, working with an evolving group of freelancers, or just starting to build your own crew. Claire shares insights from her extensive experience in leadership development, team dynamics, and her own entrepreneurial journey. We cover the essentials of building strong teams, the difference between simply performing and genuinely thriving, and why understanding your purpose and practicing quality conversations can make all the difference. You’ll also learn practical strategies for fostering psychological safety, empathy, and accountability, even when your team is made up of remote workers or freelancers. Key topics 1. The Essentials of Thriving Teams Key differences between dysfunctional, complacent, performing, and thriving teams Importance of purpose, meaningful work, and strong relationships Psychological safety as a foundation for honest conversations and innovation 2. Leadership Skills and Development Common leadership gaps, especially in small businesses and among new leaders The growing value of “soft” (human) skills like empathy and feedback The three facets of authentic leadership: empathy, assertiveness, adaptiveness 3. Creating Alignment and Accountability Defining clear roles, goals, and behavioral expectations as teams grow Importance of regular, quality conversations to build alignment Shared accountability and giving/receiving feedback within the team 4. Fostering Healthy Team Culture Encouraging healthy debate and curiosity for growth and innovation Building human connection and togetherness, even with remote or freelance teams Incorporating rituals and intentionality in meetings for engagement 5. Practical Steps and Resources Tips for discovering purpose and leveraging team strengths Addressing misalignment or tension through open communication and curiosity Resources like Claire Gray ’s book and practical tools for team development Time-stamped overview 00:00 From Psychology to HR Journey 03:06 Leadership Skills Gap Insights 06:45 "Defining Purpose at Four Levels" 13:07 "Psychological Safety and Team Alignment" 14:08 Fostering Open, Respectful Conversations 17:20 "Psychological Safety and Accountability" 20:46 Empathy, Authenticity, Adaptive Leadership 24:09 "Effective and Intentional Meetings" 30:08 "Fostering Quality Conversations" 31:19 "Thriving Team Insights with Claire" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Melinda McCormack unpacks the growing sense of isolation many of us feel—at work, in our communities, and even at home—thanks to our fast-paced, tech-heavy lives. In this episode, we explore the art and science of empathy, drawing from Melinda McCormack’s decades of experience helping leaders and teams navigate challenging emotional terrain. With insights from her new book, “Pulse: Empathy Is Your Edge,” you’ll discover a practical, five-step framework for building trust, breaking through resistance, and creating truly sustainable change. Key topics 1. The Challenge of Disconnection and the Need for Empathy Modern life’s disconnection fueled by technology and excessive screen time Emotional overwhelm and resistance to change as common experiences Empathy as a critical tool to rebuild genuine human connection 2. Melinda McCormack’s Personal Story and Empathy Mission Inspired by the experience of raising her son after losing her partner Focused on building emotional strength and resilience in herself and her son Transformation from adversity to an advocacy for empathy and emotional awareness 3. The Pulse Framework for Empathy Purpose: Anchoring in personal values and “why” Understanding: Building self-awareness of emotional patterns (“emotional DNA”) Learning and Shifting: Developing emotional skills, forming new habits, reframing thoughts Embracing Change: Combining emotional agility with rational decision-making 4. Bringing Empathy to Work and Leadership Emotional intelligence reframed as a business-critical skill, not just “soft” Importance of authentic, adaptable leadership in an age of rapid change and AI Creating psychological safety, inclusion, and trust in teams 5. Everyday Practices and Repairing Disconnection Techniques for self-check-ins and intentional emotional responses Approaches to overcoming resistance, self-limiting beliefs, and perfectionism Practical steps for mending relationships—apologizing, humility, and face-to-face connection Time-stamped overview 00:00 Empathy's Role in Strength and Growth 03:49 "From Struggle to Connection" 07:12 "Human-centered Leadership in AI Era" 12:46 Emotional Agility and Self-Trust 15:28 "Shifting Beliefs for Growth" 18:27 "Beliefs Drive Daily Self-Check" 21:55 Call Centre Frustration Experience 26:39 Reframing Change for Collaboration 28:30 "Humanity, Empathy, and Connection" 32:12 "Empathy: Your Edge" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From his humble beginnings in a working-class family to conquering the high-stakes trading floors of London, Andrew Baxter shares how those early struggles shaped his money mindset—and why he believes financial freedom is possible for anyone who’s willing to learn the process. Andrew breaks down the myths and realities of investing, the emotional roadblocks that often hold us back, and practical steps for building wealth—even during tough economic times. Whether you’re just starting out or ready to level up your finances, you’ll hear relatable stories, actionable advice, and an insider’s look at how everyday Australians can use knowledge, strategy, and a little courage to create a more secure future. Get ready to rethink your approach to money, overcome those common investing mistakes, and discover what it really takes to crack the wealth code. Key topics Absolutely! Here’s a condensed sequence of the episode’s major themes, each with a few supporting bullets: 1. Andrew's Background and Money Mindset Grew up in a working-class home with limited financial resources Influence of upbringing on his motivation to succeed and views about money Early career shift from small-town life to high-stakes London finance 2. Career Transitions and Search for Fulfilment Experience on the competitive London trading floor (the reality vs the “Billions” myth) Decision to leave London seeking more fulfillment and life balance Relocating to Australia, embracing new opportunities and challenges 3. Making Investing Accessible: Education & The Wealth Playbook Founding Australian Investment Education after teaching on the golf course Philosophy: Focus on process, consistency, and removing jargon The Wealth Playbook aims to demystify investing for everyday Australians 4. Advice for Business Owners and Professionals The necessity of having multiple income streams in uncertain economic times Overcoming ego and professional pride to pursue side hustles Adapting to AI and technological changes through upskilling 5. Common Financial Mistakes and Keys to Success Letting emotion and ego override disciplined decision-making Importance of building a process and learning before acting Taking action—avoiding both procrastination and recklessness Time-stamped overview 00:00 "City of London Finance Journey" 04:33 Success Without Fulfillment 07:02 "Dot-Com Era to Investment Journey" 10:25 "Investing Requires a Strong Why" 13:29 "Success Requires Strategy, Not Emotion" 18:26 Overcoming Ego in Professional Services 20:17 AI's Impact on Professional Careers 24:38 "Creating Tomorrow's Wealth Today" 28:37 "Boosting Business Cash Flow Strategies" 29:44 "Building Wealth Through Education" 34:57 "Learn Once, Grow Forever" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jordana Borensztajn is a comedian, keynote speaker, communication expert, and now, author of The Little Book of Influence. From being escorted off Facebook’s Silicon Valley campus  when she was dressed as a giant, like button to being booed on a cruise ship and even suffering an egg-related injury, Jordana has experienced her fair share of epic fails. But instead of shying away from these cringe-worthy moments, she’s turned them into comedy gold and powerful lessons on resilience, vulnerability, and authentic communication. Jordana shares how she mines her most embarrassing moments for laughter and learning, why leaning into vulnerability is so crucial for business owners, and how her “Presence Framework” can help anyone connect and influence more authentically. Plus, she opens up about the power of finding joy, the importance of listening to your body, and how her passion for magic and mentalism unlocked unexpected creativity during lockdown. Key topics 1. Turning Failure into Power and Comedy     Jordana Borensztajn uses personal and professional failures as material for growth and stand-up.     Signature story: the Facebook 'Like' costume incident and lessons in resilience and congruence. Encourages sharing failures to reduce the stigma and normalise vulnerability. 2. Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity Importance of showing up honestly in business and communication. Self-reflection: questioning if current choices make you happy or serve your goals. Authenticity as essential for genuine connection and influence. 3. The Presence Framework for Influence PRESENCE acronym for transformative communication. The power of nonverbal signals, congruence, and embodying your whole self. Practical tools like the “glitter chest” technique for confident presence. 4. Managing Pressure and Prioritising Wellbeing Advice for business owners to let go of perfection and prioritize health. Value of self-care activities: rest, hydration, meditation, movement\ Giving yourself permission to pause and recharge to avoid burnout. 5. The Joy of New Experiences: Magic and Mentalism Jordana Borensztajn explores magic duringlockdown, finding awe and playfulness. Using magic to facilitate wonder and learn about how people approach life. Integrating magic and mentalism into her professional toolkit. Time-stamped overview 00:00 Turning Cringe Into Comedy 03:41 From Comedy to Connection 07:50 Accused of Being Outside Mark's house 11:47 Authenticity Through Vulnerability 16:26 "Stories Inspiring Growth & Joy" 18:29 Authenticity Over Perfection 20:57 Dancing Breaks Fear Loops 26:46 Easing Perfection Pressure for Entrepreneurs 28:59 Energy Management Through Mindfulness 31:58 Magic: Love, Hate, or Revealing 35:30 Podcast Recap and Reminder Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Paul Taylor is a former Royal Navy air crew officer turned neuroscientist, psychologist, and exercise physiologist, to break down the concept of ‘Death by Comfort’, Dr. Taylor’s new book, The Hardiness Effect, explores how embracing a little stress and discomfort can make us stronger, sharper, and healthier. Dr Taylor dives into the science behind resilience, the dangers of modern convenience, and practical strategies for building mental and physical toughness—like cold showers, purposeful challenges, and reframing stress as an opportunity for growth. Whether you’re a small business owner wrestling with burnout or simply feeling stuck in a rut, this conversation offers actionable advice and fresh perspective for building a life with more energy, meaning, and resilience. Key topics 1. The Hardiness Effect: Foundations and Background Dr Paul Taylor’s diverse expertise (military, neuroscience, psychology, exercise physiology). Modern comfort is disconnecting us from ancestral stressors needed for resilience.  Hardiness combines mind and body for optimal health. Dr Taylor’s motivation for writing and research comes from both lived experience and scientific evidence. 2. Stress, Adaptation, and Practical Resilience Exposure to intermittent stress (exercise, cold, psychological challenge) strengthens body and mind. Simple habits like cold showers and breath control can build resilience. Psychological orientation: viewing stressors as challenges boosts recovery and growth. Deliberate discomfort and self-reflection reinforce confidence and adaptability. 3. The Role of Lifestyle and Technology Sedentary lifestyles and processed diets are misaligned with our genetic needs. Tech habits and excessive screen time drain attention, mood, and engagement in life. Healthy routines—exercise, nutrition, sleep, hobbies (Ikigai)—empower resilience. Balance is crucial: active participation trumps passive consumption for well-being. 4. Burnout, Mental Health, and Applying Hardiness Entrepreneurs are especially susceptible to burnout due to chronic stress. Recovery means engaging in energising, restorative activities—not just relaxation. Major signs of bad stress include low energy, motivation, and social withdrawal. Building hardiness: set boundaries, cultivate gratitude, and embrace life’s challenges.  Timestamped overview 00:00 "Hardiness: Strength Through Discomfort" 03:48 "Modern Life Mismatches Our Genome" 06:50 "Stress Builds Cellular Resilience" 12:13 Stress Inoculation and Growth 15:38 "Building Resilience Through Challenges" 18:05 Embrace Adversity, Build Confidence 20:14 "Finding Purpose and Setting Boundaries" 23:52 Life Beyond Screen Time 26:29 Preventing Burnout Early 30:34 "1 in 400 Trillion Life"   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices