You Are Not A Frog

Ever feel like everyone around you is a highly-skilled, super competent professional - and you’re just winging it? Everyone’s experienced self-doubt at some point. Listen to today’s replay to find out why calling it “imposter syndrome” isn’t always helpful - and what you can do instead. Episode 112Podcast linksSign up for the FREE Summer Holiday Working Survival Guide!Check out the Permission to Thrive CPD membership for doctorsSign up now for the Shapes Toolkit Programs to help you take control of your workload, feel better, and beat burnout.Check Dr Sarah’s previous episode on You Are Not A Frog:Episode 67: Bringing Your Best Self to WorkRead about Stop Telling Women They Have Imposter Syndrome by Ruchika Tulshyan  and Jodi-Ann BureyGrab a copy of The 6-Minute Success JournalVisit Sarah’s website or follow her on Twitter, Instagram, YouTube, and Linkedin.For more updates and episodes, visit the You Are Not A Frog website.You can also tune in on Google Podcasts, Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Sign up here to receive a link to the episode workbook and CPD form downloads for each podcast. You can use them for reflection and to submit for your appraisal.You can also join the Shapes Collective Facebook group where we chat about the hot topics and regularly post interesting articles. Have any questions?Contact Rachel through these platforms:LinkedIn: @Dr-Rachel-MorrisTwitter: @DrRachelMorrisEmail: hello@youarenotafrog.comFind out more about our training here.Find out more about this episode here: https://youarenotafrog.com/episode-112/

Are you feeling frustrated, resentful or fed up with work - but not sure if you want to break up with your career entirely? In this replay, Dr Pauline Morris shares how to cultivate a healthier relationship with your work, starting by understanding what you really want and need from your work.Episode 91Podcast linksSign up for the FREE Summer Holiday Working Survival Guide!Check out the Permission to Thrive CPD membership for doctorsSign up now for the Shapes Toolkit Programs to help you take control of your workload, feel better, and beat burnout.Ten Coping Strategies for Physicians by Dr Pauline MorrisLearn more about Dr Pauline’s programs: Doctors Caring for DoctorsConnect with Dr Pauline: Facebook | Twitter | LinkedInFor more updates and episodes, visit the You Are Not A Frog website.You can also tune in on Google Podcasts, Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Sign up here to receive a link to the episode workbook and CPD form downloads for each podcast. You can use them for reflection and to submit for your appraisal.You can also join the Shapes Collective Facebook group where we chat about the hot topics and regularly post interesting articles. Have any questions?Contact Rachel through these platforms:LinkedIn: @Dr-Rachel-MorrisTwitter: @DrRachelMorrisEmail: hello@youarenotafrog.comFind out more about our training here.Find out more about this episode here: https://youarenotafrog.com/summer-replay-episode-3/

In the second of our Summer replays, join Corrina Gordon-Barnes to learn how to make better decisions by taking a different perspective; the key to creating more fulfilling relationships; and how to stay in your “Zone of Power” when it comes to the big decisions in life.Episode 89Podcast linksSign up for the FREE Summer Holiday Working Survival Guide!Check out the Permission to Thrive CPD membership for doctorsSign up now for the Shapes Toolkit Programs to help you take control of your workload, feel better, and beat burnout.Check Corrina’s previous episode on You Are Not A Frog:E32: How to take control of your thoughts with Corrina Gordon-BarnesThe Work of Byron KatieStay within your zone of power through the Zone of Power handout.​​Visit Corrina’s website or follow her on Instagram, ​​Twitter, and LinkedIn.For more updates and episodes, visit the You Are Not A Frog website.You can also tune in on Google Podcasts, Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Sign up here to receive a link to the episode workbook and CPD form downloads for each podcast. You can use them for reflection and to submit for your appraisal.You can also join the Shapes Collective Facebook group where we chat about the hot topics and regularly post interesting articles. Have any questions?Contact Rachel through these platforms:LinkedIn: @Dr-Rachel-MorrisTwitter: @DrRachelMorrisEmail: hello@youarenotafrog.comFind out more about our training here.Find out more about this episode here: https://youarenotafrog.com/summer-replay-episode-2/

We’re kicking off our summer replay series with Dr Richard Pile, and his take on how to reconnect with your meaning and purpose in life. In this conversation, he shares why finding fulfillment can play a critical part in your well-being - and shares a brilliant framework to help you work out your own purpose.Episode 94Podcast linksSign up for the FREE Summer Holiday Working Survival Guide!Check out the Permission to Thrive CPD membership for doctorsSign up now for the Shapes Toolkit Programs to help you take control of your workload, feel better, and beat burnout.Create your ideal week using the THRIVE Week Planner!Books to help you find your purpose:Fit For Purpose by Dr Richard PileDrive by Daniel H. PinkThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark ComerIkigai TribeWellbeing For Real Life Podcast with Dr Richard PileConnect with Richard: Twitter | YouTube | WebsiteFor more updates and episodes, visit the You Are Not A Frog website.You can also tune in on Google Podcasts, Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Sign up here to receive a link to the episode workbook and CPD form downloads for each podcast. You can use them for reflection and to submit for your appraisal.LinkedIn: @Dr-Rachel-MorrisTwitter: @DrRachelMorrisEmail: hello@youarenotafrog.comFind out more about our training here.Find out more about the episode here: https://youarenotafrog.com/summer-replay-episode-1

We all know the overwhelm that comes from working in healthcare. But we often overlook the toxic combination that is stress and boredom. This happens when we choose to play it safe and instead ditch things that challenge us.Growth and development are keys to a thriving and well-lived life. When we enable ourselves to learn and grow, only then can we become happier, more successful, and more fulfilled.In this episode, Rachel discusses how to address and navigate the toxic combination of stress and boredom in the workplace. She talks about the role of learning in living a self-actualised life. Rachel also shares some recommendations you might find helpful for learning.If you want to learn how to make learning a habit in your life, stay tuned to this episode.Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:Find out the consequences of indulging in the toxic combination of stress and boredom.Learn ways to fit growth and development into your schedule.Discover the impact of prioritising self-development on your well-being.Episode Highlights[03:03] The Toxic Combination of Stress and Boredom[08:17] Throwing Learning Out of the Window[18:53] #1: Follow Your Interests and Develop Your Strengths[21:25] #2: Work Out What You Need Right Now[21:29] #3: Look at Ways of Learning that Also Hit the Five Ways to Well-being[24:34] #4: Determine How You Learn Best[27:26] #5: Find Ways to Use Your Right Brain[32:15] How to Find Time for LearningResourcesFREE Summer Holiday Working Survival GuideFive ways to mental wellbeingFree to Focus by Michael HyattEffortless by Greg McKeownThe Shardlake Series by C.J. SamsonHilary Mantel’s booksMartin Seligman: The new era of positive psychologyEnjoyed This Podcast?Write a review and share this with your friends.Connect With MeHave any questions? Contact Rachel through these platforms:LinkedIn: @Dr-Rachel-Morris Twitter: @DrRachelMorrisEmail: hello@youarenotafrog.comFind out more about our training here.Mentioned in this episode:The Anti-Burnout System Take back control of your time and your workload — before burnout makes the decision for you.Join FrogXtra The monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout, and thrive in work and life.

Healthcare professionals and people in demanding careers often accept stress as a way of life. However, unchecked stress will someday lead to burnout and create more problems for everyone involved.Our bold solution to this relentless problem is to start becoming obsessed with relaxation! We all know we need to calm down and relax, but how many of us actually do it? John C. Parkin joins us today and encourages us to say 'f**k it' more in our lives! Not everything is important, and sometimes we try too hard to live up to society's excessive expectations. John shares how overcoming stress and setting boundaries often results in overthinking and feelings of guilt.Let’s learn to finally prioritise relaxation in our lives and see how much better we become through it.Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:Discover the power of saying ‘f**k it’.Learn how to say ‘f**k it’ — even in situations that matter.Understand the importance of relaxation and why it should be a daily priority.Episode Highlights[05:07] How John Discovered the Power of ‘F**k It’[09:23] You Can’t Solve Stress with Thinking[14:14] How to Practise ‘F**k It’[16:07] How to Say ‘F**k It’ When It’s Hard [26:22] The First Step of ‘F**k It’[31:57] The Obstacle to Setting Boundaries and Overcoming Stress[35:06] How to Start Relaxing[41:52] How Relaxation Can Help You[50:08] The Power of Affirmations [59:13] John’s Top 3 Tips for RelaxationResourcesSign up for the FREE Summer Holiday Working Survival Guide!Find out how to ‘Relax Very Quickly’ for FREEYou Are Not A Frog Ep 15: Eff It Living. An evidence-based way to beat stress and change your life with John C. ParkinConnect with John: The Fuck It Life | LinkedIn | Twitter | EmailF**k It: The Ultimate Spiritual Way by John C. ParkinAll the books in the F**k It seriesStroke of Insight by Jill Bolte Taylor: Book | TED Talk THRIVE Weekly PlannerEnjoyed This Podcast?Write a review and share this with your friends.Connect With MeHave any questions? Contact Rachel through these platforms:LinkedIn: @Dr-Rachel-Morris Twitter: @DrRachelMorrisEmail: hello@youarenotafrog.comFind out more about our training here.Mentioned in this episode:The Anti-Burnout System Take back control of your time and your workload — before burnout makes the decision for you.Join FrogXtra The monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout, and thrive in work and life.

Have you seen stuff at work that has affected you deeply? Do you sometimes wonder if keeping calm and carrying on as usual is possibly not the best thing to do?Working on the frontline comes at the expense of many things, physically, mentally, and emotionally. However, this should not be the case. We need to take time and be kind to ourselves in these situations before we could go out and do our jobs.Dr Caroline Walker joins us again in this episode to discuss how trauma affects healthcare professionals working on the frontline. We talk about some steps we can take to help ourselves and each other process traumatic situations in healthy ways.Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:Find out what things cause a trauma response in us.Learn the difference between a normal acute trauma stress response and PTSD.Discover the three things you should do immediately following any traumatic event.Episode Highlights[05:31] The Inherent Trauma in the Field of Healthcare[10:05] Trauma in the Professional vs Personal Life[12:08] Normal Trauma Response[14:58] Coping with Repeated Trauma[17:15] Recognising Trauma[21:49] Trauma Processing[22:56] Normal Stress Response vs Acute Stress Reaction vs PTSD[24:50] How Trauma Is Treated[27:01] Other Reactions from Traumatic Events[28:26] Tips on Dealing with Traumatic Situations at the Time and After[32:42] The Role of Team Debriefing[35:04] Connecting with Your Normal Support Network[38:57] How to Give Yourself Permission to Thrive[41:06] Caroline’s Top Three Tips for Coping with TraumaResourcesSign up for our Permission to Thrive FREE WEBINAR to learn how to thrive at work, even in a demanding job!Permission to Thrive CPD Monthly MembershipResilient Team AcademyConnect with Caroline: The Joyful Doctor | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | LinkedInThis is Going to Hurt SeriesThis is Going to Hurt by Adam Kay4000 Weeks by Oliver BurkemanTED Talk: Oliver Burkeman: How to stop fighting against time.Enjoyed This Podcast?Write a review and share this with your friends.Connect With MeHave any questions? Contact Rachel through these platforms:LinkedIn: @Dr-Rachel-Morris Twitter: @DrRachelMorrisEmail: rachel@wildmonday.co.ukFind out more about our training here.Mentioned in this episode:The Anti-Burnout System Take back control of your time and your workload — before burnout makes the decision for you.Join FrogXtra The monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout, and thrive in work and life.

While taking time away from work, you may realize that your career path is not what you wanted it to be. You might find that many things need to change in order for you to pursue your ideal life. Fortunately, returning to work can be your opportunity to make changes in your life. Have the intention to take the steps to avoid burnout and live out your ideal life.In this episode, Dr. Katya Miles and Rachel continue their talk about what you can do after returning from a break at work. You might find that with proper planning and intention, your return is just what you need to start making some changes. From self-care to checking in, you can take this opportunity to live your ideal life and career. If you want to find out more about planning a working life you want, listen to this episode of You Are Not a Frog.Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:Discover how planning and being intentional can keep you on track to your ideal life and career.Learn how self-care doesn’t benefit only you, but the people around you as well.Discover the opportunities that your time away, and your return, can create for you.Episode Highlights[04:58] Planning Ahead[10:35] What You “Should” Do[12:43] Self-Care for Others[16:50] Opportunities In Returning to Work[20:15] Little Changes[23:15] Career and Life Check-Ins[28:25] Incomparable LivesResourcesLearn to beat stress and work happier with the Shapes Toolkit. Learn to use the toolkit with your team by joining the Resilient Team Academy.Sign up and use the THRIVE Weekly Planner to plan out your ideal working weeks.Find out more about Rachel’s business Wild Monday.You Are Not a Frog Episode 123: How to Live With No Regrets with Georgina ScullThe Summer Day by Mary OliverConnect and learn more about Dr. Katya MilesLinkedInThe Working Well DoctorE-mailMentioned in this episode:The Anti-Burnout System Take back control of your time and your workload — before burnout makes the decision for you.Join FrogXtra The monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout, and thrive in work and life.

When major issues occur in your life, it’s often necessary to take a break and deal with them, and of course there’s also the other reasons we take significant time off work - maternity or parental leave, taking a sabbatical or taking a career break. Whatever the reason for being off work, being off for a prolonged period can lead to a loss of confidence and anxiety when you are finally able to return, which may cause you to worry that you’re just going to slip back to where you were….In this episode, the first in our series about ‘What to do after burnout’, Rachel talks with Dr Katya Miles about how to return to work after a long absence and how to thrive again. They explore the fears and doubts people often face and how to overcome them. You’ll learn Katya’s tips on how to regain confidence and prevent burnout happening all over again.If you want to find out how to thrive in your work again, this episode is for you!3 reasons why you should listen to the full episode:Learn the common struggles with returning to work.Find out how to overcome these fears and regain your confidence.Discover ways to prevent stress and burnout from reoccurring.Episode Highlights[06:43] Issues with Returning to Work[10:18] The Benefits of Being Off Work[14:14] How to Regain Confidence[19:17] What to Do When You’re Back to Work[21:41] Sharing Your Situation[26:46] Acknowledge Your Skills[31:33] Nipping Stress and Burnout in the Bud[35:27] How to Avoid and Prevent Burnout[42:15] Top Tips for Going Back to WorkResourcesShapes ToolkitFind out more about the  Resilient Team AcademyMore episodes on burnout:Ep 25 - The Truth about BurnoutEp 64 - What to Do When You're Out of FuelEp 83 - The Ups and Downs of Being a Man-FrogMore episodes with Katya:Ep 72 - Working well - from anywhere!Ep 79 - How to Give Yourself Permission to ThriveConnect with Katya: Email | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | TwitterJoin Katya’s Newsletter - Thrive Well News.Register for the Burnout Remedy CourseThe Working Well Doctor Yerkes-Dodson Stress Response CurveWhatsAppSuppoRTTPractitioner HealthSleep DiplomatMentioned in this episode:The Anti-Burnout System Take back control of your time and your workload — before burnout makes the decision for you.Join FrogXtra The monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout, and thrive in work and life.

Many of us spend most of our days within the four walls of our home and workplace. With everything we have to do, it seems challenging to set aside a few minutes out of our indoor spaces. But when you find the time to connect with nature, you might discover new perspectives and insights into your life.Henri Stevenson joins us to talk about the ways connecting with nature can shift our thinking and open up new solutions. We discuss the differences in our thoughts and feelings when we're in nature versus within artificial walls. She shares her stories of finding metaphors for life situations reflected in nature and what she learned from them. Henri reminds us that sometimes, the solutions to our problems may show up in quiet spaces when we take a few moments to connect with nature.Curious about how to take time to learn and connect with nature? Learn how and much more when you tune into this episode!3 Reasons to Listen:Find out the importance of taking some time to relax and take your thoughts on a walk.Learn to connect with nature in a way that fits your life (even if you only have 5 minutes!).Discover different perspectives on your life with the help of nature.Episode Highlights[05:33] How Henri Learned to Connect With Nature[08:41] Stepping Out of the House and Office[09:48] Bringing Your Thoughts Into Nature[14:40] Life Lessons From Nature[17:09] The Seasons of Life and Nature[19:28] Finding Meanings[22:34] Learning in Relaxation[25:50] The Outside VS Office Perspective[28:45] Where to Connect with Nature[31:29] Setting Aside Time for Walk[36:54] A Long Retreat Into Nature[41:26] Henri’s Final AdviceResourcesHenri is also running a one-day thinking nature retreat in Hertfordshire this July.Join us in connecting with nature during our September Retreat. Reserve your place here.Beat stress and work happier with the Shapes Toolkit. Use the toolkit with your team by joining the Resilient Team Academy.Find out more about Henri Stevenson on her websiteWanderful: Human Navigation for a Complex World by David PearlPodcast Street Wisdom by David PearlYou Are Not a Frog Episode 15 with John C. Parkin talking about his book, F**k It: The Ultimate Spiritual Way Grounded: How Connection With Nature Can Improve Our Mental and Physical Well Being by Dr Ruth AllenBirds songs from the RSPB Nature ReserveYou Are Not a Frog Episode 117 with Dr Claire Kaye on self-coachingGreen and Blue Spaces and Mental Health, a study by the World Health OrganizationFind walking routes on the Ramblers Association websiteYou Are Not a Frog Episode 94 with Mentioned in this episode:The Anti-Burnout System Take back control of your time and your workload — before burnout makes the decision for you.Join FrogXtra The monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout, and thrive in work and life.