Modern Love
The New York Times
For 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast.
Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday.
Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
Listen to this podcast in New York Times Audio, our new iOS app for news subscribers. Download now at nytimes.com/audioapp
Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday.
Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
Listen to this podcast in New York Times Audio, our new iOS app for news subscribers. Download now at nytimes.com/audioapp
Episodes
Mentioned books
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Jul 30, 2025 • 44min
How to Stop Asking 'Are You Mad at Me?'
Meg Josephson, a therapist and author of 'Are You Mad at Me?', shares insights from her journey of overcoming the childhood habit of people pleasing. She discusses how this fawn response, rooted in early family dynamics, shaped her adult relationships and sense of self. A pivotal moment in a Bed Bath & Beyond reveals her struggle with self-awareness. Josephson also reflects on the longing for parental love, the warmth of chosen families, and the complexities of navigating emotional insecurities in relationships.
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Jul 23, 2025 • 37min
Reneé Rapp on Blurring the Line Between Bestie and Lover
Reneé Rapp, a pop singer and actress known for her role in "Mean Girls," shares her deep appreciation for friendships and the blurred lines that can exist between platonic and romantic love. Known for her candidness, she discusses her intimate group chat with 15 friends and how shared experiences can deepen connections. Rapp reflects on navigating emotional complexities, vulnerability, and misunderstandings within queer friendships, emphasizing the messiness yet profound beauty of these relationships in her music and life.
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Dec 7, 2015 • 2min
Introducing 'Modern Love: The Podcast'
Dive into heartfelt tales of love that illuminate the joys and challenges of relationships. Personal essays are brought to life by notable voices, each sharing their unique experiences of love, loss, and redemption. Listeners are invited to connect personally with these intimate stories, making it a reminder of love's complexity and beauty. Join the journey through relatable anecdotes that resonate and inspire, perfect for anyone who believes in the transformative power of love.
