Eli Tan, a New York Times reporter, dives into the bizarre world of AI in dating apps. He shares his experiences experimenting with AI clones that mimic users’ personalities to handle dating for them. The conversation reveals the absurdity of online dating, where fake profiles and unresponsive texters are the norm. Eli candidly discusses the balance between technology and genuine connection, including the ethical dilemmas of AI coaching in romance. Ultimately, he ponders if AI can lead to more authentic interactions or just deeper confusion.

Daniel Jones, the founder of the Modern Love column, reflects on two decades of real-life love stories that have shaped his understanding of relationships. He shares three impactful essays that highlight the evolving nature of love. Topics include the beauty of impermanence and the lessons learned from fleeting connections. Jones also touches on love, loss, and the courage required in adoption, revealing how vulnerability and empathy can lead to profound emotional growth.

Explore the trials and tribulations of love in these deeply personal essays. A collaboration of The New York Times and WBUR in Boston, Modern Love: The Podcast features the popular New York Times column, with readings by notable personalities and updates from the essayists themselves. Join host Meghna Chakrabarti (WBUR) and Modern Love editor Daniel Jones (NYT) -- and fall in love at first listen. Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.