Modern Love
The New York Times
For 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast.
Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday.
Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.
Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday.
Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.
Episodes
Mentioned books
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Jan 14, 2026 • 55min
Was I Married To A Stranger?
Belle Burden, a memoirist whose essay on her sudden divorce gained viral attention, shares her profound story. She recalls the shocking voicemail that unveiled her husband's affair and her emotional unraveling. Belle discusses how her decision to openly confront her husband's departure defied societal norms, leading to community backlash. Through the chaos, she learned to reclaim her identity and even found personal growth in the aftermath of her 20-year marriage. Now, she reveals how this experience has transformed her into a stronger version of herself.
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Jan 7, 2026 • 41min
Want to have better sex this year? Here’s how.
This week features Nicole McNichols, a psychology professor and human sexuality expert at the University of Washington. She discusses how miscommunication can sabotage sexual satisfaction and shares research showing that sexual fulfillment can improve relationship health. Nicole provides tips for better communication, emphasizes the importance of consent and pleasure, and reveals that introducing novelty in the bedroom can reignite passion. She encourages listeners to own their pleasure and regularly check in on their sexual needs for a more satisfying sex life.
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Dec 7, 2015 • 2min
Introducing 'Modern Love: The Podcast'
Dive into heartfelt tales of love that illuminate the joys and challenges of relationships. Personal essays are brought to life by notable voices, each sharing their unique experiences of love, loss, and redemption. Listeners are invited to connect personally with these intimate stories, making it a reminder of love's complexity and beauty. Join the journey through relatable anecdotes that resonate and inspire, perfect for anyone who believes in the transformative power of love.
