
Modern Love Was I Married To A Stranger?
37 snips
Jan 14, 2026 Belle Burden, a memoirist whose essay on her sudden divorce gained viral attention, shares her profound story. She recalls the shocking voicemail that unveiled her husband's affair and her emotional unraveling. Belle discusses how her decision to openly confront her husband's departure defied societal norms, leading to community backlash. Through the chaos, she learned to reclaim her identity and even found personal growth in the aftermath of her 20-year marriage. Now, she reveals how this experience has transformed her into a stronger version of herself.
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
Voicemail That Changed Everything
- Belle Burden received a voicemail from a man saying her husband was having an affair, which shattered her sense of safety during COVID quarantine.
- She confronted her husband, tried to maintain normalcy for their kids, and later locked herself in the bathroom to wail.
Morning Announcement And Departure
- At six in the morning her husband said a “switch had flipped” and declared he wanted a divorce, then left immediately with a packed bag.
- He told her she could have custody and the house and then boarded a ferry back to New York.
Telling The Kids And The Sandwich
- When Belle told the children, her younger daughter first thought it was a joke and then screamed, while her older daughter watched calmly.
- Her husband then asked for a sandwich before leaving and later texted "that was a great visit!"

