

Connected Parenting
Jennifer Kolari
Connected Parenting shares techniques that therapists use to help parents soothe their child as well as enhance the parent-child bond and is based on the understanding that correcting and guiding behavior works best when it is preceded by and linked to empathy. At the heart of this parenting model is the CALM Technique which helps parents accurately attune to children’s affect and experience. These empathic interactions release reward chemicals in the brain that stimulate positive emotions and increase order and balance in the nervous system. Reward chemicals, including natural opiates, endorphins, and a powerful hormone called oxytocin, reduce and inhibit stress hormones and bathe the brain in positive emotions that ripple through every cell in the body. The benefits of empathy and compassion have a strong base in science that cannot be underestimated. Simply put, it is brain food, the emotional nutrition all of us need, perhaps our children most of all.
Although many parenting techniques stress the importance of empathy, Connected Parenting will show you how to use it skillfully to repair frayed bonds, deescalate tantrums, contain and correct difficult behaviors and help your child to become more confident and emotionally resilient. We use a collaborative and supportive coaching model and provide inspirational, easy-to-understand techniques grounded in neuroscience and attachment. In the end, your child will be more compliant, more relaxed, and – most importantly – happier. Connected Parenting will bring out the best in you and your child.
Although many parenting techniques stress the importance of empathy, Connected Parenting will show you how to use it skillfully to repair frayed bonds, deescalate tantrums, contain and correct difficult behaviors and help your child to become more confident and emotionally resilient. We use a collaborative and supportive coaching model and provide inspirational, easy-to-understand techniques grounded in neuroscience and attachment. In the end, your child will be more compliant, more relaxed, and – most importantly – happier. Connected Parenting will bring out the best in you and your child.
Episodes
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Oct 20, 2020 • 20min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 34 – What a Shame about Shame!
Healthy shame vs. toxic shame and how to know the difference. In this episode, Jennifer will help you understand the difference between these two types of shame and she will show you how to help your children understand it too.

Oct 6, 2020 • 25min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 33 – Healthy Adversity
In this episode, Jennifer talks about how important it is to let kids experience healthy adversity. Challenges, mistakes, and failures are critical to learning, good mental health, and emotional resilience. Learn how to help your children benefit from life’s contrasts and bumps and how to stay calm while you do.

Sep 25, 2020 • 45min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 32 – Let’s Talk… Back to School.
In this Episode, Jennifer talks Back to School again, this time with special Guest Natalie Syrmopoulos from Evolving with Natalie. Jennifer and Natalie are both parents and they discuss the unique challenges that parents face this school year.

Sep 13, 2020 • 0sec
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 31 – Anxiety…we are all feeling it.
Anxiety is so miserable but it is also manageable. In this episode Jennifer shares essential tips for calming your own fear and anxiety as well as how to model this for your children. Learn how to control anxiety, so it doesn’t control you.

Sep 3, 2020 • 0sec
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 30 – Back to School 2020!
This year it's back to school like no other year! Jennifer helps you to navigate a start to school in unprecedented times.

Jun 23, 2020 • 15min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 29 – The Father Effect
Kids do better with strong loving fathers and when fathers use the Connected Parenting method it kicks it up a notch! This episode explores the unique dynamics of fatherhood and how to understand and work with the dynamics of both hard and soft parenting.

Jun 5, 2020 • 11min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 28 – Mealtime Battles and Food Fights
Take the fight out of food! In this episode Jennifer Helps parents deal with picky eating and power struggles at the dinner table.

May 6, 2020 • 31min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 27 – One Parent’s Journey With Connected Parenting
Jennifer has a great conversation with Lynda Gourianov a connected parent with a feisty gladiator child. Lynda shares her journey through the ups and downs and way-ups of Connected Parenting.

Apr 8, 2020 • 15min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 26 – Quaranteenagers
In this episode, Jennifer helps parents understand what teens are going through and how the current state of the world is affecting them. Learn how to help teens during these unprecedented times.

Apr 2, 2020 • 12min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 25 – Therapeutic Story Telling
In this episode, Jennifer describes a wonderful activity to do with your kids - interactive storytelling. It is a great way to connect with your children, release oxytocin and adrenaline, and work out what may bother them using adventure and imagination. Jennifer recorded this prior to parks being closed in many cities, so keep in mind this will work in your backyard and on a neighborhood walk.


