

Connected Parenting
Jennifer Kolari
Connected Parenting shares techniques that therapists use to help parents soothe their child as well as enhance the parent-child bond and is based on the understanding that correcting and guiding behavior works best when it is preceded by and linked to empathy. At the heart of this parenting model is the CALM Technique which helps parents accurately attune to children’s affect and experience. These empathic interactions release reward chemicals in the brain that stimulate positive emotions and increase order and balance in the nervous system. Reward chemicals, including natural opiates, endorphins, and a powerful hormone called oxytocin, reduce and inhibit stress hormones and bathe the brain in positive emotions that ripple through every cell in the body. The benefits of empathy and compassion have a strong base in science that cannot be underestimated. Simply put, it is brain food, the emotional nutrition all of us need, perhaps our children most of all.
Although many parenting techniques stress the importance of empathy, Connected Parenting will show you how to use it skillfully to repair frayed bonds, deescalate tantrums, contain and correct difficult behaviors and help your child to become more confident and emotionally resilient. We use a collaborative and supportive coaching model and provide inspirational, easy-to-understand techniques grounded in neuroscience and attachment. In the end, your child will be more compliant, more relaxed, and – most importantly – happier. Connected Parenting will bring out the best in you and your child.
Although many parenting techniques stress the importance of empathy, Connected Parenting will show you how to use it skillfully to repair frayed bonds, deescalate tantrums, contain and correct difficult behaviors and help your child to become more confident and emotionally resilient. We use a collaborative and supportive coaching model and provide inspirational, easy-to-understand techniques grounded in neuroscience and attachment. In the end, your child will be more compliant, more relaxed, and – most importantly – happier. Connected Parenting will bring out the best in you and your child.
Episodes
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Feb 3, 2021 • 16min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 43 – From Worriers to Warriors
In this episode Jennifer shares practical tips that really work to help you teach your child to go from a worrier to a warrior.

Jan 26, 2021 • 16min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 42 – How to Help Through Heartbreak
In this episode Jennifer shares how to help your teens with heart break. It is so hard to watch your child suffer and at times it hurts us more than them, but there is much to learn as kids practice life and learn how to grow and thrive through whatever life throws at them. This episode will cover the what to do and what not to do to help your kids heal.

Jan 19, 2021 • 17min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 41 – Big Hurts and Little Hurts
If 2020 taught us anything it’s that we have to help our kids deal with change and disappointment. In this episode Jennifer talks about how to help your kids manage big hurts and little hurts. Listen to find out how to help your kids develop the emotional shock absorbers needed to handle anything.

Jan 6, 2021 • 15min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 40 – External Screens vs. Internal Screens
Jennifer talks about the importance of learning to control our mental screens, what we think about and how to help our children master this important skill.

Dec 16, 2020 • 19min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 39 – When Parents Polarize
In this episode, Jennifer explores why couples work against each other, how to stop it, and how to harmonize.

Dec 8, 2020 • 15min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 38 – Stand-Up vs. Lie Down Parenting
In this episode, Jennifer discusses the difference between parenting 100% in the present and parenting only halfway, and how different parenting styles affect your kids.

Nov 10, 2020 • 14min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 37 – When Nice is…Not So Nice
In this episode, Jennifer talks about the downside of being nice and how being nice can be toxic. There is a big difference between being nice and being kind. Discover the difference and learn why being kind is always the better choice.

Nov 3, 2020 • 22min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 36 – The Art of Staying Neutral
In this episode, Jennifer discusses the art of being neutral, one of the most important pillars in the Connected Parenting method. Although it may sound simple, it is often the hardest thing to do. People often have different ideas of what being neutral actually means. Jennifer discusses the nuances and delivers practical and meaningful strategies to help you stay neutral and stay calm.

Nov 2, 2020 • 15min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 35 – Halloween… A Scary Time for Parents!
Halloween can be such a fun time for kids...candy, costumes and decorations! However, for many of our kids Halloween can mean anxiety and behavioural issues! This can make it a scary time for parents! In this episode Jennifer shares how to combat the halloween fears and the bedtime scares, and keep you and your kids CALM this Halloween!

Oct 23, 2020 • 15min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 35 – Halloween… A Scary Time for Parents!
Halloween can be such a fun time for kids...candy, costumes and decorations! However, for many of our kids Halloween can mean anxiety and behavioural issues! This can make it a scary time for parents! In this episode Jennifer shares how to combat the halloween fears and the bedtime scares, and keep you and your kids CALM this Halloween!


